• Finding your own voice can be daunting, especially in a world of bullies and bureaucrats. But before you slink into the corner and pretend your opinions and needs don't matter take heed of Senator Nellie Riviera O'Reilly's wise words on how you can speak up for yourself and be heard, no matter what odds you're up against.
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    BEWARE THE UNDERDOG
    You may feel disempowered right now but that perceived weakness could actually be your strength if harnessed correctly. Senator Nellie O'Reilly now has the illustrious title of being the U.S. Virgin Island's first female senator and the role of fighting for the rights of others, but she too was once an underdog.

    Raised on the island of St. Croix to Hispanic parents, at the age of 2 she was diagnosed with a congenital heart condition that resulted in her being forced to watch life from the sidelines for much of her childhood. Rather than opting out, it ignited a desire to be more involved in life and to be at the forefront of the

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  • Surprise: It's not okay to wait a year to send a wedding gift. From Peggy Post, a refresher course on this and other tricky rules.

    woman shaking hands woman shaking hands Mistake #1

    Skipping an introduction. You don't introduce your friend Jen to acquaintance Ann because you've forgotten Ann's name.

    Why it's wrong: You're being rude to both parties by not acquainting them with each other.

    What to do instead: Don't be ashamed to admit your memory lapse (we've all been there). It's better to fess up than to pretend that these people don't need to be introduced. Say to Ann, "I remember meeting you, but unfortunately, I just can't recall your name. I'm so sorry!" If anything sticks in your mind about your first conversation with the person, bring it up: "We had such a great talk about your days in the Peace Corps.... It's just your name that's escaping me. Please help me out!" If you're afraid you'll insult the person whose name you've forgotten, you can always ask the woman you're speaking with to act as a

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  • LinkedIn is, far and away, the most advantageous social networking tool available to job seekers and business professionals today. Far and away.

    So why is it that so many of us stink at LinkedIn etiquette?


    That's right, folks. We stink at it. We send out lazy, generic connection requests. We ask people we barely know for recommendations. We ambush people, asking for favors before we've ever spent even two seconds of time building rapport. We shove our Tweets through our LinkedIn feeds, even though half the people on LinkedIn could care less about Twitter.

    You want to use LinkedIn to your massive networking advantage? Then you need to start working strategically and mindfully. And before you even think about logging on next time-you need to digest a few basic rules of etiquette.

    1. Generic Requests are for Suckers

    I'm going to assume that you use care in selecting who you're going to invite into your LinkedIn network (you should). Why then, do you send them this note: "Debbie has Read More »from Your LinkedIn Intervention: 5 Changes You Must Make
  • Almost every waking moment, you're making a decision. Do you want to eat eggs or toast? Wear the blazer or the cardigan? Take the stairs or the escalator?

    And that's just the easy stuff.

    While each decision by itself may sound simple, the seemingly endless stream of decisions-and the pressure to make the "right" choice for each one-can really deplete you of time, energy, motivation, and even happiness. A recent New York Times article thrust this daily struggle into the spotlight (NPR chimed in, too): On any given day, we have a finite amount of mental energy and willpower to make choices. And by the end of an especially decision- or action-packed day (or week, or month), even choosing what to eat for dinner can seem like a struggle.

    So how are we to save our decision-making energy for the big stuff, like choosing a job or planning for the future? Changing the amount of daily choices in your life isn't necessarily an option-and in most cases, you do want to be able to pick! But

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