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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

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User post: Flaws Men Fret About

Hey Guys! Does a receding hairline give you the pre-date jitters? Do those tufts of hair on your traps or a few extra pounds make you too shy to take off your t-shirt? The fact that women are plagued by physical insecurities gets lots of playtime. We read about it in magazines, see it on the news and listen to it at the gym, nail salon and just about anywhere females flock.

But unless you truly know a man, they won't easily open up when it comes to discussing self-perceived physical shortcomings. For the single guy, fretting and obsessing about physical imperfections can lead to anxiety, timidity, and self-doubt, especially when it comes to dating and sexual relating. So the next time you're in doubt, remember that plenty of women find favor in your "flaws," and here's why:

1. Bald Bearers: Moses may have split the seas but it's only because Yul Brenner as Ramses was too busy parting other things. Yup, you got it. Ask any woman and she will tell you that a bald Pharoah on and around her inner thighs is just as good as a hairy headed prophet anytime. And that's not the only reason so many of us love the shaved head look. Men who embrace their baldness seem to exude a sense of strength, confidence, passion and masculinity.

2. Back Hair: Think of it this way, some men prefer a hard wood floor while others have a penchant for carpeting. Women who lust after men with body hair visualize that they will be more primitive and carnal in the bedroom. So before you let anyone convince you to become smooth-like-a-mannequin, remember that there are plenty of women who crave a man in raw form.

3. Skin Imperfections: May West said is best! "A man has more character in his face at forty than at twenty--he has suffered longer". Just like the 1930's sex icon, many women would rather see a face with character rather than a perfect specimen. Facial scars reveal a man who is vulnerable yet equally dangerous and wild while the lines that come with age are often associated with experience, maturity and wisdom.

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  • Dubs's Avatar
    Posted by Dubs Thu Jul 9, 2009 1:27pm PDT

    Inferno....you're my heroine!!! *eagerly holds up some hedge clippers* Fancy a shave?:P

    Excellent post. I feel the same way when it comes to women. The media in our lives makes such dire attempts to skew and brainwash our sense of physical attraction. I'm more attracted to those that can turn the media off.

    Cheers ;)

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  • Anita's Avatar
    Posted by Anita Thu Jul 9, 2009 3:05pm PDT

    I cannot stand back hair!! Chest hair is fine, but back hair is entering gross territory

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  • rarekitten's Avatar
    Posted by rarekitten Thu Jul 9, 2009 5:10pm PDT

    Large amounts of body hair is just plain gross...

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  • Theresa's Avatar
    Posted by Theresa Thu Jul 9, 2009 5:42pm PDT

    so thats why Marv was accepted in that movie Sin City... Goldie read this before makin' it with him.

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  • :)'s Avatar
    Posted by :) Thu Jul 9, 2009 6:43pm PDT

    Is it really so odd to like men to have hair? I mean, yeah, I don't want to date the sasquatch... but, I also don't want to date a prepubescent boy.

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  • simfelicity's Avatar
    Posted by simfelicity Thu Jul 9, 2009 6:47pm PDT

    bald is beautiful....we are perfectly imperfect.....aren't we?

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  • william's Avatar
    Posted by william Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:58pm PDT

    first of all to bobby k do you really think women should support men when men never support women men of all ages from 18 to 90 slobber over blond haired blue eyed thin sexy women sooo please give me a break and i think young bald headed men are absolutely gross and old looking

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  • william's Avatar
    Posted by william Thu Jul 9, 2009 9:10pm PDT

    to bobby k men dont accept women if their not blond blue eyed thin and sexy so why should women support bald headed men i think young to middle aged men with bald heads are totally gross just like beer bellies

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  • L'sScubaMamma's Avatar
    Posted by L'sScubaMamma Thu Jul 9, 2009 9:13pm PDT

    I think my 36 year old boyfriend is way sexier than my 24 year old (army dude) ex husband. My ex shaved his whole body, and was so skinny, and had really thick hair. My boyfriend now has manly hair all over, meat on him, gray hair, and a few wrinkles. I love my boyfriends hair, I can actually play with it, my ex's hair was so course I never wanted to touch it. I can snuggle up to my man and get comfy on his "spare tire" instead feeling like I am spooning gumby. And I love playing with all his "man fur"... it's just so much more masculine than bare skin... men are supposed to have hair! (and yes I often refer to my mans spare tire, gray hair, man fur to his face... he knows I love it even though he has got 13 years on me!)

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  • jen the ice queen brunswick's Avatar
    Posted by jen the ice queen brunswick Thu Jul 9, 2009 10:06pm PDT

    it someway's I kind of agree men are WAY harder on women it is rather nice to know they have their own insecurites. Women do tend to be a lot more forgiving of the man who shaves their head or has a bit of fuzz or maybe a scar or two it's the gods honest truth guys let's face it.

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