The Two of Chalices card reversed suggests that trust or approval might be damaged and hopes may be dashed. You could be drifting apart or disinclined to a reconciliation, or you might be facing a break-up or a disagreement regarding your arrangements and plans for the future. Before taking drastic action, be certain that you are not taking things too personally, reacting to unfounded gossip and social expectations or refusing to open your heart and see the other side because of pride. This trouble could actually serve as a blessing in disguise if you use it as a means to work to rebuild your own confidence and self-esteem through self-forgiveness and by learning to love yourself. Once done, you will embody this purpose, compassion, unconditional love and intention and will recognize your soul mate intuitively.

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break up gifts More attention-grabbing than the news that petite power couple Ryan Seacrest and Julianne Hough broke up, and even more startling than the time they dated tallying three years, was the rumor that Seacrest gifted his newly ex-girlfriend with a $3 million departing gift.

The story was that Seacrest gave his house to Hough as a farewell gift when their relationship ended. And although TMZ and "sources" now say that the exchange simply never happened (and as "credible" as TMZ and "sources" usually are, I have to ask why we never seem to see both reporting in on celeb goss as the same time - hmm…), the "absolutely, positively false" story does raise an interesting question for couples on the outs, unhappy partners and those people thinking of Seacrest-Hough-ing it.

Should you give your ex (or nearly ex or just-about-ex or you're-looking-pretty-ex-y-today-ex) a token of appreciation (or guilt or concession) when you split?

If you need to cut and run, the answer is clearly no. But what if

You may be lying to yourself.By Terri Trespicio for HowAboutWe

If you're thinking of taking a break from dating "to focus on yourself," you're doing yourself a big disservice. You're also lying.

Why? Because no matter how many reasons or justifications you have for needing a break, at the end of the day, not going out on dates because you "want a break" is little more than fear dressed as empowerment. Sure, it sounds like a well-thought out decision, perhaps even spiritually evolved…which is why it often escapes without scrutiny.

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Not that you don't have excuses to back it up, because we all do: Work is crazy. My cat is sick. I want to renovate. I'm emotionally exhausted. I want to read more.

What you'd really like to do is pretend you're not looking for a great relationship. You'd like to be off the clock. So that if someone asks you what's doin' in the love department, you can say, "Oh, I took a break from that." Bang. You're officially unaccountable.

Don't sweat it, guys!By Chiara Atik for HowAboutWe

When we asked a bunch of guys to tell us what, if anything, they get nervous about on a first date, we were sort of expecting the usual answers: bad breath, what to wear, whether there will be chemistry, etc. But one common theme quickly emerged from nearly every one of the dudes we talked to: across the board, men seem to get really nervous about first date conversation.

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It takes two to conversationally tango, but men seem to feel the burden of small-talk pressure pretty acutely:

by Julia Carpenter

Esquire.com

Adulthood has no eureka moment. Author and blogger Kelly Williams Brown, whose new book Adulting: How to Become a Grown-up in 468 Easy(ish) Steps came out this week, believes true maturity is instead built on smaller stepping stones: using the correct screwdriver, wearing sunscreen, not going around telling everyone the foolish thing your friend did at 14.

"Those moments of feeling together and in-control, we kind of need them," Brown says. "Because life is chaotic, and so much is out of our control, and at any moment there's like 18 million things we're worried about, but when a little worry crosses your path and you're like, 'No, I've got it,' that's a great feeling." Indeed. And so, using her book and enlisting her boyfriend David and good friend Markus as a guide, Brown created a special male-centric appendix for Esquire.com.

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1. Learn to tie a tie. Even better: learn how to tie a bow tie. Even better

An image can move us to feel various emotions, ranging from excitement and joy to sadness. But what photos also do is present us with an opportunity to form our own stories or quickly revisit a chapter from our own life. These photos taken by Steven Carter Hewson do just that. Taken in a documentary style, they are stunning and unlike anything I have seen. The ones featured here today are from various weddings that he has photographed. Unlike the posed planned photos we often see in wedding photography, these images are candid captured moments.

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The best method of communication is often nonverbal - your silent actions can have a big impact on the nuances of your relationship. We asked the experts how you can show your honey how much you love him, without making a peep. By Laura Li, REDBOOK.

Mirror his gestures
When your partner feels insecure, he might display defensive body language such as crossed arms or legs. "Mirror him to let him know that you know how he's feeling," says Linda Talley, Ph.D., author of Oh Dear, My Slip Is Showing! The Mistakes Women Make That Detract From A Sales Call. "Mirroring is not doing gesture for gesture what he is doing. Act similar to him and then begin to change your body positions from defensive to positive. Open up your gestures and see if he follows your lead."

Make eyes at him
A sincere flash of your pearly whites will elicit a positive response, especially if he's been feeling neglected. "Give him a genuine smile, engaging the muscles that control your eyelids and the corners of your

Angelina JolieAngelina Jolie wrote an op ed in the New York Times yesterday about her decision to have a preventive double mastectomy in order to greatly reduce her risk of breast cancer, which she had an almost 90% chance of getting due to a "faulty" gene (BRCA1) which greatly predisposes carriers to the disease.

Her acting career -- indeed her celebrity career -- has often revolved and relied on her otherworldly beauty (which includes bodily proportions more akin to Barbie than the average woman). Case in point: Lara Croft: Tomb Raider was basically a vehicle for her boobs. Her body has been a fantasy and jealousy maker for both men and women (and not just respectively speaking). And as is the case with any celebrity, but especially one who's part of an elite power couple known for their physical beauty, her body has been something we feel we own in some way with our Us Weekly ogling.

Which is why this op ed comes as such a shocker. How could she willingly remove these