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Monday, December 14, 2009

Are you too obsessed with the scale?

Remember in my first post I told you I hadn't gotten on a scale in 10 years? Well, recently, I've been making up for lost time and getting on it too frequently. And I'm quickly discovering that this isn't a good thing. And neither, when it comes to weight loss, is being a perfectionist. When the numbers on the scale are tumbling down towards my goal, my mood rises, and I practically levitate through life. But when the numbers stay firmly planted, or worse--as they have this week--creep up, getting through a day is like biking on broken glass with one flat tire, every motion deflating another breath from my spirit.

This weekend, when I got on the scale and discovered I'd gained a few pounds, I had a moment of sheer panic--panic that I will never reach my goal, that I'll never get the body I want and that I'd let all of you down who've been reading about my journey. After 24 hours of sulking (and washing it down with far too many servings of frozen yogurt), I force-fed myself a major reality check: I am NOT perfect. And being a shape-up blogger does not require that I am. I will have days when I dip into the office peanut-butter cups far too many times; and days when I'll have no good reason not to go to the gym and yet I still won't get there; and moments of thinking (irrationally) that, just because I put back on a few pounds, all of the progress I've made so far means nothing. I've got to cut myself some slack to do and feel all of these things--and then I've got to get back on the shape-up horse and move forward!

And that's where I am today. Here's my plan (I'm writing it down so I commit to it!): Weigh myself once a week--as a check-in, a gauge--not a daily penance. The simple truth is, if I'm taking the right steps to get healthy, then the pounds will come off in the process, whether I step on the scale every morning or never again. Plus, this way it feels much less punishing, and if the journey I'm on to get healthy is about loving myself (and I really believe that it is) then berating myself for the numbers on the scale feels like the complete opposite of the self-celebrating, strong, fearlessly alive person I'm striving to become.

How 'bout you guys? Do any of you need to scale back the scale?


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  • m@r!@'s Avatar
    Posted by m@r!@ Wed May 21, 2008 5:15pm PDT

    Do NOT keep a scale in your house. You will become obsessed with your weight. It's an unnecessary tool that will bring you down.

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  • mmk's Avatar
    Posted by mmk Wed May 21, 2008 6:01pm PDT

    I weigh myself every morning just as a routine check of where I am with my body. I have struggled all my life, it seems, to get a handle on health habits. Now I watch my diet, exercise 5 days a week, and watch the scales. I see patterns throughout the month, I know when snacking is starting to take it's toll, and I know when the holidays are adding on weight. It's a lot easier to lose 5 pounds than to suddenly discover 25 have "crept" on because you haven't been paying attention or have been less than honest with yourself. Common sense tells you that weighing in twice a day or more is a little silly.

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    Posted by Wed May 21, 2008 9:41pm PDT

    AGH! I have been dieting and working out like a crazy woman, and that has been me. I weigh myself twice a day and it is so damn discouraging sometimes. Lately I too have been thinking once a week, and only once a week. I just can't do it, the scale is right there under my sink looking at me asking me to pay it some attention.

    PS. pb cups are my FAV too. :)

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  • nena's Avatar
    Posted by nena Wed May 21, 2008 11:00pm PDT

    I never used to weigh myself because my weight is pretty much the same all the time and my BMI is also very good. Yet, recently I bought a scale just because I'd never had one before and I thought it would be nice to have one, and now I regret it! I have become obsessed about weighing myself. it's ridiculous. I've decided to give it to my parents and only weigh myself once a week (if that) when I visit them as a way to keep away from it. I guess i could get rid of it altogether but now I am so addicted to it that I have to wean myself away from it little by little!

    why do we do this to ourselves?!!

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  • CarolynM's Avatar
    Posted by CarolynM Thu May 22, 2008 9:23am PDT

    Wow! Everything you said in the article was so acurate! I don't own a scale and when I go to the Dr. I don't allow them to weigh me. What ever the number on the scale is I don't want to know because it takes my focus off being ok with me and striving for a weight that may not be attainable! Go girl!!

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  • Anne's Avatar
    Posted by Anne Fri May 23, 2008 3:56pm PDT

    I lost almost 50 pounds 2 years ago and have kept it off by weighing myself every single day. It keeps me on track. If I gain a few, I know to adjust my eating habits before it's out of control.

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  • Eric's Avatar
    Posted by Eric Fri May 23, 2008 7:58pm PDT

    I completely agree! If I ever saw the scale it would discourage me from my weight loss, so I have avoided it for a month and 1/2 and I try think to myself "dont step on until you have reached you goal (Image wise)" I am 5'11 and my goal is 155lbs I was originaly 185lbs (so you can tell i have a two or three to go).

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  • ANNGIM's Avatar
    Posted by ANNGIM Sun May 25, 2008 6:03pm PDT

    I think ALL scales should go out the windows! Be more concerned with loosing inches and how your clothes are fitting. Eat like you know that food will always be around, and not dis-appearing in the next hour. When I know I need to cut down, I will tell myself that the chocolate will always be there when I accomplish my goal enough to want it. Chances are, when you do loose, you won't even think of it again.

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  • jo99's Avatar
    Posted by jo99 Mon May 26, 2008 1:53pm PDT

    I recently lost 75 pounds after being overweight almost my entire life. I weigh myself everyday..I can't go back to what I was!When I gain a few I know I have to cut back. When I'm down a few pounds I'm happy. It does take over your life...everything is about what I can eat and what I shouldn"t.

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  • ambi's Avatar
    Posted by ambi Thu Jul 3, 2008 6:57am PDT

    I have given this summer to my self as an opertunity to work out and take care of myself, inside and out.

    I started at the begining of summer and I will weigh myself at the end.

    Then I think I will do the same for fall. It's about long term life changeing goals for me.

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