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Friday, December 4, 2009

10 things never to say on a job interview

Job interviews... Most of us have been on a few (or more) and many consider them to be nerve-wracking (at best) and downright painful (at worst). We can't really tell you how to land the ideal job, but we can give you a few pointers on what to avoid. While it's important to let your personality shine through in an interview and to be sincere, it's not the right time to let it all hang out. Here, our list of top things to avoid uttering...

  • "I Need The Money…” Even if the fact that you only have $25 in your bank account is the reason you’re going back to work after a hiatus (traveling through Europe, raising the kids, laid off, etc.), don’t ever mention it. The interviewer doesn’t need to know you’re hard-up for cash. It may unintentionally sound like you’re there only to earn money and that you’re not really interested in working. The goal is to always show passion and enthusiasm for the company and the position you are being interviewed for.
  • “My Last Boss Was A Jerk…” Dissing your previous employer has no upside, no matter how awful he/she treated you. Even if he/she made “Ari Gold” on Entourage look like an angel, sharing the details can come off sounding rude and disrespectful to potential co-workers and those who are “higher up” on the food chain than you. So remember to ban the bad-mouthing.
  • “It’s Worse Than Being A Republican/Democrat…” It’s wise to remain neutral by keeping your political views to yourself. Even if you feel fairly certain that the interviewer (and company) share your perspective, this type of conversation can easily lead to major disagreements and conflict (unless, of course, you might be interviewing for a political job where this becomes very relevant).
  • “Thank The Lord…” It’s beautiful to have faith, but similar to discussing politics at work, religious statements, even innocuous ones, aren’t a good tactic during job interviews. They could possibly offend the person you’re meeting with, or cause them to see you in an inaccurate light.
  • “What The Hell…” While certain curse words seem to have become part of popular vernacular, they aren’t the right way to spice up your personal sales pitch. Keep your language clean as a whistle on job interviews. There’s never a good reason to use expletives to get your point and your passion across!
  • “My Kid’s Always Getting Sick…” Oftentimes, a mention of kids or family may come into the conversation and it’s always nice to give a little taste of your life outside of the office. But don’t take that too far. If you mention that your child is constantly getting sick, an employer may worry that you’ll be easily absent or distracted because of it. Similarly, if your spouse or child has a chronic condition that warrants attention, save it as a personal matter. Assume that you can do the job (if you’re hired) in the best possible way without letting things on the home front interrupt you – in which case, what happens in your private time is your private business.
  • “A 9-5 Schedule Is Best For Me…” No one wants to think they might be hiring a clock watcher or someone who’s going to be way too eager to race out the door at the stroke of 5pm. It’s not a good idea to mention that you have a class three evenings a week at 6pm either. The employer needs to feel that your job will be the main priority. Your schedule will evolve (and work best for you and the employer) once you’ve landed the gig.
  • “I’m Vegan…” Certain people may make false assumptions about your personality based on the fact that you’re a vegan, vegetarian, don’t eat wheat, soy, or any other type of food lifestyle you choose. It sounds silly, but find ways to let them know who you are without leaving yourself open to judgment.
  • “I Don’t Have Time To Read Much…” Whether it’s newspapers, magazines, the web, or books, reading is generally seen as something that increases intelligence and breadth of knowledge. You should also make it a point to do your reading homework and learn as much as possible about the employer you are meeting with. It can easily impress an interviewer when you’re up to date on current events as well as what’s new with the company and that specific industry. Which means you should be reading something!
  • I’m Terrified of Flying…” The job you’re interviewing for may require flying at some point, so your employer needs to know you can handle it. If you have a phobia or family situation that will prohibit your ability to do your job, you should ask questions like:  “How much travel will be involved, and where would I be traveling to?”
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  • punty's Avatar
    Posted by punty Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:43pm PDT

    11.how long is lunch time,could i get an extra 30 minutes because i eat very slow.

    12.if i run short of cash would i be able to get an advance from my salary.

    13.how soon would their be an opening for a promotion i need to get higher very fast.

    14.Is is ok if my boyfriend visit every other day hes home by himself and misses me bad.

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  • Melissa N's Avatar
    Posted by Melissa N Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:52pm PDT

    How many vacation days can I get and when do I get them.

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  • ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥'s Avatar
    Posted by ♥~♥MaggieRed♥~♥ Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:12pm PDT

    ☺he,he,he,!!!this is good & funny!!

    ive interviewed alot of people that "just dont get it"on what to say or how to present who they are ?"(remember you are selling yourself on what you have to offer to this company)?"

    im just saying ******

    i took a couple of classes throughout my years "like through "Edd"

    that really helped me out in the long run.

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  • Bridgett's Avatar
    Posted by Bridgett Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:29am PDT

    Thats Very Very Clever!!!!....I'll Have to remember these tips next time i have an interview. i have to admit i havnt used any of those lines becuase my working life has just started because i am young. but now i Know What NOT to say! thanks!

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:46am PDT

    Honestly... I don't know ANYONE that would say these things in an interview... or for that matter, why.

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  • Edythe, 6emm's Avatar
    Posted by Edythe, 6emm Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:17am PDT

    Why? Because they're nervous and say exactly the things they didn't want to say.

    So job seekers should practice saying their sales pitch at home in front of a mirror.

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  • Tara's Avatar
    Posted by Tara Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:23am PDT

    I had an employer ask me "how many days a week do you think it is okay to take off work?" I thought it was a trick question and looked at them like they were stupid. When I answered with "none" he went "you'd be surprised the answers I would get, someone once said 5!"

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  • Angela's Avatar
    Posted by Angela Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:23am PDT

    no lie...here is what I got. What would happen if I refused the drug test?

    I was speechless on that one.

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  • Amy's Avatar
    Posted by Amy Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:27am PDT

    One of the best things for me when I had my last job interview was I had friends quiz me with potential interview questions and grade my responses. It really helped me calm down and have semi-prepared answers. Never have completely prepared answers, they come out sounding fake, but having an idea about how to answer potential questions helps.

    I got the job.

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  • Unnamed User's Avatar
    Posted by Unnamed User Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:41am PDT

    You probably want to refrain from using the term 'dissing' as well, unless your in high school or a rap star. Otherwise you'll sound like an idiot.

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