Well, sure, you say. But whose fault is that, Chaunie? You should have thought about that!
And I'll give you that.
And I will also say that after adding two more children in the three years that followed, I am no stranger to how it all works. I get it, ok? And it's worked out just fine.
I am happy with the little family we have started-and grown over the past five years of our marriage.
But the problem is, I'm not sure I want it to grow any more at the moment.
For various reasons, permanent sterilization is not an option and hormonal birth control doesn't work for me; and if history is any indication, this time in our lives happens to be prime-time for baby making. I know everyone is different and I don't say anything about my reproductive status lightly, because I know many couple struggle with infertility, but the fact is, this is our lot in life…