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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Kissing off caffeine, Day 1: Please God, grant me mercy

Remember how brilliantly convenient it was to start my big caffeine reduction project because I was out of coffee? Yeah, not such a fabulous idea after all.

I started off my morning convinced I could get through on some tea (a blend of black and herbal, but with less caffeine than my regular ginormous mug of coffee). And to be honest, it wasn't like this was going to be It. The End. Buh-bye for Good to Caffeine. It was just going to be a few hours until my grocery delivery saviors arrived with ten or twelve bags of food and most importantly, coffee.

A very small bag of coffee. A very small bag of expensive and half-caffeinated coffee.

When I was placing my grocery order online, I was glumly paging through the decaf coffees on the site, thinking about how I was going to orchestrate getting some (but not all) of the caffeine I was used to. And then, there it was, like a beacon of hope in a begrudging beginning to the end of my over-caffeination: Starbucks Half-Caffeinated Breakfast Blend. It felt like a miracle, like a little whole bean grace, like a way out of my cup of tea that was just not cutting it. And to make it all feel more divine, it was on sale. I was saved.

I'll be honest, those hours I waited for the groceries to arrive were not pretty. I only had a slight headache, a typical caffeine withdrawal symptom, but I felt incredibly lethargic. I dosed up with vitamin C, did some an extra-long energizing yoga DVD, and had tried to eek out a boost from a breakfast of whole grain toast and soy butter. No matter, I was still dragging.

I would have smothered the grocery delivery guy when he arrived, except I was too busy cranking up the coffee pot. Maybe I was jonesing for any little bit of caffeine I could get my hands on, but I still stuck to my plan. I only made a half a pot, something I've been doing with my full caf in preparation for about a week, because I am frankly too lazy to make more coffee once the carafe is completely empty. I will tell you that the coffee tasted amazing, no matter how much of the juice was in it.

Ahhh, relief. For about an hour. Then I felt all exhausted and horrible again. Here's where I made my big mistake. I should have taken a nap. I should have been downing water like the rivers were all about to run dry. Instead, I powered through a bunch of work and errands and even when I had the chance to rest, I just kept on going. Slowly, but I kept on going.

When I got crabby, I knew it was time to call in the big guns -- in the form of a tall coffee. I justified it to myself as being a moment of benevolence, a step in the weaning process, DAY ONE for crying out loud!

Ahhh, even more relief. That held me a few hours until dinner and a full belly and a brief zonk-out on the couch, during which time I was dead to the world and oblivious to the loud chatter of my small child, mother, and Alex Trebek. When I woke up, the headache, crabbiness, and lethargy were still there.

"Good Lord, you're a mess," my dad kindly observed. I could only nod, gather my child and purse and empty coffee cup and leave.

I'd like to say I went to bed early, but I didn't. I'd like to say I felt positive and accomplished about getting through the first day, but I didn't. I sat in my pitiful withdrawal and just felt it all, cursing Starbucks and swearing on too many non-fat sugar-free vanilla lattes that this would all be better in the morning.

Right? RIGHT?!

Ever given up caffeine? What was the first day like for you?


Catch up on why I'm kicking the coffee habit:
Kissing off caffeine: My scary wake-up call
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  • mommaofsun's Avatar
    Posted by mommaofsun Wed Apr 1, 2009 10:32am PDT

    I have given up caffeine and it really wasn't so bad. I used to drink about a pot of coffee a day, but quit cold turkey and I don't miss it. I switched to decaf tea, so, I can drink it at night and not be awake all night.

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  • DinosaursEatChicken's Avatar
    Posted by DinosaursEatChicken Wed Apr 1, 2009 11:26am PDT

    I developed acid reflux almost five years ago and haven't had caffeine since. I don't have any big problems with it, probably since I usually have too much energy anyways, but I miss not being able to have the occasional piece of chocolate (cocoa has caffeine in it).

    Herbal teas can be really tasty too and caffeine free!

