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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Weight Loss and Teens

By Debra McCord 

Teen Wars: Salads Versus Pizza

Many teens are overweight and really want to be thin. Sometimes, their idea of how to take off the pounds is not necessarily the right way. Talk to your teen about healthy foods versus junk foods. Help them learn to eat healthily rather than allowing them to go on a crash diet. Be supportive by providing healthy meals at home and encourage them to make healthy choices on their own.

Thin Can Be Too Thin

There are times that a teen's weight loss becomes so dramatic that a parent cannot ignore there's a problem. When the problem ends up being an eating disorder like anorexia or bulimia, the family has to get involved. Get the help of a doctor who can help the family deal with the teen's eating disorder. Most of these disorders stem from a low self-image, and they need the correct type of counseling and treatment to get the problem under control.

Don't Blow Smoke

Many teens experiment with smoking for weight loss. Yes, the smoking does tend to make them lose weight. In reality, they are trading their lack of effort to adopt a healthy diet and lifestyle for an addiction that could cause them health issues for the rest of their lives. Smoking is not a way teens or anyone else should lose weight. Of course, if a parent smokes, your argument to quit smoking is going to be more difficult. Perhaps you should consider getting healthy as a family and learn together the correct way to eat to maintain good health.

Move It to Lose It

Encourage teens to get active, start moving and learn that exercise can be fun. When your teen starts moving, she's going to start losing weight and become more healthy in general. Encourage her to find sports teams to become involved with, swim in the pool, walk in the mall or ride a bike through the neighborhood. Whatever activity your teen is interested in, be supportive. Spend time talking to your teen while walking. The walk will get you both moving, and you'll learn to enjoy your walks while you spend time together.

Get Real About Role Models

Help your teen to be realistic about the role models in his life and his own body type. Many teens can be confused about their self-image when they are constantly exposed to airbrushed models and pop stars in magazines. Discuss the importance of a healthy body image and a healthy diet to maintain a healthy weight; thin is not always healthy. The best role model a teen can have is his parent. Show your teen the right way to lose weight by incorporating a healthy diet and exercise plan in his life to manage or lose weight.

About this Author

Debra McCord is a part-time sports photographer and freelance writer. She is passionate about aerobics, yoga and fitness training. In addition, McCord has special interests in all types of dance and has published many online articles pertaining to fitness.

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  • Goldy's Avatar
    Posted by Goldy Wed Jul 29, 2009 1:26am PDT

    Hello, I am a sophomore in high school. I am really concern about my weight, I really want to lose weight, I've tried to lessen the portion of the food that I eat. I also power walk or just walk about 45 minutes a day. I weigh 145 and I am 5'4. I really really want to lose weight. I know I am overweight. I am really self-conscious about how I look. I look at myself in the mirror as an obese. I am sorry. But I just want to loose weight. I do not want to try any of the diet pill, since I can't probably take them anyways. But I need help, I have tried my best to lessen my intact for snacks also. I eat a lot of fruits since it is so hot in Southern California. Can anybody please help me to lose weight. I was in the basketball team in my school, I didn't really lose weight I just gained some muscle, but I need something to help me loose maybe about 10 pounds at the most. PLEASE please I need help. Thank you for whoever is reading this and will be kindly to help me. <3

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Tue Aug 4, 2009 7:54am PDT

    Goldy, I know I have told you on your blog... you are not overweight, especially for your height. I promise... Ask your doctor.

    All you can do is keep excercising... try lifting some weights to build some lean muscle, you can get cheap handweights at walmart or target for less than $10 a pair and find some exercises online. And keep staying away from processed and fried foods. But really you are doing great and sometimes we just platau, you need to change it up a bit.

    If you still need help try and see your Doctor or the school nurse, they will have the best advice for you since they are near you.

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  • slam's Avatar
    Posted by slam Tue Aug 4, 2009 8:38am PDT

    Seems like common sense. This author, while passionate about health related subjects, is not a nurse, doctor, nutritionist, trained in psychology or other related field. Kids receive so many mixed messages from the media (thin can be too thin---yea but all the young celebs out there exemplify this exponentially). I've seen plenty of parents who would NOT be good role models for their kids in the way of healthy eating and active lifestyle. Turn off the "boob-tube" and get outside; don't drink soda; eat from the earth (all fruits and veggies)!

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  • sita's Avatar
    Posted by sita Tue Aug 4, 2009 9:11am PDT

    Goldy please please please do not go thinking you are obese gosh no!!! Katie is totally right. I'm a little over 5' 4" and weigh 144. I gained a ton a weight when I got into college and I had not been at this weight since probably middle school. I remember hating how I looked back then and thinking how big I was compared to all my friends/cousins and now I realize how WRONG I was. That was not me being big that was me having curves, hahaha!!! (something that my husband really doesn't mind now and something that if I had not been so shy/self conscious to look around I would've noticed others didn't "mind" either hehe)

    Now I work out at least 3 times a week, watch my portions, eat my fruits/veggies, and have cut out junk food... I feel 100xs better. I know it's rough but you're already doing a lot of things to make the situation better so I'm glad. I also want to lose about 10 more pounds but that's just so that I don't have to worry about going back to the overweight section if my weight ever fluctuates again. I can also feel myself starting to hit a plateau but oh well there's nothing I can do except maybe push myself a little bit harder and keep doing what I'm doing. Realizing that plateau's are a natural reaction and not caused because of me have really helped to keep me sane, haha.

    Good luck on your weight loss!!!

