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Sunday, November 22, 2009

7 big money mistakes to avoid

By Mary Hunt

I’m going to guess you’ve made a financial mistake or two in your life. Who hasn’t? For some of us, it was more than an occasional late fee or random urge to overspend that brought us to our financial knees. But I’m not talking about the kind of blunders that got us into trouble—we could list those in our sleep. Instead, I want to focus on the mistakes people make while they’re working their way back to financial health. Whether you’re recovering from a season of unemployment or from a financial mess you created on your own, avoid these goofs and you’ll get where you want to go much faster.

1. Not Saving

7 Big Money Mistakes to Avoid

7 Big Money Mistakes to Avoid


You’ve heard this plenty, and here it comes again: Jump to the front of the line— ahead of your creditors—when you divvy up your paycheck. Get over feeling guilty about keeping money for yourself. You need a fat emergency fund, and the only way to build it is to pay yourself first! Stuff happens, and if you’re not financially prepared for those emergencies, you’ll keep falling back into debt.

You’ll need enough in your fund to pay all your bills for at least six months. But don’t let that big number discourage you. Start by saving enough to live on for two weeks, then up it to one month, and so on until you reach goal.

Solution: Put your savings on autopilot—you won’t miss what you don’t see. Commit to saving 10 percent of every paycheck. If you can’t start there, start with 2 percent. Then in a few weeks, change it to 5 percent, then 7 and so forth until you reach at least 10 percent.

2. Paying for College
If you must make a choice between adequately funding your own retirement and paying for your kids’ college education, put retirement first. Contributing to college funds, going into debt by cosigning for student loans or taking out a home equity loan to cover tuition before you’ve taken care of your own future are huge blunders. The best gift you can give your kids is to make sure you won’t become a financial burden to them in your sunset years.

Solution: Kids have far more options for funding their college education than you have for your retirement. They’ve got scholarships, grants, financial aid, student loans, work-study programs and the not-to-be-forgotten method of working their way through college. Once your own future is secure and you’re out of debt, that’s when you’re in a position to help pay for education. Use the free Retirement Calculator at MoneyCentral.MSN.com/Retire/Planner.aspx to determine how much you need to be setting aside for retirement each month.

3. Too Much House
Add up your shelter costs (monthly mortgage payment plus taxes and insurance). Your total shouldn’t exceed 28 to 33 percent of your gross income—and that’s only if you don’t have a lot of other debt. Biting off more house than you can chew leaves you wide open to foreclosure and bankruptcy.

Solution: Don’t let a commissioned professional talk you into buying the most house you can qualify for. Do your own research and run your own numbers to determine how much house you can afford. You need a 20 percent down payment and a 30-year fixed-rate loan, with monthly payments that can easily fit within 28 to 33 percent of your current gross household income. If you’re over your head in a house you can’t afford, maybe it’s time to sell. If you’ve fallen behind or fear you may soon, but you owe more than the house is currently worth, call your lender immediately. You may be able to enter into a short sale (the lender agrees to settle your debt for the sale price that you can get for the house now, and forgives the balance you owe). Or speak with a HUD-approved housing counselor to find out about other options, such as loan modification (the lender agrees to adjust the terms of your loan so you can afford to keep living in your home).

4. Refinancing a Fixed-Rate Mortgage
With mortgage rates at a 50- year low, it’s tempting to refinance to get a lower monthly payment. But before you do that, ask yourself this: Can you take the difference between the payment you have now and the lower payment and use it to repay all your refinancing costs within 24 months?

Let’s do the math. The average closing cost is 2.5 to 5 percent on a $150,000 loan ($3,750 to $7,500), but the percentage normally goes down as the loan increases. Divide the amount you’ll save each month into the closing cost. If the result is more than 24, you’ll be making a big mistake by refinancing.

Even worse, refinancing with this lower monthly payment will “reset the clock,” putting you back on a 30- year payback schedule. Your goal should be to pay off the home so you own it free and clear before you retire If you’re 10 years from paying off your home and you refinance to get a lower monthly payment— but end up with a new 30-year term—you’ll be making those new “lower” payments for an additional 20 years! If the payment is, say, $2,000, you’ll end up paying an additional $480,000 just because you refinanced and reset the clock.

Solution: If you did the math earlier and it worked out in your favor, go ahead and refinance—but keep making the original, larger mortgage payments you’ve been making all along. Now, that lower payment will make an authentic, financially wise difference. You’ve managed to outsmart that reset clock and the extra interest that comes with it.

5. Paying Off the Mortgage Too Soon
Paying extra on your mortgage each month is laudable, but not if you time it badly. Your mortgage should be the last debt you pay off. Why? First, its interest rate is a lot lower than the interest you’re paying on your other debts (credit cards, student loans). Second, mortgage interest on your primary residence is tax-deductible. While you’re in debt having that deduction helps to ease the pain by lowering your tax bill.

Solution: Once you’ve built up a fat emergency fund and all of your high-interest, unsecured debts are paid in full—only then should you consider putting money toward paying off your mortgage.