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  • LizM's Avatar
    Posted by LizM Wed Apr 1, 2009 12:53pm PDT

    I gave up caffeine for almost a year several years ago because I stopped drinking sodas for breakfast, and was too lazy to make tea. (Never been a coffee person.) I like plain black tea (Tetley is the best), white tea or green tea. Flavored teas are a waste of time. I am surprised you didn't get any caffeine benefits from the tea, though - did you let it brew long enough? You can't just dunk the bag in hot water, it has to steep for 5 minutes or longer. If I were to skip tea I would get a wicked headache!

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  • HM.Hou's Avatar
    Posted by HM.Hou Wed Apr 1, 2009 1:43pm PDT

    I gave up caffeine last December, and have felt great ever since. I would drink Monster Energy and RedBull (up to 3-4 Red Bulls a day!). I had to give it up cold turkey, because my self discipline was not where I could slowly cut myself off. I did have migraines on and off for the first week or two, but after that I was fine. I have lost some weight, and don't really ever feel as tired as I did WITH the energy drinks. If you can get through the migraines, you will be set!

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  • Meira's Avatar
    Posted by Meira Wed Apr 1, 2009 1:47pm PDT

    i used to be addicted Red bull,

    like her^

    and i had to stop,

    it seems to have ruined my life,

    and i had very bad crashes after wards i quit.

    but now im all about tea:)

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  • Maria's Avatar
    Posted by Maria Wed Apr 1, 2009 4:45pm PDT

    My dermatologist told me caffeine is good for you skin and can partially erase sun damage...so I'm sticking with my coffee

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  • Shawna P's Avatar
    Posted by Shawna P Thu Apr 2, 2009 5:43am PDT

    I had to give up my two to three Starbucks habit a day once I got pregnant. My doctor said one or two small cups a WEEK, not everyday, is fine. And no espresso, just regular coffee. I thought I was going to die. I had headaches and felt sick until I got my coffee fix. After a few weeks it got better, and now I can go weeks without a cup of coffee. I just get a latte on the occasional saturday and that is it.

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  • DanaS's Avatar
    Posted by DanaS Thu Apr 2, 2009 10:54am PDT

    I found when I gave up caffine that I had to slowly take myself off of it. If I stopped cold turkey, I got some wicked caffine headaches. So I cut back to one drink a day, then one every other day, and so on until I didn't have any. It was better that way. I stayed strong for a few years too, but then went on a diet that made me give up sugar so I needed another vice and I welcomed caffine back, although I still try to limit myself to one drink a day.

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  • HOTCHICK's Avatar
    Posted by HOTCHICK Thu Apr 2, 2009 11:06am PDT

    I feel your pain, unfortunately I have not given up caffeine but I have tried in the past and it was not a pretty sight. I was mean, cranky and down right irritable all day. But to limit the intake of caffeine I cut out soft drinks, and limit my self to 1 maybe 2 cups of coffee. Which is good for me because I use to thrive off of coffee. I would take least 2 trips to Starbucks around the block from my job during the day, then more coffee once I got home. Not to mention 3 or 4 Pepsi's. I got a horrible smell to my urine, went to the doctor, she could find nothing wrong. So after careful analysis I came to the conclusion that not only was I drinking to much coffee, but I was also drinking to many dark drinks and not enough water. Now I have no more coffee after my 1 maybe 2 morning cups, no soft drinks at all. I still hate water, but I make myself drink at least 1 propel or a vitamin water everyday and I drink Brisk ice teas when I need a little flavor in my life.

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  • MonkeyS's Avatar
    Posted by MonkeyS Thu Apr 2, 2009 2:08pm PDT

    funny. just two days ago my doctor asked me to reduce my caffeine intake by half. i drink about 6 or so cups of black tea a day.

    found a lump and she said sometimes caffeine can cause lumps in your breasts. so i go back in 5 weeks for another check up and have to cut back.

    did i mention im an accountant and its tax season? long hours. no sleep. im dying. and i just drink tea!

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