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  • Emilia's Avatar
    Posted by Emilia Tue Aug 4, 2009 9:36am PDT

    What's hard in high school is how much everyone ELSE seems to talk about weight, and how much it rubs off on a girl who may otherwise not be thinking about it. Although mathematically I was never overweight, I always listened to my skinny friends comment about other girls- who seemed smaller than I was- and how "big" they are. You start to wonder what they say about you behind your back...

    I'll be honest: it's hard to lose weight in high school because you have so many other things to worry about (good things, like homework; stupid things, like what your friends think). When I finished high school, I was 5'2" and wore a size 10. In college, I started going to the gym (which I'd never done before) and controlling what I eat (my family isn't into diet food per se) and now, 2 years after graduation, am at a size 5-6 that looks much better on a girl my height.

    Basically, you need to keep in mind that your body is changing in high school and dieting might affect something unintentionally. Staying healthy should be your primary concern, not necessarily dropping pounds and inches.

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  • Rebekah's Avatar
    Posted by Rebekah Tue Aug 4, 2009 10:05am PDT

    Goldy, I'd like to reiterate that YOU ARE NOT OBESE--in fact, according to your BMI, you're in the health weight range for your height! But I know what it feels like to look at yourself and think you are. It sounds like you've already made some healthy decisions in your life, but they take time to work.

    You can speed things up by intensifying your workouts (ex, try jogging once or twice a week instead of walking), but please be careful not to overdo it and stay hydrated in the heat (fyi, get running shoes or you can hurt your feet, which could lead to a real set back--I speak from personal experience). Set realistic goals for yourself. You should lose absolutely no more than 2 pounds per week on average--one pound is more realistic for many people, especially those who don't have huge amounts of weight to lose. Also make sure your goal weight is not too low; ask your doctor or type 'BMI calculator' into a search engine to find out your healthy weight range, and don't go below. NEVER compare your body to fashion models or magazine models; fashion models are genetically programmed to be thin, and represent less than 2% of the population. Magazine models are photoshopped to look thinner. Try keeping a food diary to see if you may be eating more than you realize--it's not unusual for people to forget about small snacks throughout the day, and underestimate their calorie intake. Try cutting out soft-drinks, or only drinking diet, if you haven't already--they can quickly boost a meal's calorie content from okay to way too much. Try avoiding "diet" meals or snacks. Stick to fruit and veggies when you can; diet meals tend to be over-processed and have low nutritional value--and, personally, I find that they aren't filling, which makes me likely to overeat later. Don't deprive yourself of your favorite foods, even if they aren't healthy, because most people who do end up binging, which is a huge set-back (again, I speak from personal experience). Don't skip meals, or there's a good chance you will eat too much later in the day. Do try to control your portions.

    If you've been exercising and watching what you eat for a couple of months now with absolutely no progress, I recommend you see a doctor, dietician, and/or nutritionist. They can help you figure out what's keeping you from losing the weight, and help you come up with a more effective plan.

    Meanwhile, it might help you to work on your body image. Losing weight is a long a difficult process, but little things, like pampering yourself, can help. Give yourself a spa day, with a mani-pedi or whatever it is that makes you feel better. Buy clothes that flatter your figure (when I was your age, this was one of my biggest problems; I was so body conscious that I wore oversized tee-shirts and jeans every day, which just made me look worse, when clothes with a more flattering cut would have made me look slimmer). Consider counseling, because psychological or emotional turmoil can contribute to weight problems--there is a well-documented connection between depression and weight gain in some people, for example. Lack of sleep can also make it difficult to lose weight. Make sure you are sleeping well, and in a regular pattern--don't stay up super-late, even on the weekends.

    These are just some tips, and I'm sure you've heard some (or maybe even all) of them before. I really think that a doctor, dietician, or nutritionist would be the best person to work with to come up with a more effective weight-loss plan, because they can help you create a diet that's tailored for you, and a counselor could help you stick to the plan and feel better about yourself, regardless of your weight.

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    Posted by Tue Aug 4, 2009 1:42pm PDT

    teen diet? seriously! i see it this way, all this noise about diet is useless, all people need to realize is that it all starts form when we are born! if you mom loves mcDonald she will most likely take you there to eat with her. so if she is fat because she eats fast food then you will be fat as well if you follow her food choices. now if your mom cooks dinners at home and balances all the ingredients necessary for our healthy being than you will grow up to be healthy, not fat nor skeleton skinny, just right. so before you put your teen on a diet stop and think about the food choices you as a parent make, and how you have influenced your kid. also whats with all the diets..all you need is balance! i cant stand people talking about im gonna cut this or cut that.. really our bodies need meat as well as veggies as well as sugar...all the foods (excluding fast food) BALANCED! here key to the diet..

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  • Bella's Avatar
    Posted by Bella Tue Aug 4, 2009 11:41pm PDT

    I'm a 15 year old girl, almost 5 feet tall (yes, I'm very short) and I'm around 108 pounds. I used to exercise a lot but now it's summer and I've been slacking off a lot. I do want to get down to 100 pounds but I know it's not going to happen just like that. Am I overweight and should I be worrying about my weight?

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  • LaDy V3n0mX reena's Avatar
    Posted by LaDy V3n0mX reena Wed Aug 5, 2009 4:48am PDT

    I'm not overweight I'm underweight.....i really hate it.....ppl call me skinny n tease.....im 15yrs going to be 16 in dec.....I'm 5ft 2'' and I wei lbs!

    what can i do?

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  • LaDy V3n0mX reena's Avatar
    Posted by LaDy V3n0mX reena Wed Aug 5, 2009 4:51am PDT

    I mean I weigh 81 lbs

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