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Sunday, November 29, 2009

User Post: To Weigh Or Not To Weigh? For MizFit there is no question.

Dear MizFit,

I haven't seen you talk about it before but I struggle with the scale. A LOT. Right now I am weighing myself every day. Always. Would it be better to weigh once a week?  I kind of know in my head it might be but cannot let go of my daily scale visits no matter how crappy I feel after. 

Also, should I weigh in the morning?  Is it true that a morning weigh will give me the best information?

I try and pick emails which I think ask questions many people have. This one DEFINITELY wins by a landslide.
Ive received the same email—written myriad ways— from a number of you.
Before I answer lemmie give a brief disclaimer: I could ramble about this compelling topic forever.

For hours.

It would be a MizFit video of the week and run night & day & day & night and I'd still have more to rambles left inside me.

All that to say what follows is merely scratching the surface and all my opinion.

Now let’s get to the good stuff.

Im not a fan of the scale.

Pretty much period.

Sure it’s great to hop on them once a year during your annual physical but—in MizFit’s mind—that really should be it.

I believe, in our heart of hearts, we know if we've gained or lost before we step upon that self-esteem demolishing numbers providing machine.

(& I wont even start down the muscle weighing more than fat path. I dont know what I weigh but Im confident it's more than one would guess.)

However, since Im aware that 99% of the population disagrees with my scale'pinion, let’s at least set a few boundaries with that hunk of metal which can rule our lives if we give it too much power.

I implore you never, EVER *EVER* to weigh yourself daily. Talk about a mind-game. If our goal is to be kind to ourselves and set ourselves up for success this surely is not the path.

Chinese food for lunch with too much soy sauce? Follow it all up with some air popped popcorn & salt? The scale is definitely going to be up a few pounds the next morning.

Spend a long, hot, day in the sun and forget to drink enough fluids? Your dehydration could definitely reflect itself on the scale in pounds lost.

If you must ignore all my sage advice & weigh yourself daily, oh emailer, Id suggest you pick a set time and stick with that schedule.

This segues nicely to your second question about the accurate weight reading in the morning .

Many weight-loss professionals recommend weighing first thing in the morning (post-peeing if you wanna be extra sure you’re empty) as, since you havent eaten in a while, you will receive a true “read” or weight.

Me? I really dont think that it matters.The difference is minuscule whether you weigh first thing or late.

I guess you can make the effort to always weigh either at the end of the day or first thing in the morning—-but MizFit doesnt roll with the scale like that.

Alas, there is no dramatic reason why I dont weigh myself either (I know. There’s no hope for a turbulent MizFit memoir which could then be turned into a Lifetime movie starring La Lohan) .

For me it is *all* about how the clothes fit.

For me it's as simple as asking myself: are my favorite jeans too tight?

If the answer is YES (and, believe me, is has been!) then Ive gained a few & it’s time to re-examine my activity level or my diet.

I wrote an article recently where I suggested people pick an article of clothing as a check-in piece (this was geared toward those who'd shed a great deal of weight/were beginning to maintain), shove the scale in the garage, and try on the article of clothing once a week instead.

If I could tell you what to do, emailer, Id suggest going that route.

Find a pair of pants/skirt/shorts you fit into/aspire to wear and rename that your scale.

I promise you, while it might be frustrating on the days the item doesnt fit, it will be no where near as self-esteem bashing as a hunk of metal bearing a meaningless number.

That's my .02, Oh Readers of Mine, and by virtue of visiting your blogs, Im fully aware many of you disagree with me.

What's your rationale for visiting the scale on a daily basis? Have you found it serves to motivate you unlike our emailer?
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Comments 1-10 of 17
  • Lizbeth's Avatar
    Posted by Lizbeth Fri Apr 17, 2009 10:36am PDT

    I do weight myself too often, but it's one of the mnay markers that keep me in reality. The problem is when I start lifting, like now, right before kayaking and hiking season. MY meaurements shrink but the scale either stays or goes up and I Hate it when the scale goes up regardless of my actual health. I know.

