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Do you tip bathroom attendants?

This topic may be somewhat city-centric; I don't see many bathroom attendants when I go visit my parents in Maine. But hopefully most of you have encountered the ladies of the night to whom I refer: They occupy the powder rooms of certain restaurants and nightclubs, primarily to help keep the facilities looking as presentable as the rest of the establishment. However, many take their role to the next level, hovering eagerly to hand you a paper towel, or even setting up elaborate displays of trial-size toiletries that you're encouraged to use. But there's a catch.

If you help yourself to a spritz of hairspray or accept the paper towel (often the towel dispenser is empty, so you have to), it's customary to compensate the bathroom attendant by leaving a tip in her basket, which is displayed prominently amidst the sinks, with bills artfully dangled around its perimeter. Even if you don't take the towel or use the beauty products, there's guilt involved in exiting the bathroom without leaving any cash behind.

BYOB: New travel-sized beauty products have gotten so chic you won't be embarrassed to whip out your own in the public bathroom.

My friends and I have long debated this topic. Personally, I leave a dollar on my first visit to the facilities and let that be my contribution for the night. I do not use the trial-size products and make every attempt to dispense my own towel. That's my way of showing that I dislike the concept of a for-tips bathroom attendant on principle. However, I leave the cash because I can't blame the attendant herself for trying to make a living.

That said, I have many, many friends who refuse to tip on principle, asking, "Why should I have to pay to pee? I'm paying enough for my meal/drinks as is." Valid point. The worst is when the bathroom is a total mess and the attendant is just idly sitting there next to a big basket; that's when I snap my wallet shut.

I think it's time for an official Glamour poll on this topic. What's your bathroom-tipping policy? Let us know below, then let's discuss in the comments. 

Related: Strange habits and other thoughts women have about going to the bathroom.

by Petra Guglielmetti

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:30am PST

    I have moisture wipes in my purse. No, I do not tip to pee, either. If the towel dispenser is empty, I ask the management why.

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  • JosieM111's Avatar
    Posted by JosieM111 Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:40am PST

    I believe we definitely should tip the attendant, if for nothing else, for having the job they do; I do the same as you - $1 or $2 for my one or two trips to the ladies room.

    However, I am usually the jerk who leaves nothing due to the fact I was caught off guard by the establishment having an attendant and only have larger bills on me.

    Great topic!

    JOSIE.

    www.lifeofjosiem.com

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  • G's Avatar
    Posted by G Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:48am PST

    These people need to eat too. Give em a break. How would you like to stand in a pisser all day and have to do hand out towels to people in that setting. Many of these people are not going to be corporate excutives any day soon. Don't be cheap.

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  • rglo820's Avatar
    Posted by rglo820 Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:03am PST

    It really irritates me when establishments have bathroom attendants - they're completely unnecessary, and when I'm already paying rather a lot of money to eat and drink, it seems in poor taste that I would be expected to contribute more.

    That said, I almost never tip the bathroom attendant - not as a matter of principle, but because I rarely have my purse in the bathroon with me, and even when I do, the odds that I have any cash at all, let alone any ones, are slim.

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  • Yankes Rule Soxs Drool's Avatar
    Posted by Yankes Rule Soxs Drool Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:33am PST

    If they don't like handing out paper towels and whatever they can quit. Its a free country and i doubt they get medical benefits if thats what there holding on to.

    Its such B.S. that society tells us to tip these people but not these people. Why do we tip our waiters and waitresses for bringing us food but not our airplane pilots for not KILLING ME. How about Police officers or Firemen. Those are the real people we should tip, they have our lives in thier hands. Cops and firemen dont make a lot of money either.

    If anyone thinks tipping is manditory i suggest you go watch resivoir dogs and pay attention to Mr. Pink when they are all in the restaurant. IT IS GREAT MR. PINK RULES!

    I usually only tip if i use the cologne or whatever useless products they have and never more then a dollar at most. If he just hands me a paper towel i say thanks for handing me 1 8X8 piece of paper which will take my left hand from wet to damp. I use about 5 paper towels only because I hate wet hands. If an attendant handed me a bunch then maybe ill give em a tip for using common sense. Kind of like when a Waiter or waitress brings over another soda without me asking. THATS GOOD STUFF RIGHT THERE!

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    Posted by Yankes Rule Soxs Drool Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:34am PST

    If they don't like handing out paper towels and whatever they can quit. Its a free country and i doubt they get medical benefits if thats what there holding on to.

    Its such B.S. that society tells us to tip these people but not these people. Why do we tip our waiters and waitresses for bringing us food but not our airplane pilots for not KILLING ME. How about Police officers or Firemen. Those are the real people we should tip, they have our lives in thier hands. Cops and firemen dont make a lot of money either.

    If anyone thinks tipping is manditory i suggest you go watch resivoir dogs and pay attention to Mr. Pink when they are all in the restaurant. IT IS GREAT MR. PINK RULES!

    I usually only tip if i use the cologne or whatever useless products they have and never more then a dollar at most. If he just hands me a paper towel i say thanks for handing me 1 8X8 piece of paper which will take my left hand from wet to damp. I use about 5 paper towels only because I hate wet hands. If an attendant handed me a bunch then maybe ill give em a tip for using common sense. Kind of like when a Waiter or waitress brings over another soda without me asking. THATS GOOD STUFF RIGHT THERE!

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  • KristaB's Avatar
    Posted by KristaB Thu Dec 11, 2008 11:49am PST

    ...seriously all these tipping articles need to stop...people are becoming really upset over the mere idea of tipping anybody...im a waitress and i am beginning to live in fear that some of these readers sick and tired of even thinking about tipping ( how much to tip good service vs. bad service holiday tipping ) will patronize my establishment and out of sheer frustration on the subject not tip me...im sick of talking...reading...and thinking about the very thing that sustains my life ...we all know these tipping articles get tons of readers and comments...congrats you figured out the formula to a popular shine blog...we get it...now can we move on i have to get ready for work...

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  • cindy's Avatar
    Posted by cindy Thu Dec 11, 2008 12:13pm PST

    If your not wiping my A $ $ your not getting the cash!

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  • Spam I Am's Avatar
    Posted by Spam I Am Thu Dec 11, 2008 1:08pm PST

    It's a free country. One is free to tip or not tip. But things are not going to change. Some of the anti-tippers seem to think that if more

    people refuse to tip, the owners will "see the light" and pay a living

    wage. NOT! Service workers are not highly-trained professionals who

    can demand high wages and shop around.

    Tipless societies are usually very wealthy (Japan) or very poor (the

    old Soviet Union). We consider ourselves middle-class (at least for now). Japan is a monoculture in which service and manners are seen as

    obligations from birth. Also, they have national health insurance-no

    need for the worker to pay for it. Soviet Union-guaranteed wage and

    no need to perform. A Western journalist flying AEROFLOT once asked the

    flight attendant for a towel. "Olga" balled one up and threw it in his

    face! "To Insure Proper Service" indeed.

    Incidentally, the bathroom attendant should have REAL towels. What is

    this world coming to?

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  • Tim's Avatar
    Posted by Tim Fri Dec 12, 2008 9:11am PST

    Spam I Am: They use paper towels for a few reasons.

    1: They are cheaper than buying and laundering real towels.

    2: With all the germ-aphobes out there, using someone else's towel is icky and "dangerous".

    As for the tipping, I tip bathroom attendants, waiters/waitresses, bartenders, my mailman, and anyone who provides an exceptional service. I also donate (both monetarily and with time) to local police and fire departments.

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