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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

4 Lies that Can Cost You Your Job

When Mark N. was approached by one of his company’s vendors, the Information Technology professional had no idea that secretly taking on a client in his spare time would cost him his job. Sure seems obvious after the fact, but Mark is not alone.

Lisa F. shares his pain, but from a managerial perspective. “I know when a woman lies about being sick, just by looking at her hands and toes.” For the senior level new media executive, the giveaway is newly polished nails. “You cannot imagine how many women come in after a sick day with a fresh manicure or pedicure,” she observes.
 

Every day individuals fib, lie and embellish their way through the work day, not realizing that there are repercussions. The consequences may not always be as severe as termination, but it can be a reduction in bonus, a permanent mark on your record or a poor score on your yearly review, not to mention the damage done to your reputation among fellow colleagues.  What follows are 4 frequent fibs that every single should avoid in the workplace. 
 
Pulling the Healthy Sick Card

If you call in sick when you’re feeling perfectly fine you better be smart about it. Taking off one too many hangover Fridays, or regularly turning the day before calendared holiday 3 day weekends into your personal 4 day long weekends, will no doubt cause suspicious minds.  So come clean to your supervisor and ask that these  be reported as vacation days, or try to schedule your healthy sick days on less conspicuous days during the week.
 
The Faux Appointment/Emergency

Leaving work under false medical or other emergent pretenses is asking for trouble. Take it from Kristine who played hooky to get prepped for a date and was spotted getting her hair blown out at the salon by one of her co-workers. All it takes is one sighting or slip and you can lose your credibility, especially when medical or family issues are used as an excuse.

Pointing the Finger

When people’s jobs and egos are at stake, blaming others when you’re at fault can lead to war in the workplace. Remember, it’s a politics game and you’ll lose if you try to dodge the bullet by feigning innocence. Folks, the only way to keep allies and integrity intact is to play fair and take ownership of your conduct and work in good times and in bad. 
 
Fudging Hours & Fudging Expenses

Working to make sure you get in those all those billable hours is seriously stressful. You may hit your targets by rounding up to the nearest hour but don’t press your luck. This is a serious offense, and companies’ billings are increasingly being examined by their clients and their clients’ audit units or accountants. If you’re a certified professional, lying here may not cost you just a client, but your license.

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  • dknyorlando's Avatar
    Posted by dknyorlando Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:11am PDT

    Sure there are people/employees who take advantage and out and out lie, and try to get away with whatever they can. However I am tired of the 'employer' perspective, that labels everyone as someone trying to take advantage, while denying their own role in the matter. I believe, more often that not, it is a case of an over worked employee, an employee who is taken advantage of, trying to set some boundaries and find some time away from work. For I believe that there is no employer in today's work environment that does not expect an employee to willing work 45-50 hours a week as a matter of course (do the math including commuting and 8hrs of sleep-how much 'family life' once you factor in chores and errands, do you have left???), employers who think nothing of calling employees after hours and on weekends? Employers who expect an employee to show up for work no matter how sick they are, at the expense of the health of every other employee (think swine flu), or they will be written up for giving no notice for taking the day? I, for one, am tired of the double standard and of the expectation that no employee can have a normal, healthy, life outside of work.

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  • Thomas S's Avatar
    Posted by Thomas S Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:16am PDT

    why can't you just call in and say you have something to do today and sorry but it isn't work. work has become like jail for some people.

    i know people who work mon. thru sat. and they get 1 personal day a year.

    i mean sure work is important but come on , what about having some fun with part of your life.

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  • Lynn's Avatar
    Posted by Lynn Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    The freshly polished nails is NOT an indicator of faking sick. If you are laying around sick, may as well do something. A new hairdo, on the other hand... something you need to go out for.

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  • deedee's Avatar
    Posted by deedee Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    my biggest thing is the first one but 9 times out of 10, i just dont feel like going anywhere so i stay home. i hate lying. it makes me feel guilty and i watch the clock and figure if i was going to be stressed, i should have just gone to work anyway.

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  • Stefanie's Avatar
    Posted by Stefanie Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    OK, so I'm lying about being sick if I come in with fresh paint on my toes? Who comes up with this? I have NOTHING better to do when I AM sick then lay on the couch and recuperate by watching Buffy re-runs with a cup of tea while my nails dry. If I was actually out having fun I wouldn't have time to paint my nails. Find a new method for picking out lyers lady!

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  • BIGGA B's Avatar
    Posted by BIGGA B Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    You get paid to write this??

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  • Jasmeet's Avatar
    Posted by Jasmeet Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    ok

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  • shulin4's Avatar
    Posted by shulin4 Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:18am PDT

    I like honesty, I am a worker and at the same time I control people who works. I get angry when people lies. Even I don't have a professional job. I like things that are real and RIGHT. ^_^

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  • John's Avatar
    Posted by John Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:19am PDT

    Some people talk too much when they call in sick. Just say your not feeling and cant come in. If the boss wants to know more than that then I wouldnt work there.

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  • Carlee's Avatar
    Posted by Carlee Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:19am PDT

    Manicured nails the day after a sick day is bogus. When you stay home you putt around and doing your nails is one of them..wrong person in charge and being a manager!

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