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Thursday, November 26, 2009

Facebook thinks you're fat

Every time I surf various news sites or gossip blogs or even Huff Po, it is inevitable that I will see an ad for either Lane Bryant, Igigi or Kiyonna. It's a little creepy, quite honestly, because I seriously doubt that my husband or my size 8 sister or David Duchovny sees those ads. Logistically, I know that the website and ad servers are digging through my browser history or cookies to know that yes, I DO shop for plus-size clothes a lot and yes, I actually buy from those online retailers. But it's still creepy, nonetheless, so I've started tuning them out.

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Likewise, Facebook serves up similar creepiness, but I always figure that it's culling from the same business, or may be triggered off of key words on my profile. For instance, I'm a member of several size-acceptance groups and probably the fact that I'm friends with several size-acceptance bloggers is throwing my demographic all out of whack. I had no idea that the problem was more pervasive than it seemed.

"...Facebook's data miners know much more about us because we tell them a whole lot more. Facebook knows my birthday, my relationship status and which book I'm reading, among other personal tidbits. The site started turning this information into dollar signs last November with the launch of Facebook Ads, which targets users' presumed areas of interest (or psychological soft spots). Basically, the subliminal goal of product advertising is to make you feel inadequate and ashamed, because you're not perfect. Your teeth are yellow. Your armpits stink. You're fat. And hairy."

We also hate it that our video game console is making us feel like less than the gorgeous people we are. Apparently, you don't judge the Wii, the Wii judges you!

Do you pay attention to online advertising, even when it is obnoxious? Would you be offended if Facebook assumed that you had a muffin top? Or do you just employ some handy dandy ad blockers that solve the problem nicely?

More from SELF: Instead of helping people lose weight, businesses are cashing in by making it easier to be fat. The only thing bigger than the products? The profits.

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  • Mr NMB's Avatar
    Posted by Mr NMB Tue Sep 9, 2008 4:30am PDT

    You sound like you have a problem being fat...

    This country is the fattest friendly country in the world if you are a person less than 5'4" tall and your a size 8 guess what? You are fat… So what are you going to do about that?

    Chances are if you live in the USA nothing.. The face book community is against the fat acceptance of America and so am I...

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  • Austin40's Avatar
    Posted by Austin40 Tue Sep 9, 2008 5:10am PDT

    Size 8 being fat???? Come on.

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  • Mr NMB's Avatar
    Posted by Mr NMB Tue Sep 9, 2008 5:28am PDT

    Like I said it depends on how tall you are...

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  • Elissa's Avatar
    Posted by Elissa Tue Sep 9, 2008 5:49am PDT

    I'm 5' with a small frame. If I were a size 6 (with these size inflated clothes we have these days) I'd be, well, maybe not quite fat, but certainly overweight. If I were an 8, I'd definitely be fat. And I know because I was.

    Still, like I said, my frame's really small. I think a person with a medium or even a small frame, at 5'4", could be a size 8 and be perfectly normal.

    And while there are a lot of fat people in the country, just because you're plus sized, doesn't mean you're fat. There are tall people, and people with very large frames that are perfectly healthy, but larger. Not nice to judge.

    I agree that we're a little too accepting of fat. With most of our country being fat, it's a problem. But it's not nice to call people fat...

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  • Laura's Avatar
    Posted by Laura Tue Sep 9, 2008 6:12am PDT

    This is so funny. I'm 5'8 weigh 162 and wear a size 8! I also wear a D cup size. I don't feel fat, so I'll leave it up to you all to decide

    !

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  • Mr NMB's Avatar
    Posted by Mr NMB Tue Sep 9, 2008 6:13am PDT

    I am 5'9" 220lbs. 18% body fat overwight yet normal body fat so I am NOT fat yet overweight I your FAT your FAT calling it anything else is just a lie...

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  • Mr NMB's Avatar
    Posted by Mr NMB Tue Sep 9, 2008 6:30am PDT

    It's all about BODY FAT not WEIGHT people...

    A person can be in shape and very fit yet OVER WEIGHT but if your body fat is too high then you are at risk for health problems...

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  • MistressMinx's Avatar
    Posted by MistressMinx Tue Sep 9, 2008 6:34am PDT

    This article isn't about whether you're fat or not - its about the fact that "advertisers" are culling our personal information from certain sites and then marketing towards us.

    Whether or not I'm fat, whether real or decided upon by some guy with a bunch of statistics, is no one's business and I don't want my advertising targeted based on things I may or may not have bought online.

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  • Caramel Cake's Avatar
    Posted by Caramel Cake Tue Sep 9, 2008 7:11am PDT

    I had noticed too the other day when I had went into the facebook blog, that they had alot of popups of Lane bryant and a new plus sized store online. I am a pluse size, but I never put my size on facebook afraid of what the other classmates would say. So how do they know? I think that they listen and eavesdrop in on what you put in as info, I think they monitor us on this computer more than we think.

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  • Mr NMB's Avatar
    Posted by Mr NMB Tue Sep 9, 2008 7:14am PDT

    MistressMinx advertisers use what they can to market products to certain types of consumers the sad truth is that based on what we purchase we are automatically putting ourselves into a demographic and the research is dome by a computer not some guy if fact the system is not only setting up a demographic it also informs health insurance companies of the consumers purchases. These statistics will determine whether you qualify as clinically obese and a potential health risk. When you put out an article on Shine it may take off on different maybe more important issues… that’s just a risk you have to take.

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