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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Are you too obsessed with the scale?

Remember in my first post I told you I hadn't gotten on a scale in 10 years? Well, recently, I've been making up for lost time and getting on it too frequently. And I'm quickly discovering that this isn't a good thing. And neither, when it comes to weight loss, is being a perfectionist. When the numbers on the scale are tumbling down towards my goal, my mood rises, and I practically levitate through life. But when the numbers stay firmly planted, or worse--as they have this week--creep up, getting through a day is like biking on broken glass with one flat tire, every motion deflating another breath from my spirit.

This weekend, when I got on the scale and discovered I'd gained a few pounds, I had a moment of sheer panic--panic that I will never reach my goal, that I'll never get the body I want and that I'd let all of you down who've been reading about my journey. After 24 hours of sulking (and washing it down with far too many servings of frozen yogurt), I force-fed myself a major reality check: I am NOT perfect. And being a shape-up blogger does not require that I am. I will have days when I dip into the office peanut-butter cups far too many times; and days when I'll have no good reason not to go to the gym and yet I still won't get there; and moments of thinking (irrationally) that, just because I put back on a few pounds, all of the progress I've made so far means nothing. I've got to cut myself some slack to do and feel all of these things--and then I've got to get back on the shape-up horse and move forward!

And that's where I am today. Here's my plan (I'm writing it down so I commit to it!): Weigh myself once a week--as a check-in, a gauge--not a daily penance. The simple truth is, if I'm taking the right steps to get healthy, then the pounds will come off in the process, whether I step on the scale every morning or never again. Plus, this way it feels much less punishing, and if the journey I'm on to get healthy is about loving myself (and I really believe that it is) then berating myself for the numbers on the scale feels like the complete opposite of the self-celebrating, strong, fearlessly alive person I'm striving to become.

How 'bout you guys? Do any of you need to scale back the scale?


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  • Lauren, auntie (read mom)'s Avatar
    Posted by Lauren, auntie (read mom) Wed May 21, 2008 6:45am PDT

    I know exactly what you're saying. I too get on the scale daily, if not twice daily. It's a habit I've been trying to break as it doesn't seem to be doing my "healthy living" any good. If it's down, I'm elated. If it's up, I'm discouraged beyond belief. I'm trying using my clothes as a gauge. Hopefully, it works....

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  • uloma's Avatar
    Posted by uloma Wed May 21, 2008 9:11am PDT

    i am not obessed. my problem is that i want to get fat m too slim for my likeness. pls help me out and advice me on what to do about it.

    uloma.

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  • uloma's Avatar
    Posted by uloma Wed May 21, 2008 9:18am PDT

    i want to be very fat

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  • DeborahW's Avatar
    Posted by DeborahW Wed May 21, 2008 9:28am PDT

    I get on the scale everyday, even though I'm only supposed to weigh in once a week but for me it's a catalyst to keep things in check! If I go up a few ounces or even a pound, I make sure that I work a little harder and make sure that I'm eating right again. For me it's a way to constantly keep things in check... am I eating right, did I work out hard enough, did I drink enough water. It's positive for me!

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  • PRETTY GIRL's Avatar
    Posted by PRETTY GIRL Wed May 21, 2008 10:16am PDT

    no, i never even look at the scale..

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  • Brett Blumenthal - Sheer Balance's Avatar
    Posted by Brett Blumenthal - Sheer Balance Wed May 21, 2008 12:42pm PDT

    Knowing your clothing size and your lean body mass is the best way to know how you are doing if you are dieting. It takes a few extra steps, but try this calculator:

    Lean Body Mass: http://www.sheerbalance.com/lean_body_mass.html

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  • heidi's Avatar
    Posted by heidi Wed May 21, 2008 1:33pm PDT

    Yes, I have a serious body issue problem! I weigh myself every morning and if it shows heavier than the day before I berate myself and am seriously depressed all day. If it shows I have lost I feel like I have accomplished something and will be in a great mood for the day. I hate being like this!! I am so weight obsessed, its really ruining my life!

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  • Ana V's Avatar
    Posted by Ana V Wed May 21, 2008 4:20pm PDT

    A few month ago I start a "diet" and the first days was almost impossible to resist not to get in the scale everyday, but with the time and some good adviceI learned my lesson, Now I only get on the scale once a week, on saturdays and try to do it always at the same time.

    Do it as a routine at same day and time has worked, I lost 10Kg and have been able to keep a healthy weight thanks to being able to control a certain weight, but I also learn that you should not get obsessed over certain weight, womens weight tend to change during the month + or - 1kg. of my "normal weight" per week is what I try to use as a limit, and has work very well so far.

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  • Helene's Avatar
    Posted by Helene Wed May 21, 2008 4:35pm PDT

    Hello Weight Watchers! Proper nutrition for health and well being consists of good eating habits,plenty of vitamins and water, and constant excercise. Your activity level has a lot to do with muscle mass, or water gain.Your built to last not passing out.Moderation is key when you tend to lay off the dieting.Problem is the calorie intake, and how often you can work it off.Don't over check the scale as not everybody has the same tone and definition, or muscular physique.Never let yourself hogg out, a little bit goes a long way. No thanks to cancer and heart diseases we all have to keep watching our weight no matter the income level.The one thing I learned while trained to loose weight and keep it off is, to look good and feel good.As long as the clothes start falling and your at your healthy SIZE and SHAPE, enjoy it!

    Always work out not to sound like a know it all- only then can you outsmart the evil scale.

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  • Belinda's Avatar
    Posted by Belinda Wed May 21, 2008 4:44pm PDT

    I agree with pcgirl. I weight myself everyday. Knowing that my weight will fluctuate a few pounds keeps me in check. If it goes beyond that, I know I have to reign it in a little bit. It's much easier to get a handle on a few pounds than it is 10 or so. The trick is understanding that a woman's body fluctuates so much from day to day and week to week (as we all know!)and you just have to get a feel for what's normal for you and if the scale goes beyond what's normal, then it's time to do something about it! I like to think of it as preventative maintenance.

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