the pastWe hear it all of the time, "keep the past in the past." We are taught that dwelling on yesterday can be toxic for our relationships and to call it anything less than a hindrance to our relationship's growth would be an understatement. But, sometimes revisiting the past can be a good thing. However, as with many things it all comes down to how you look at it.
I, for one, am a proponent of looking back. While I agree that dwelling on the past can cause problems within your relationship, particularly when it comes to holding onto past hurt and indiscretions, this isn't always the case. Despite the fact that some people decide to keep a record of their spouse's wrongs, falling into that seemingly natural tendency to focus on all that is wrong in their relationships instead of everything that is right, some of us can pull a host of positives from the past.
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