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I believed that I had met a wonderful man who became a friend. About a year ago, he was going through a very bad breakup with his girlfriend. We saw each other off and on as friends. He mentioned to me that he was getting "those needs met" by other women, and to be honest, I really did not care - that was his personal business. Granted, we were very attracted to each other, and we were affectionate towards each other - holding each other, kissing each other, and flirting. I expressed to him that I have boundaries that I will not cross.
Just recently we got together to hang out and have dinner. I told him that it was my treat because he had paid for the last two times. The dinner went great, and he took me home and in my driveway he leaned over and started to kiss me. It was fine until he started to getRead More »from How NOT to Set Boundaries in a New Relationship