Duck familyDear Em & Lo,
I am engaged to the father of my child. Since I met him, it has been one problem after another. He has brought debt into my life; there is a rumor that goes around that he is sleeping with my co-workers; I just found out that any time he goes on a trip, he sleeps around; and he is still in communication with his ex-girfriend, though he claims he has not spoken to the girl for a long time. What surprises me is that he lies so much. I would love to break the engagement, but am feeling sorry for my six-months-old baby. I am confused - I have tried to forgive, but I can never trust him again. Will things work out?
- Love Wears Blinders
Oh, we hate the hard ones!
If we were a Magic Eight Ball, we would answer your question, "Will things work out?" with the succinct: "Outlook not so good," or "My sources say no," or "Don't count on it." Actually, screw that - the Magic Eight Ball is not nearly blunt enough. Here's our short answer: Get out now.Read More »from Should I Stay with a Cheat for My Newborn Baby?