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Monday, December 7, 2009

Dieter's Diary: Can a Dieter Throw a Dinner Party?

Next weekend I'm having people over (again) for an annual dinner party that combines two of my favorite holidays: St. Patrick's Day, the time-honored rite whereby Irish-Americans gather their loved ones together to stuff them senseless with beef and beer, and Pi Day, the observance of which involves eating pie and watching so-bad-they're-awesome movies. In my house, anyway.

Yesterday, while emailing with a friend about the menu, I felt excited but weirdly defiant. Like I was about to do something rebellious and risky, and never mind the consequences. Which of course, is pretty much what I'm planning to do as far as my non-diet diet goes: Nothing on the menu (which will include CB&C with soda bread, but also this, this, and this) is what you could call a diet superfood. In fact, a lot of it is a flat-out fat-and-salt A-bomb.

But I love to cook for company, and I love the food traditions of these holidays. In fact, the food is the whole point, the entire reason I'm having people over to begin with. Now I finally understand what all those annoying magazine articles about resisting temptation during the holidays are about: What do you do when a beloved food tradition comes up against your equally-important decision to take care of yourself and eat the best way you know how?

My strategy, for what it's worth, is this:

Portion Control. There's no way I'm not eating corned beef this year, and I couldn't possibly bake a pie without trying a piece. But this year, my pieces will be small, and my plate won't runneth over.

Walking and Talking. As the hostess, I know I'm going to be on my feet a lot, because my Must Take Care Of Everyone gland kicks into overdrive when people come over. I'll get your beer! I'll take your plate! I'll do your laundry!

Watching the Booze. Again, there's no way I won't raise a pint or two with my friends on this holiday of all holidays, but I'll drink a glass of water between each Guinness to help keep from downing too many.

Working it Off. I will be going to the gym as usual next weekend, and I might give myself a little extra time on the treadmill in exchange for that Guinness. This is what you call singing for your supper.

Not Stressing It. It's my party, and I'll eat pie if I want to. One day of not-so-optimal eating never killed anyone. And besides, as one of my inspirational and very lovely pals puts it, "A slip is not a fall." (Translation: Tomorrow is another day.)

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By Siobhan Adcock

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  • Eddie's Avatar
    Posted by Eddie Thu Mar 5, 2009 3:56pm PST

    you should walk for half an

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  • Eddie's Avatar
    Posted by Eddie Thu Mar 5, 2009 3:58pm PST

    you should walk for half an hour every day

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Fri Mar 6, 2009 3:49am PST

    This is a good article. Every party that I throw there are a few people who are "dieting". I always have a few very low fat/low calorie simple dishes for them. I treat them as though they are at risk of dying if they were to eat off the regular menu. BUT, when it comes to holiday parties, such as St. Patrick's Day, Thanksgiving etc., they can eat what the rest of us eat, bring their own or starve. If a guest ate 2 portions of everything I served at a holiday feast, they couldn't gain 3 pounds with that one meal if they tried. It is a celebration...EAT!

    Years ago a friend was throwing a party and wanted help making out an invitation list. She said, no dieters invited. I couldn't blame her. With all the wacky eating regimes people are on one could not cook for all of the needs of the thousands of diets.

    By the way, if one is 50 lbs. overweight...it is not due to my occasional parties. Lifestyle, maybe?????

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  • Zeplin522's Avatar
    Posted by Zeplin522 Fri Mar 6, 2009 5:42am PST

    It doesnt matter if you are dieting at a dinner party, just eat

    a few that you like, or do like I do eat till your full. No

    one is saying you have to eat everything. Your a grown person

    and should know your limitations. It is not up to the hostess

    to make sure you eat properly, that is your responsibilty and

    yours only.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Fri Mar 6, 2009 6:17am PST

    Zeplin: I bow to you !!!!!

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  • Zeplin522's Avatar
    Posted by Zeplin522 Sat Mar 7, 2009 7:37am PST

    Thank you Habanero. I just grew up in a time where everyone was

    responsible for his or her actions. These days we waste so much

    time, money and blaming the fast food industry trying to figure

    out why soooooo many people are overweight, when its very simple

    you control what goes in your body.

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