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Saturday, December 5, 2009
"Two Tiny Changes": 5 'failure' pick me up tips
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Yesterday, the theme for this week's
tiny inspiring signs was about failure.
Today, I thought it would be a fantastic opportunity to offer tips on
ways to pick yourself up during those times when you feel like a
failure.Your
Inner Resistance Monster
just thrives on those "failure" periods as a way to keep you in the
smallness of your comfort zone. We want you to achieve your goals and
dreams, so here's 5 tiny tips to help you on your way.
- You may feel like there is a huge letter L tattooed on your
head for "Loser" but I can assure you that it's only imaginary .The
only person who can see that Loser L is you because you put it there
via your own harsh judgment of yourself or because someone called you a
Loser and you agreed with them. As easily as you put that Loser L on
your head, you can easily throw it away. You control how you feel about
yourself, no one else does.
- The failure feeling is blown up because you are focused on only
a small part of the picture where yes relative to size, your mistake or
inability to achieve something seems huge. Step back and now take a
10,000ft view of your journey and you will see that this mistake is
really only a blip in the big picture. In fact, that blip which you
label "failure" could actually be the major stepping stone to moving
you out of the wrong direction and into the right one.
Continue reading..."
Two Tiny Changes": 5 'failure' pick me up tips"
Related: wisdom, self improvement, self help, inspiration, failure, advice
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Posted by AMBkrB Fri Jun 13, 2008 5:06pm PDT
I just failed the math part of the WASL and this aricle helped me erase the loser sign. THANKS:)
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Posted by JD Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:02pm PDT
if you feel like a loser you will portray yourself as one and therefore
be treated as one
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Posted by Shafinaz Sat Jun 14, 2008 11:16am PDT
Yeah I totally agree with you smilenwman. So, never underestimate ourselves ;)
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Posted by Sherrill Sat Jun 14, 2008 11:33am PDT
Sooo...Is anyone else upset about not going on vacation this year due to cost of everything going up? I would love to hear your plans!!
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Posted by RANJA Sat Jun 14, 2008 12:24pm PDT
It is better to give the same treatment for those who are going to trample you down as a looser. I just make, 10 folds of comments against this kind of winners.Then they are convinced that they are also in the same position.
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Posted by cheryl Sat Jun 14, 2008 2:15pm PDT
I get days when I feel like a big L loser like when I lose a job Also my dad a very abusive verbly n physcally when I was growin up .It's hard sometimes but I get threw it n do something good for myself to build my selfesteam up again like go for a walk,I love to walk it helps me clear my mind n I know it's healthy.2 month s ago I started workin for cleaning servise between that n walk to I lost 15 pounds I weight 215 lbs now I'm to 185 I'm really happy about that also by walkin to work in stead of takin the bus I save money n helpin the econame.
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Posted by Sat Jun 14, 2008 6:58pm PDT
i feel like a loser all the time...... but i solve it out by doing the things i enjoy doing like listening to music..... it gets it off my mind....how about you?
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Posted by Mitzi T Sun Jun 15, 2008 1:27am PDT
*SENDING DATE:'SUN.JUNE15TH;2008.'
*SUBJECT:SMILENWMAN.
**MESSAGE:= ~I"COMPLETELY-FULLY-TOTALLY"..'DISAGREE'-WITH:- =
'SMILENWMAN';B/C="Y"BE:'TREATED'AS:"LOSER"--FOR:?
~THAT:INDIVIDUAL...IS-WAY-OVER "WRONG." AND..STEPPED-
OUTSIDE OF:OVER-DOING"BOUNDERIES."/"LEAGUE."
~~WHAT DOES SHE THINK SHE-WAS/WASN'T//"DOING"-"NOT:"-
DOING-THINKING?/"NOT:"-THINKING?
-HAVE A NICE DAY.-
#MEMO:WHEREVER-THIS:-GOES.
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Posted by elegant Sun Jun 15, 2008 4:51pm PDT
This is really a great help! thanks! i'm about to shift my course because i'm afraid to take the risk, but i now tend to pursue my course. big thank you!
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Posted by candy Thu Jun 26, 2008 7:58am PDT
Its really helpful thanks but i think that when i feel like a failure. nothing seems to work
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