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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Moderation vs. avoidance: How do you deal with certain foods while dieting?

I don't like to subscribe to the belief that certain foods are so "bad" they should be eliminated, but it's also true that I don't typically eat white bread any more. It's not that I'm a low-carb devotee, exactly, but as long as I'm watching what I eat I'd rather get more bang for my buck. Slice of bread, or, like, a whole salad?

Okay, they aren't always on par calorie-wise (especially considering the things I like to cover my salad with. Hello, feta cheese, WE MEET AGAIN), but I have definitely found that it's easier for me to lose/maintain weight if I completely cut out the simple carb breads, pastas, and crackers I like to go overboard on. Passing on certain foods -- like pillowy-soft, little-nutritional-content, diabolically tasty slices of processed bread -- often forces me to re-think my meal options in positive ways, and go with whole grains, veggies/fruit, or protein instead.

It seems silly, though, to make a food totally off limits, but I guess I'm still trying to figure out what works best for me when it comes to maintaining good eating habits. Certain things I acknowledge and don't try to completely change, like my tendency to snack at night. Instead of imposing a No Eating After Dusk rule or whatever, I allow myself healthy options like cut-up vegetables or yogurt. Similarly, I could just adjust the portions of bread I eat and the frequency, but for some reason it's often easier to just exclude it as a menu choice altogether. Maybe because I don't want a tiny piece of bread, I want HALF A LOAF OF WONDER BREAD. With peanut butter. And butter. And, um, honey.

This, by the way, is the same reason I can't eat a quarter-cup of ice cream, a solitary M&M, or a small handful of chips. Because allowing myself less than what I want doesn't make the craving go away, it just makes it worse.

Do you find that it's more challenging to control the portions of the foods that you're trying to eat in moderation, or to avoid them completely?

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  • Barachiel's Avatar
    Posted by Barachiel Wed Sep 3, 2008 5:35pm PDT

    I find the more you focus on a more active healthy lifestyle, the less junk you want. Your body just switches gears.

    Then again you have to make your own choices, as long as you understand the facts, go forth young eater.

    To this day I still get a craving for McD's fries. Haven't had them in years, but I still want them. I still have my French Toast though. I don't care what anyone says about carbs, they will be out of my life way before the French Toast is. Once every few weeks, but I still have it.

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  • mainemommyof2's Avatar
    Posted by mainemommyof2 Thu Sep 4, 2008 8:13am PDT

    I've noticed that once you really start eating healthy, when you do eat junk, it makes you feel like crap and you really don't crave it as much. I can't cut out something completely as then I find myself with over the top cravings for it. I've found that if I allow myself something when I want it, then I don't crave it that much and when it's presented to me, I will usually turn it down. (except Peanut Butter - it and I still need to come to an understanding!)

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  • lm's Avatar
    Posted by lm Thu Sep 4, 2008 1:13pm PDT

    its good to do the following:

    dont have a scale in the house and eat correctly 98% of the time and allow yourself something "bad".

    just whatever portion you use to eat of that bad thing CUT IT IN HALF

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  • hez's Avatar
    Posted by hez Thu Sep 4, 2008 5:32pm PDT

    I eat pretty healthy and I go to the gym every other day. I do however get a really bad craving for a brownie fudge sundae every so often. I've narrowed it down to the hot fudge part that I really want so I will try to substitute first. I'll heat up some chocolate soy milk or eat a piece of dark chocolate. If that doesn't work and I'm still craving it a day or two later, I'll buy some fudge and eat it over frozen yogurt. If that still doesn't work I just give in, but eat only half.

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  • shannon's Avatar
    Posted by shannon Fri Sep 5, 2008 8:39am PDT

    Barachiel, something that you stated may have actually given me my "aha moment" with my weight loss struggles. You stated that you still crave McDonald's fries after all these years, but that you haven't indulged in that craving. That reminds me of the fact that I quit smoking almost four years ago and I still get cravings once in a while, but do not indulge in them...if I can do it with nicotine, maybe I can adopt that same mindset to food! Thanks so much for your comment!

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  • Caitie's Avatar
    Posted by Caitie Fri Sep 5, 2008 9:03am PDT

    I figure that if my tummy is not grumbling (digesting air) I may not actually be hungry. I am awful with portion control if there is a bag of chips I'm eating it. So I don't buy it. My only trouble is if I go out to eat. I am raised to be a member of the clean plate club unfortunately.

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  • Brandi's Avatar
    Posted by Brandi Fri Sep 5, 2008 10:58am PDT

    I find that there are certain foods I enjoy that are trigger foods. They trigger an urge to continue eating that I can't control. I avoid my trigger foods. Other foods that don't trigger the same response - I enjoy in moderation. Generally, the more exercise I get, the less likely I am to stray from my nutritional program, because I don't want to undo all that hard work.

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  • Beth's Avatar
    Posted by Beth Fri Sep 5, 2008 4:45pm PDT

    I find it much more difficult to deny myself. I end up craving it so bad that I go completely overboard. I basically allow myself to eat whatever I want, but eating the bad stuff in moderation. I even allow myself the occasional McDonald's cheeseburger (yes, I know). If I allow myself a treat now and then I don't go crazy and eat too much. I keep healthy sweets around like non-fat pudding, fruit and sweetened rice cakes. That helps curb the sweets craving. I weigh only about 10 pounds more than I did in high school ten years ago, and that's after having a baby. So, it works for me.

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  • promise's Avatar
    Posted by promise Sat Sep 6, 2008 2:42pm PDT

    i know what you mean! who just takes 5 M&M's instead of the whole lil baggy? who says to a bag of tostitos "im only gonna have 5.." once it starts its hard to stop! but i agree with u, i have cut out all the junk food, i dont have a lick of it in my kitchen because if its outta sight, its outta mind. if im really craving something sweet ill just drive to a store and get what im craving and enjoy it.

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  • Steffie's Avatar
    Posted by Steffie Wed Sep 10, 2008 11:51am PDT

    I get an upset stomach if I eat too much junk. Processed foods, especially. I eat so much fresh fruits and veggies, and make almost all my meals from scratch (or with ingredients without chemicals or preservatives!) If I eat too many chips or too much sweets, it makes me feel sick and literally want to vomit.

    However, that doesn't mean that I don't indulge. I have dessert every night - just in small portions. I allow myself one to two SMALL servings of something naughty every day. Elsewise I'd go insane. I need my sweets and food is a reward for me.

    I'm prone to mindless eating. Munching an entire bag of popcorn while reading, specifically. And I can comfort-eat at times. Give me a bag of Doritos and a tub of cream cheese, and forget it. I'll be lost in a daze for 3 hours and by then, the bag and tub will be gone. Odd combination? Yes. Insanely comforting and blissful? Oh yes. My downfall.

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