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Thursday, December 3, 2009

NOCTURNAL By Ariel Allera

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NOCTURNAL

Ariel Allosada Allera 


What a journey this has been!


From running errands in and out of College Assurance Plan, through mixing drinks at A Taste of Mandarin Chinese Restaurant, to studying Journalism at the University of the Visayas whilst editing its student publication... thank God I've finally found my way here.


I thought landing a job at a call center would be illusive for someone whose soft spot for the written word was imminent and whose fear of talking intense. Isolated as a killjoy who neither drank nor smoked, I always figured that maybe, I didn't belong in this industry. Listening to friends who yapped about their early adjustments in the floor and their post-shift escapades, I couldn't help but cringe at the thought of going with the flow, let alone starting to say my opening spiel---that is, if I should consider numbering myself amongst them. I had qualms: What if I couldn't get rid of the butterflies in my stomach? How could I ever survive in an environment where everyone had no other option than to succumb to the so-called social life?


Speaking would be the last thing that I could've possibly imagined myself doing. Growing up gay within a realm where almost always I was deprived of my right to voice my choices and opinions and say my piece on a certain platform, I'd virtually locked my system from any kind of undertaking that would require talking or rubbing elbows with others. My insecurities were sickening, and my shyness to be around a speaking work environment paralyzed me to the bones. What with the hearsays that call center agents are impeccable in spoken English and the adage that says, "Be a Roman when you're in Rome." So it goes without saying that if your colleagues are on Aux 2, you had better take the lift with them and join them as they smoke or have a chit-chat over a cuppa coffee---otherwise, you're out!
 


It was not until my Japanese boyfriend thrilled me with his visit that I was caught with no choice but to say goodbye to my previous job and hug my irresistible beau hello. Too long a story to tell, I was eventually lost in limbo, downtrodden and distraught, broke and broken-hearted, without a penny to my name.


The nocturnal nuns at Saint Joseph Church in Mabolo were witnesses to my late-night visits in their Adoration Chapel, where I'd be seen crying my eyes out to the Blessed Sacrament. My dire starvation for food and money, not to mention my determination to move on against all odds, prompted me to consider flirting with the thought of applying in a call center at all costs. Because I didn't want to shortchange Mr. Sykes with my internal system that was just undergoing its recuperation, I gave myself a break or two.


My being a missologist afforded me a good six months to enjoy travelling, crossing over from the Metropolis to the mystical island of Mindanao. As regional coordinator (and scriptwriter), I chaperoned our very own bet to Miss Philippines-Earth in Manila and took care of Sarah Katrina Miñoza until the coronation night, where she would be crowned Miss Philippines-Fire 2007. Back in Cebu, fashion director Dexter Alazas was awaiting me to write the script for the annual Region 7 Search for Miss Teen Philippines International. Then there's Cagayan, where a modeling workshop was to be conducted by friend Marlon Wafer who got me to teach makeup to model wannabes. Anyhow, I had the time of my life in Zamboanga del Sur where I've been writing the script for Miss Pagadian beauty pageant.


I didn't have second thoughts wiring my resume to Sykes upon coming back home to Cebu. I was carrying butterflies in my stomach en route to the series of exams, interviews and whatnot, which I was to pass. Despite fears that I was going to bluff, I was downright bent on making it to the floor.


Sykes welcomed me with open arms. At first, familiar jitters came visiting this nervous wreck. But thanks to Wave 66-A for sharing the tension in the room, our competitive trainers for their indisputably effective method in bringing out the best in each one of us. It didn't take long for my jitters to go away, for me to have the guts to talk like Miss Universe 2000 Lara Dutta, the icon of eloquence amongst all beauty queens. Honestly, there had been times when I Lydia de Vegaed to the comfort room as though it were for call of nature, when I was actually whimpering inside one of the cubicles, praying to God for more guts to take more calls, to be an icon of confidence for those who were in the same shoes I'd been.


I have nothing but good experiences being in a call center, although I could no longer travel to out-of-town pageants or weddings as often as I'd love to. Because call centers are dreaded for stress issues, I sure don't feel the least bit of it all. I guess it's because I make sure I sleep tight before I come to work---thanks to my earplugs, eye mask, cereal, not to mention Melatonin for helping me fall in deep slumber. Likewise, I see to it that I gulp in lots of water as much as I engorge veggies when it's mealtime for me at the pantry. 


I take it that the nature of job in the call center is both fun and educational. Not only are we well compensated but also we're given the opportunity to learn about American culture and lifestyle. Personally, I believe that since the advent of call centers in the Philippines, more of us Filipinos are able to practice English as our second language, thus becoming more confident in our communication skills.                   


In a nutshell, I take pride in the fact that I've not just talked the talk and walked the walk but most importantly, I've stayed put and am keeping up the good work after 15 months of chanting "Thank you for choosing AT&T Internet Services..." amidst the night, whilst at the same time enjoying the company of my colleagues who have stood by me high and low, despite the coldness of the night in my journey alongside the Real People in Sykes that offer no less than Real Solutions.

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