Question of the day: Do you tell the truth about your sexual history?

Dating someone new is super exciting -- a whole new person to get to know who has a whole new set of likes, dislikes, interests, and experiences. And then there's the whole dating history thing. Sometimes that part of the conversation can get a little rough, since no one really loves to hear about the exes.

But there is one reason to bring up that somewhat difficult conversation. You really don't want to be surprised by any problems that could've been passed on to your new special someone by a former special someone. That's the topic of Love + Sex editor Erin Flaherty's recent story, "Do you tell the world (or your partner) about your STD?"

The fear, of course, is that your new love interest isn't telling you everything you need to know. And they may be worried that you aren't either. (All the more reason to practice safe sex, girls.)

So, my question to you ladies is this: Is it or was it important to you to be honest and upfront about your sexual history? Or do you hold off on sharing too much information before getting to know someone better? And more importantly, if you have an STD, how do you reveal that part of your history?

Tell us in the comments below, and if you really have some kiss-and-tell secrets to divulge, maybe even go blog it!
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  • Sooroush's Avatar
    Posted by Sooroush Fri Apr 18, 2008 12:17am PDT

    Yes, i tell.

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  • nikinoelle's Avatar
    Posted by nikinoelle Fri Apr 18, 2008 2:19am PDT

    Absolutely tell them...but not on the first date :)! See how things progress before baring your soul and privacy.

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  • Fantumofthewinds's Avatar
    Posted by Fantumofthewinds Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:46am PDT

    I think we better get to know one another before we start talking about my sex life, I dont think this is just casual conversation.

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  • tina's Avatar
    Posted by tina Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:47am PDT

    Yes I tell the trueth about it, why not if you can't except who you really are then you can't expect someone else to either.

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  • Rah's Avatar
    Posted by Rah Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:07am PDT

    Yes, tell the truth about your sexual past. I believe the past is the past. as long as your not sleeping around with tons of people, you should tell your partner the truth, but only if they ask you.

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  • Drea's Avatar
    Posted by Drea Fri Apr 18, 2008 6:10am PDT

    I let them know what there getting into before it might be to late,like a week or two into spending time with that person.

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:09am PDT

    Yes.

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  • Sara's Avatar
    Posted by Sara Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:24am PDT

    Why lie or omit things? The truth will come out eventually!

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  • allee's Avatar
    Posted by allee Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:24am PDT

    May I swear? HELL F*** NO !!!! I let him know i have had several boyfriends. but not the actual extent of my experience. I did insist on knowing all of his, which he told me. and it was minimal. And I checked too, -sneaky me- speaking with his family i found out he was honest with me. so we will leave it at that.

    My god , if he ever really knew.. you could ice skate in july..lol....

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Fri Apr 18, 2008 8:49am PDT

    when u r in a serious relationship u should touch on past sexual experiences but thats it u don't have to tell all. i was always taught that whats in the past stays in the past.

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