The Strength card suggests that you should try to be flexible and receptive. Listen to your instincts and believe there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will be able to persevere, take action or get over it. Be honest with yourself and open to suggestion. Trust in your own ability to demonstrate patience and hang in there; courage, determination and action -- not words -- can help you more effectively influence and deal with the demands of daily life.

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Laurie SandellOur good friend, colleague, and fellow shameless Bachelor fan, Laurie Sandell, is a successful freelance magazine writer (Marie Claire, New York, In Style), graphic memoirist (The Impostor's Daughter), nonfiction book author (Truth and Consequences: Life Inside the Madoff Family) and coffee shop dweller (18th Street Coffee Shop in Santa Monica). This past weekend, her wonderful essay "How to Break Up with a Two Year Old" was the "Modern Love" column in the New York Times Styles section this past Sunday -- her first Times piece! In it, she tells her story of how falling in love with a man, then falling in love with his little girl, then eventually having to break up with both of them ultimately convinced her that she wanted a baby no matter what, partner or no. Now 15 weeks pregnant, Laurie did us the honor of answering a few of our nosy questions about it all:

WHEN YOU LINKED TO YOUR ARTICLE ON FACEBOOK, you mentioned the "surprise" at the end -- was this your coming out party to

Had a fight? Count to 10 before changing your Facebook status. New world, new rules to make love work now. By Elise Nersesian-Solé

You don't need to carve out time for a romantic getaway to refresh your marriage. Instead, try one of these small bonding secrets each day to give your love a big boost. By Holly Corbett, REDBOOK.

Send him lexts (love texts)
When we focus on something, we tend to see it show up more often. So try sending him a text every day this month that acknowledges something you appreciate about him, such as "I love that you get me peanut M&Ms when I have PMS." "My husband did a text appreciation month for me after he forgot to get me a Valentine's Day card one year, and I was surprised that he found something new to write every single day - it made me feel so cherished," says Orna Walters, who co-founded Creating Love on Purpose, a relationship coaching service, with her husband, Matthew.

Use this excuse to hang those old pics
Research confirms that experiences rather than things increase your happiness levels, and recounting shared moments in your relationship can also boost marital

Source: 5 Muscle Myths You Should Stop Believing

It may be April Fools' day, but it's time to stop fooling yourself; many often-believed "facts" about strength-training are actually false. Here are five common myths about muscles, and why they aren't true.

• Heavy weights make you bulk up: It's a common belief: lifting heavy weights will have you looking more bodybuilder than long and lean. But in reality, your muscles won't get Ms. Olympia-sized from lifting a 20-pound kettlebell; the size of your muscles is related to your genes and strength-training routine, not the size of your weights. Using heavier weights actually saves you time - studies show that you will get the same results when lifting heavier weights for fewer reps as you do with lifting lighter weights for longer. But no matter what size weight you use, make sure you choose one that is challenging your body the right way. The American Council on Exercise recommends that you choose a weight that fatigues your muscles

They both sometimes wear black. (Getty Images) She's 23. He's 37. She's 5 foot 1. He's 6 foot 6. The first time they met at a party she said "You're huge." And he said "You're tiny." And so began the greatest love story of our time. No joke. Hayden Panettiere, "Nashville" star and Lifetime movie regular is very possibly engaged to Wladimir Klitschko, the Ukrainian professional heavyweight champion whose bloody head was once silk-screened onto an opponent's t-shirt. I probably wouldn't have set the two up on a blind date, but what do I know.
"We've been friends for five years - we've never not been close," Hayden says in latest issue of Glamour. These two crazy kids have been off-and-on for a couple of years, and now they're maybe going to marry and have kids and take more beach vacations like the one they've been tweeting about this week. So it works. Maybe it's because opposites attract (according a famous cat) or maybe it's because they really have more in common than we realize. For example: They both were human kids once.

Puppy LoveThe love experts at YourTango note that "Pet ownership among single people increased from 46.9% in 2006 to 54.7% in 2011." Blogger Liz Newman says that's because "pets inherently know only one way to love: unconditionally." She goes on to talk about how she acquired her 7 pound maltese, Joe, after a breakup. She says, "I wasn't even thinking about getting a dog, but he came into my life and was an instant healer; it was remarkable."

Regular readers know that I rescued my dog Buddy back in November after Hurricane Sandy. I didn't adopt him so much to avoid feeling lonely, but having a male companion around - even of the canine variety - certainly does go a long way toward making me feel centered. When I'm home working and my daughter's at school, I can always take a quick break for a doggie hug if I need it, and the routine of taking him out for walks and feeding him is soothing in its own way. Newman notes that "Widowers, divorcees [ed. note: that's me!], and separated couples with

Michael Rozman/Warner BrosOn the heels of his highly-publicized March breakup with Katy Perry, 28, singer John Mayer, 35, appeared on "The Ellen Degeneres Show" on Tuesday wearing "that hat" and shedding light on their on-again, off-again relationship. "Listen," he says. "It was a very private relationship going in. It was a private relationship during and it's a private relationship, still. I can understand asking the question." He added, "I'm on the same journey as everyone else. Coupling is a tricky thing." Mayer has lots of experience "coupling" with some of the most sought-after women in the world—Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Aniston, and Taylor Swift are only a few names on his dating roster. And in addition to being the King of TMI, he's also been known to coin his own brand of relationship wisdom. Here are some of his best gems.

Always get the last word: In 2008, fresh off a workout and possibly suffering from low blood sugar, Mayer held an impromptu press conference outside his New