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A Gen-Xer eulogy for John Hughes

I'm a sentimental type overall, but not generally sentimental publicly. But I'd love if you all would allow me a sentimental moment here on Shine.

John Hughes died today
, and the news floored me. I felt like a little piece of my childhood died with him. Melodramatic? Perhaps, but when I look back on all the movies he directed, wrote, and produced in his relatively-short life, it blows my mind just how much of an impact he has had on me, especially on a young Annette growing up in the middle of nowhere in the '80s. And I know (judging from the outpouring of sentiment on my Facebook, Twitter, etc) that I'm not alone.

For Generation X-ers like myself, John Hughes was perhaps the greatest culture maker of our times. Steven Spielberg had our imaginations, but John Hughes had our realities. It's hard to think of any other filmmaker who really got the exquisite pain of being an ordinary America teenager quite as well as he did. And honestly, the guy also knew exactly what made teenage girls tick - from our deepest insecurities to our most swoon-worthy sexually-innocent boy fantasies.

Just take a look at his resume: "Sixteen Candles," "Breakfast Club," "Vacation," "Ferris Bueller's Day Off," "Weird Science," "Some Kind of Wonderful," and more. It's a greatest-hits filmography of my junior high and high school years.

For me, John Hughes gave me many of my biggest crushes: Andrew McCarthy (I'm still nursing this one to this day), Judd Nelson, Matthew Broderick, and Eric Stoltz. He gave me perfectly flawed heroines as role models. And, he gave me a killer soundtrack as background to it all, filled with Psychedelic Furs, Echo and the Bunnymen, The Smiths, and Simple Minds. Oh, and don't forget Otis Redding!

The one film of his that made the biggest impression was by far "Pretty in Pink." It was my anthem. It was a movie tailor-made for a poor, outcast and awkward teen girl who strongly believed she had far cooler tastes and interests than her less-sophisticated but more well-off classmates in her backward town. I sort of had my version of Duckie in a close guy friend, and I certainly had my share of Blanes, even if none of them actually asked me out or to prom.



Andy's story - from her super cool job at a record store with Annie Potts ("my THIGHS went up in flames") to her killer lavender Karmann Ghia to her Cinderella romance - was a really amazing fantasy that I could quote and live over and over and over again via VCR. I must have ve watched it more than any other movie ever. That simple little flick gave me hope that there was a bigger, better place for a lost little teen like me far off in the future in some warmer place among like people and cute boys who would find me pretty.

So, that's why I'm grieving more over the loss of John Hughes than even Michael Jackson a few weeks ago. He made the saddest, loneliest years of my life more bearable, and his films were oddly liberating and empowering.

RIP, John Hughes. Thank you for all the indelible, much-cherished memories. And with that, I'll leave you with one of my favorite scenes in movie history (pardon the Spanish dub):



Related:

John Hughes movie retrospective on Yahoo! Movies

"Sincerely, John Hughes" - a blog post by Allison Byrne Fields (only read if you want a good cry)
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  • Angel's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Fri Aug 7, 2009 7:58am PDT

    This is totally how I feel too... Loved him, Loved his movies, Loved the music.... I was much more a Breakfast Club fan... Followed by Some Kind of Wonderful...

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  • sunnysideup's Avatar
    Posted by sunnysideup Fri Aug 7, 2009 8:58am PDT

    Sixteen Candles to this day is by far my favorite of his films. I wax nostalgic anytime I see that it is on television - it brings me back to my teenage years when life was more simple and less complicated. John Hughes' films meant alot to me and probably my generation, he was brilliant and I will miss him, but his movies will live on forever.

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  • Mo B's Avatar
    Posted by Mo B Fri Aug 7, 2009 10:44am PDT

    I recently bought Pretty Pink and have already watched it a few times. John Hughes' movies captivated me and still do, he's what really got me interested in movies and that you can actualy relate to them at times. Sixteen Candles has been one of my all time favorite movies for so long. He will be deeply missed.

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  • Nina's Avatar
    Posted by Nina Fri Aug 7, 2009 11:26am PDT

    Thank you for such a wonderful eulogy. You couldn't have said it any better. I feel so sad. While I know that I cannot go back and live in the 80's, John Hughes passing does make it feel like it is official, an end of an era. I say that "Sixteen Candles" is my favorite, I find myself torn because "The Breakfast Club", "Some Kind of Wonderful", "Pretty in Pink", "She's Having a Baby"....they were ALL so good! I still find myself looking for my Jake Ryan!

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  • stinkerbellsmom's Avatar
    Posted by stinkerbellsmom Fri Aug 7, 2009 12:02pm PDT

    I was so sad to hear about John Hughes. When I watch one of his movies, it really takes me back to when I was a teenager in the '80s. His passing really does make me feel like a little piece of my childhood is gone - almost makes me feel like I lost a friend. I hope his family knows how wonderful watching his movies makes us feel, and what memories they bring us!

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  • Luna Marie's Avatar
    Posted by Luna Marie Fri Aug 7, 2009 3:24pm PDT

    Dear Annette,

    I heard of this bad news yesterday - it is very sad and a great loss. These movies ... they are a part of people. They and he will never be forgotten ... Luna

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  • Luna Marie's Avatar
    Posted by Luna Marie Fri Aug 7, 2009 3:31pm PDT

    Annette,

    p.s. (regarding your anthem) I went to a Psychedelic Furs concert ... I have Pretty in Pink videotaped on my cell phone (haha) ... Thank you for this post. ... L.

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  • Marie G's Avatar
    Posted by Marie G Sun Aug 9, 2009 8:44am PDT

    I too went into mourning when I heard the news of John Hughes passing. His movies really shaped my youth. Giving me hope and laughter when I needed it. Now in my thirties I still go back and watch so many of my faves often, luckily on DVD now since I killed my old VCR tape of The Breakfast Club due to rewinding 50 million times.

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