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A girl has to have a decent vibe by her bedside, but remember when vibrators used to be kinda plain -- sort of vaguely penis-esque or wand-like, and that was that? If you found a cool color you were lucky.

Well, hold onto your nightstands, ladies, because the new crop of vibrators takes their shape from food. Yes, food.

1. Sweet Cakes Cupcake Vibrator
We love cupcakes, but a vibrating cupcake? This baby not only looks real (in a very shiny way), it also has five different kinds of vibrations. Downside: Maneuvering this thing. A little awkward, we'd guess.

2. iScream Silicone Sex Toy
This popsicle-inspired one doesn't buzz, but you can literally throw it in the freezer for a 'cool' sensation before you use it. Yum?

3. Bananarammer Vibrating Silicone Sex Toy
You can add your own little bullet vibe to the inside of this neon banana. The question is, would you want to?

4. Candy Cane Hide-A-Vibe
If you're traveling for the holidays, this is one way

by Hannah Miller


I've third-wheeled many a date in my lifetime as the token single friend. Now, I'm never sure how the happy couple feels when I tag along, but personally, I'm a huge fan of said wheeling. You get to enjoy a movie without the anxiety of deciding where to strategically place your hand on the armrest. You can go to town on a plate of spaghetti, while your friend is stuck cutting her salad. And you can wear sweatpants. Need I say more? I didn't think so.

But since coming back to school, I am no longer a third wheel, but rather, the seventh. When I left for New York, the Fourtress (the name of our apartment) had a majority of single ladies -- three of the four of us, in fact. Our nights were spent attempting to fit on one bike, keeping up with the Kardashians and partaking in random shenanigans around campus. That's what I thought was going to be the kickoff to my last quarter as a senior, but as soon as I touched down in Chi-town, two of my roomies had updates for me;

Lingerie, for men?When it comes to lingerie, guys don't exactly have many options: It's basically a choice of banana hammock, tighty-whities, or boxer briefs. (We're partial to the third one.)

By Natasha Burton

However a just-launched line of lacy duds for dudes seems to be filling the void. The HommeMystere collection features teddies, padded bras and delicate man-thongs. In fact, the line specifically targets straight dudes: The website depicts guys and gals fooling around pre-sexy time in coordinating skivvies. (See above. Yes, that is a real photo of a man-cami.)

Now, we consider ourselves pretty darn open-minded when it comes to sex. And we appreciate the fact that this company is making frilly lingerie tailored to guys' bodies for dudes who are into this sort of thing. (To each his own when it comes to pleasure of the flesh, we say!)

But, try as we might, we're not all that turned on by the image of a dude in a matching bra and panties. In fact, we'd probably be more than a little turned off

Together foreverIf you're married and you want to stay that way, you may not think divorced couples are doing anything right, but it turns out divorced parents do have a thing or two to teach married couples with kids about happiness. According to YourTango, divorced parents are happier with their kids and happier with their romantic lives because they have downtime away from parenting.

Now, you don't have to be in a co-parenting (or parallel parenting) situation to get the benefits of the divorced lifestyle. (And for the record, though it goes without saying, the divorced lifestyle certainly can have drawbacks.) What you do need is to commit yourself to getting the kids a babysitter (or taking them to a friend or relative's house) at least once a week, if not two or three times a week, if only for just two hours. Three times is ideal in my estimation: that offers a chance for both you and your spouse to go out alone while the other has the house to themselves plus a chance for you to go out

While reading this article in The Atlantic about parenting advice as it has changed over the centuries, I stumbled across a curious tome from 1870 entitled The Physical Life of Woman: Advice to the Maiden, Wife and Mother. It was written by a man named Dr. George H. Napheys, who published a second edition in 1878. After fighting in the Civil War, Dr. Napheys received his medical degree and began to practice in Philadelphia, where in 1869 he started his tome on the health and well-being of the fairer sex. Although the The Physical Life of Woman is laughably outdated and anti-feminist, much of the advice Dr. Napheys gives still holds up today. Take a tour through his thoughts on love, dating, marriage and divorce and see for yourself how much yet how little has changed in 143 years. Click through for 7 crazy beliefs about women from 1870! -By Carolyn Castiglia

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Last fall, my boyfriend was in the process of moving when my landlord decided to kick me out (I'd spent thousands of dollars to renovate the apartment she technically owned, all without her permission). On the upside of eviction, I saw a message: The universe wants me to live with my boyfriend-in a place furnished with dimmers and proper faucets so I won't have to hire an unlicensed electrician and plumber to install them. My boyfriend agreed.

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Some might call this "sliding, not deciding" to cohabit. But even after living alone for ten years, I didn't feel compelled to spend hours weighing the pros and cons of moving in together. If anything, since my divorcé of a boyfriend had already gone down the traditional relationship path, I was excited to "live in sin." It was something new for both of us. I didn't view it as all that serious, or some giant leap toward engagement.

To me, shacking up provided the

The Tower card reversed suggests that the damage may have already been done. If you are sticking your head in the sand for fear that facing the drama head-on might be ruinous, you might be surprised if the inevitable impact or shock isn't as drastic as you though. The other person might actually be expecting it. If you have built barriers of arrogance or inadequacy, your illusions may be dispelled in a flash. An unexpected moment of comeuppance or surprise could knock you off your pedestal like a bolt out of the blue.

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