Friday, December 11, 2009

Question of the day: Who's your "one who got away?"

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Entertainment editor Anne Ichikawa today blogs about sweet little Danie Radcliffe (omg...he's 18!), better known as Harry Potter, who's desperately seeking a mystery Australian girl he saw at a party.

The best quote came from the Daily Telegraph story: "I must have walked around that party for an hour trying to look for this girl, like some sad pathetic dweeb but it would have been so worth it." OK, I know he's only 18, but I gotta say that's downright adorable!

All this talk of missed connections got me thinking and talking with my friends about "the one who got away." Mine is Seth, a guy who I had a mad crush on throughout college. I was such a super shy and nerdy chick when I first crushed on him, but I grew up a lot throughout college. And then after graduation, I found myself running into him all the time, because we rode the same bus line home.

Of course, that's when Seth finally noticed me...now that I had a boyfriend! Argh, but he had a girlfriend, too. AND, both of our relationships were long-distance. We became great friends, hung out constantly and flirted mercilessly. Eventually, it just got too unbearable, so we grew apart to avoid cheating. Brutal! I think back on it with very heavy sighs.

So, now ladies of Shine, tell me your tale of that guy (or girl) who you wish you'd never let go -- whether they're someone you simply traded smiles with at a bar or one who was pure, crazy unrequited love who you still wonder, "What could've been?"

Spill your guts in the comments below, or maybe even blog the whole sordid tale.
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  • chubbylocket's Avatar
    Posted by chubbylocket Tue Apr 22, 2008 3:54pm PDT

    Aldwin, was my one who got away. My family did not approve of him. It was my fault that he got away because I let him get away. I didn't have the courage to fight for him. He is now married to somebody else. Its been three years since we've last spoken but not a single day did I fail to think about him, about what could have been.

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    Posted by Destiny Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:00pm PDT

    MY "ONE WHO GOT AWAY" WAS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. I DIDN'T EVEN KNO HIM 4 THAT LONG BUT WE JUST CLICKED, AND WHEN HE DIDN'T THINK I WAS INTERESTED OR WHATEVR, HE ASKED OUT MY FRENEMY. IT WAS HORRIBLE, AND I HURT HIM... AND I STILL FEEL BAD FOR IT. THE DRAMA GOT OVER IN ABOUT A WEEK AND NOW WE R FRIENDS AGAIN. BUT I STILL FEEL LIKE I HAVEN'T GAINED ALL OF HIS TRUST BACK YET.

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    Posted by Sarah Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:04pm PDT

    I think about him all the time, compare any other guy to him and wish he was with me. I see him maybe once every 6 months. Every time I see him it takes me months to try to get him out of my head. He's everything and then some that I've always wanted in a man. He's just not ready to settle down and I see that. When we were together I should of gave it my all but at the time I wasn't ready to settle down and I let him get away. I wish some how I could be with him again. Ugh how I miss everything about him, his touch, his voice, and his laugh.

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  • Hipi's Avatar
    Posted by Hipi Tue Apr 22, 2008 6:12pm PDT

    I worked with this guy that was from another country... talk about interesting. He was the really cute, sweet, shy type with the most amazing eyes. I was a little apprehensive about dating a coworker, but I had to admit we had chemistry. Just when I was coming around & he was getting comfortable, he went cold & acted like I didn't exist. I was pretty ticked until he announced to me that it was official... they were sending him to another state to work on a big project. Apparently this was something he had made a commitment to before we started working together, & it took months to make it happen. I kind of lost touch with him after that. I still wonder 'what if?'

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  • robin's Avatar
    Posted by robin Tue Apr 22, 2008 8:16pm PDT

    i JUST LOST MY OLD BOYFRIEND TO HEART DISEASE....I SHOULD TAKEN HIM BACK AND AT LEAST SPENT THE LAST PART OF HIS LIFE WITH HIM. ITS A LONGERSTORY BUT TO SUM IT ALL UP DON'T LET THTA SPECIAL SOMEONE GET AWAY TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM NOW!!!

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    Posted by Wed Apr 23, 2008 10:41am PDT

    I haven't even caught him yet. I always was a late bloomer.

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  • Kathie F's Avatar
    Posted by Kathie F Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:56pm PDT

    At the age of 43, I lucked out and met him: an honestly wonderful guy who was a really great match for me. I fell, hard. Two months later, his teen daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. I offered to help in any way he wanted, but he didn't want any help.

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  • Kat's Avatar
    Posted by Kat Wed Apr 23, 2008 7:26pm PDT

    I FELL IN LOVE FOR THE FIRST TIME AT THE AGE OF 36 AND 8 YEARS LATER I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH DAVID AGOSTO I WISH EVERYDAY HE'D FIND HIS WAY BACK TO ME.

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  • Ali's Avatar
    Posted by Ali Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:43pm PDT

    The one that got away, for me has to be a sexy ginger hair lad called wayne everitt and lived nr bolton not far from me. I went out with him wen i woz 20ish and i thought he woz sexy from the moment i met him in the club. There he woz standin next to the ladies toilets on his own, i thought i just gotta go and chat to that lad. And from then we got on great, we had the same s.o.h. and the sex woz brilliant. He always made me laugh. We just stopped getting intouch cos he wanted to hang around with his mates more than me. So i stopped chasin after him going to his house trying to spend time with him. He never got intouch, until a few years later he turned up at my house. I spent a few hours with him then he went home the next day and didnt see him for another few years and again he turned up. Which messed my head up alot cos i still loved him alot. He went home again the next mornin and i havent seen him since and i'm 36 now and i still think of him alot. And i find that i have in the past since him and still do compare him with every lad i like or go out with. I've even tried to find him on facebook but no luck at all. He has a special place in my heart that no-one has come close to. Not even my hubby and we've been married 5 years but we've split up loads and i ended it again the day before new years eve. I dont know why i even married him. Cos i dont love him as much as wayne and i still wonder if he thinks about me still and if only... and i would love to just see him just once to see if i still have them feelings for him..... You guys know what i mean. Yeh..... I would do anything to see him.......

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    Posted by legomyego Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:05pm PDT

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