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Friday, December 4, 2009

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder: No Laughing Matter

Everyone always snickers a little when the topic of Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder comes up. But, it can be devastating, and very sad, for women who suffer from it. Here's proof...

Jezebel pointed out a post on BoingBoing.com about an anonymous woman who shared her heart-wrenching life with PGAD. "During my second semester of senior year, I counted orgasms on a sheet of paper," she wrote. "I was having 100 and 200 a day."

Imagine living life this way:

"Every time I do something, I have to evaluate my situation. Where am I? Are there other people around? How well do I know them? What is the likelihood that, if I don't get someplace private in time, things could get complicated? Can I make noise? (Being vocal isn't necessary, but it helps release more of the pressure.) I avoid triggers--things like music with heavy bass, vibrations from riding a train or an idle car, cold air, musky cologne, darkness, stress, scary movies, romantic movies, unexpected touch, a full bladder. [PGAD] is completely unrelated to sex drive. Watching sex scenes does nothing for me, but the other day, when a friend put his hand on my back, I found it really hard to contain a screaming orgasm. If my heart rate shoots up too high for too long, I flare up. I avoided exercise and gained a lot of weight. One time, I was hugging a male relative and I felt an orgasm arise. It felt really dirty and wrong, and I totally freaked out. Now, I try to avoid hugs in general unless I feel ready for them."

And, another story, this time from Heather Dearmon a woman who is married in South Carolina, who also suffers from PGAD. According to MSNBC: "It got to the point where morning, afternoon and night I had to take care of it. But the more you masturbate, the more you desensitize yourself so it would take a good hour to have three orgasms. This is at the point when I started to become suicidal. My whole life was being robbed from me." Sadly, she began pushing her husband away because she treasured any time she was not feeling aroused, she said.

Can you even imagine?

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  • Gina's Avatar
    Posted by Gina Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:49am PDT

    WOW that would really suck, I can't even imagine. I didn't even know this existed.

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  • Velvet Raindrops's Avatar
    Posted by Velvet Raindrops Wed Oct 14, 2009 9:13am PDT

    I'm speechless. That is so disturbing and intensely sad for people who struggle with this problem.

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  • phil's Avatar
    Posted by phil Wed Oct 14, 2009 11:42am PDT

    100 - 200 a day?....i call B*** S***

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  • Angel's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Wed Oct 14, 2009 12:29pm PDT

    Never heard of it... Live & learn... Sounds like it would make every day a struggle....

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  • Kathleen's Avatar
    Posted by Kathleen Wed Oct 14, 2009 12:45pm PDT

    hmm...wow never heard of it...n very surprising. Makes em more aware of taking life a little more stressless for a person like me whom its hard for ...wow...seeing a dr. for this...maybe meds...wow im amaze and could never understand what dat would feel like...wow

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  • LucieR's Avatar
    Posted by LucieR Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:48pm PDT

    I've never heard of this condition before. I can't imagine how you can manage to get anything done each day while having this going on. I wish they would have added if they have any type of treatment for the condition?

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  • kyah's Avatar
    Posted by kyah Thu Oct 15, 2009 2:37am PDT

    didnt even know this existed...cant imagine how to go by everyday with this disorder..

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  • Fernanda's Avatar
    Posted by Fernanda Thu Oct 15, 2009 5:31am PDT

    Wow. Yeah I have heard about this like once before. I guess too much or too little of anything is never good huh.

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  • *devotion72's Avatar
    Posted by *devotion72 Thu Oct 15, 2009 7:08am PDT

    I have seen an Episode on Greys Anatomy on this. I guess it does exist! I just can't imagine going through life like this.

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  • tbone64's Avatar
    Posted by tbone64 Thu Oct 15, 2009 7:40am PDT

    Like so many others, I never heard of this. After reading this piece, it's obvious that it is not only real, but also life-altering and, in many cases, embarassing. I can't imagine living with something like that.

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