    I agree with the responder in this-I use a certain peice of clothing as the definitive marker as to whether or not I'm huge. A very fitted black corset top.

    To each his own on this one.

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  • sita's Avatar
    Posted by sita Fri Apr 17, 2009 10:54am PDT

    I agree that it's one of my weight loss markers too, but it doesn't have the final say on my self perception and it's not my one true nothing else counts health marker. I weigh myself once a week, if I notice the scale going up I think ok what did I do last week to cause that. Maybe I ate some fries when I probably shouldn't have or a 2nd scoop of icecream, or whatever... but if I truly felt that yeah I watched what I ate and kept to my workout routine then I don't let it bother me. I chalk it up to bloating, water retention, weight fluctuation or weight training instead. My boyfriends, a tape measure, my jeans, and how much energy and daily endurance I have are usually way better indicators of whether I'm losing weight or not. I guess when you think about it there are soooo many things that affect and change our weight (whether up or down) that it seems wrong to measure it with just one little instrument.

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  • Melany's Avatar
    Posted by Melany Fri Apr 17, 2009 2:36pm PDT

    I've never really been obsessed with the scale - but I like to have one to kind of keep a check and balance now and then. However, I do LOVE the notion of having an article of clothing as your true reference. I have that specific pair of jeans... and I usually know before I put them on whether they will button or not. And knowing this - I don't usually even try if I know they aren't going to fit. That enables me to hang on to them - otherwise I would get mad and throw them out some day!

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  • Stephanie Quilao's Avatar
    Posted by Stephanie Quilao Fri Apr 17, 2009 4:43pm PDT

    I always tell people, "Don't let the scale run off with your happiness. You keep your joy!"

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  • Michelle's Avatar
    Posted by Michelle Fri Apr 17, 2009 4:49pm PDT

    I don't own a scale. I never have. I can tell by how my clothes are fitting (or not fitting). While I was pregnant, due to some issues I had to visit my OB weekly or bi-weekly for most of my pregnancy. I hated the scale. It stressed me out each and every week (seriously blood pressure would shoot up) and I was supposed to be gaining weight. So that confirmed for me that the scale is just not a good tool to have in my life.

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  • Michelle's Avatar
    Posted by Michelle Fri Apr 17, 2009 5:43pm PDT

    I never owned a scale until hubby decided he needed one and now I find myself on it once in a while just because it is there. But that is maybe once a month. I don't care what I weigh. I care how I feel.

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  • Angie's Avatar
    Posted by Angie Sat Apr 18, 2009 5:56am PDT

    OH yes..the scale....I can't even count how many times I have had to tell my clients to NOT step on the scale daily. Everything you said is so true! I even did an experiment with the scale a couple weeks ago and weighed myself every morning and night. It changed anywhere between 3-6 pounds and did I get all worked up..no, because I know that is normal depending on what you eat.

    I agree..go with the clothes to see how you feel and how they fit, its what I do!

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  • Sean's Avatar
    Posted by Sean Sat Apr 18, 2009 7:04am PDT

    As alway, a great topic of discussion. I too feel the same way about 'the scale'.

    I believe it's all in how we feel, our energy level, our mood, and YES how our clothes fit. These characteristics are far more tangible and measurable when it comes to progress and achievement.

    Way to go Miz!

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  • Zeplin522's Avatar
    Posted by Zeplin522 Sat Apr 18, 2009 12:15pm PDT

    I have a scale that I walk by everyday on never get on it.

    I've maintained the same weight my whole life. My clothes

    fit and when I shop I still fit into the same size. I

    think weighing yourself to often may make you feel bad

    if you've gained a pound or two or if your trying to loose

    and didnt do as well as you expected, it could do more

    harm than good. Being healthy is more important.

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  • JoKTM's Avatar
    Posted by JoKTM Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:37pm PDT

    I dont go on the scale often I can tell weight loss or gain by clothes.

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