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Thursday, December 3, 2009

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Unoriginal-but-useful story of the day: 5 ways to find the perfect pair of jeans

A few years ago, while standing in my underwear in the middle of a poorly lit dressing room, sweating, a pile of discarded denim staring up at me, an annoyed pin-skinny sales girl asking through the door if I needed help with yet another size/style/brand, I looked at myself in the mirror and had a hard, long, inconsolable, embarrassing cry. I despised buying jeans. But I needed them. In fact I wore them more than any other garment I own. But unlike, say, looking for tops or cute coats, the jeans quest always made me feel vulnerable and self-conscious and sad. And I wanted to move beyond it. I wanted to solve this stupid retail mystery and feel empowered. Ultimately I just wanted to find something that would make my butt look good. I bet you feel the same. Here, a foolproof guide to finding the perfect pair.

1. Seek professional help. Many department stores have denim bars equipped with kindly “denim experts” who can quickly and not condescendingly scan your body and make recommendations. If you want to endure this process in private, search engines like zafu.com have online jeans’ quizzes that allow you to plug in your specific body issues and your style and then spit out at least a half a dozen pairs (in a range of price points) that suit your needs.

2. Pick a store with a great selection. Though small shops can be great, on your initial quest, you really want the option of LOTS of brands. Do your research before you go. Call the store and ask if they have a separate denim department and even inquire about the number of labels (50 would be excellent).

3. All cuts are not for everyone. I hate to break this to you (and myself): We can’t all wear skinny jeans. But we can wear trouser cuts, wide-leg, straight leg, boot cut, extra long, etc, etc. There’s a really good body shape/denim style matcher here.

4. Go for a clean design and choose the right wash. After enduring an exhaustive hunt, the worst thing that could happen is your ideal jeans go out of style next year. To avoid this, stay away from trendy details and embellishments—like “whiskering,” extra zippers, bedazzlements, weird pockets, etc—at ALL COSTS. As a rule, a dark wash will always be more versatile and forgiving.

5. If all else fails, customize. Companies like mejeans.com and Indie Denim let you plug in your measurements and choose your preferred cut and wash and send the jeans directly to your doorstep. Best of all, they save your preferences, so you can order another pair in a flash.

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Comments 41-46 of 46
  • Michelle's Avatar
    Posted by Michelle Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:16pm PDT

    My policy is love your life, and love the jeans you're living it in!! But sometimes that's hard to live up to when the points Jennifer brings up exist...

    I found a store called Gloss, a premium denim bar in Colorado Springs, Co. It's an amazing new locally-owned store (I know what you're thinking, but this store does it right and goes beyond expectations! They serve champagne and have a man/kid lounge, God Bless the person who thought of that!). They specialize in helping women find their perfect fit. Basically, they ask your criteria as Jennifer mentions of specialists, and make recommendations based on your body shape, but they also get to know you. These were the most genuine women, not pushy sales girls--they actually wanted to help! They started with a few pairs and continued making recommendations until we found the right one! They seriously made the denim search fun, and I will never buy jeans from any other store :) hit their website if you get a chance: www.shopgloss.com

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  • jazzygirl's Avatar
    Posted by jazzygirl Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:34pm PDT

    I too struggle with this problem and go into the dressing room with an armful of jeans and come out not pleased at all. I personally think the biggest problem with finding jeans to fit is the stretch fabric that they use now!!!! I hate it!!!!!! Before companies started using this "stuff" jeans had more "substance" and they fit better. A lot of jeans are made to fit women that their waist and hip size are the same.

    I didn't see any suggestions for women that have a small waist and have a butt ( not extremely large).

    When I find jeans that fit my butt perfectly, they are way too big in the waist. Some Lee jeans fit bitter in the waist, but they tend to sag between your legs.

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  • dannichris's Avatar
    Posted by dannichris Mon Apr 21, 2008 7:01pm PDT

    too bad that zafu site is all messed up:(

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  • Elissa's Avatar
    Posted by Elissa Mon Apr 21, 2008 9:39pm PDT

    To the petite girl - definately check out Joe's jeans in the style Provocateur. It is designed specifically for petites and fit perfectly.

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  • Pattex's Avatar
    Posted by Pattex Thu May 1, 2008 8:27am PDT

    What a great idea! custom made jeans... It always seems I'm between sizes or they're too long. I'm tall and tall sizes are a bit too long. I may have to splurge a little as well and give this a try. Thanks ladies.

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  • Fritz S's Avatar
    Posted by Fritz S Fri Nov 7, 2008 5:15pm PST

    Check this pair jeans out ladies, you would love them.

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