6. Investing in the Wrong Thing
If there’s one thing we’ve learned over the past year, it’s that money invested in the stock market is at risk. You could lose it! Don’t jeopardize any of your hard-earned money while you’re carrying high-interest, unsecured debt. Instead, invest in your debt—it’s a much smarter move. Let me explain: If you have a $2,000 credit card balance at 14.5 percent interest, you’re paying $290 per year in interest, or $24.16 per month. Instead of taking a $2,000 gamble on the stock market, put it toward reducing your credit card debt Now each month, rather than paying that $24.16 interest to the credit card company, you get to keep it.

Solution: As long as you’re carrying unsecured debt, do everything you can to pay it down each month. You’ll get a return equal to the amount of interest you would have paid to the credit card company.

7. Debt Consolidation
Sounds great, doesn’t it? Get a new low-interest loan to pay off all your high-interest debts! But more often than not, that’s a big faux pas. Low-rate consolidation loans are typically tied to something of value like your home’s equity. Bad enough, but here’s the real problem: The financially immature person gets that equity loan and then keeps using those credit cards. In no time, the balances creep back to the limit. And that means double the trouble.

Solution: Forget about consolidating old debt into new debt. Instead, get serious about cutting your spending so you can pay off the debts you have as quickly as possible. If you have a good payment history, call the creditor and ask for a lower interest rate. You never know— you just might get it!

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  • Redvioletskydancer's Avatar
    Posted by Redvioletskydancer Fri Nov 6, 2009 6:50am PST

    Those are some good ideas. There are 20 good money saving tips at www.womensave.org link: http://www.womensave.org/tips.php that will help you save all year. They also have phone numbers to call to see if the state comptroller is holding money for you that you could use for the upcoming holiday season and menus to feed a family of 4 on $50 a week. They want women to join their forum and share HEALTHY menus for $50 a week too.

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  • Giz's Avatar
    Posted by Giz Fri Nov 6, 2009 7:18am PST

    I absolutely have to disagree with the college fund thing. The kids I know who had to finance their entire education are in major trouble right now with student loans and debt, regardless of the fact that they worked while they were in school. Going to school costs many kids over $50,000 a year in tuition, books, housing, etc. At 26 years old, I STILL don't make that much money. Because my parents did reasonably well during the years when their children were applying for school, the financial aid and grant options were insufficient, even though 2 of my siblings graduated at the top of their class. I think it is important for parents to both put away money towards college for their children (and make sure that their children are putting away half of what they make from after school jobs) and save for retirement at the same time. The cutback should be for things like new cars, fancy clothes, going out, expensive vacations, frivilous electronics (TVs, video games, etc), cable and stuff like that. Education and retirement are equally important. Also, I have NO problem helping to take care of my parents in their old age because they took care of me in my youth and are still there for me as an emotional support system and knowledge base for me today. Since I don't have to pay off a lot of debt, I have been able to put myself in a better position than many people my age and as long as I continue to work hard and be responsible, helping them out in a few years shouldn't be an issue if they need it.

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  • None's Avatar
    Posted by None Fri Nov 6, 2009 8:24am PST

    I disagree with you "Giz" It is not all of your parent's responsibility to provide you with everything, you need to learn to work hard to get things in life, nothing is free, and people who get things handed to them have no self-respect or any idea of what it is to be responsible, my parents did not pay for my cars, college, vacations, I had to pay rent while I was in college, and I had 2 jobs, one was a minimum wage and the other an $8 hour, but I also live in a state where living is not extreme, so every little bit helps, but at 23 years old I bought my first home and I have absolutely no debt, my credit score is beyond great, credit cards are paid in full each month, i always plan and buy and know for sure i will be able to pay in a month if i splurge, learn to save your money, I have gone on trips, i went to Spain when I was 17 and I paid for the whole trip myself and went with another, much harder if you are alone, but it is feasible, and stayed for a month, if you went to a big college and got into debt it was your own fault, unless you are becoming a doctor or lawyer, there is no reason for you to hike up debts over some generic degree like business or something of the sort, people are really dumb, they think college is just about partying and getting away, the smart thing to do is go to a technical college, get an associates degree, start working in your field as an entry level and once you are in a job, most jobs pay for your schooling if it pertains to the job you are doing! Go back and finish the last 2 years and get your bachelors and keep on if you want the master's, but people just love to stay in college forever and not go into the real world because they don't want to grow up.

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  • ginas's Avatar
    Posted by ginas Fri Nov 6, 2009 8:32am PST

    Very interesting! I always thought extra money should go to pay off your mortgage. It does make more sense to get rid of the high interest rate credit cards where the interest is not tax deductible. Good tips, thanks.

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  • omerlm's Avatar
    Posted by omerlm Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:29am PST

    How about saving money while still having credit card debt? do the math - 12.9% interest on a credit card (assuming you're lucky to only have one...) vs. 1.5% savings interest. DUH.

    (totally guilty of this one a few years ago..... gulp)

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  • Cindy's Avatar
    Posted by Cindy Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:42am PST

    I'm an avid believer of protecting yourself first, so I heartily agree with #2. Your kids don't always turn out to be the kind of person you want them to be. What happens if after you've raised them to adulthood and paid for their college education and down payments on their homes and whatnot and you find yourself in old age and they decide they don't want to take care of you? Or because you've been providing for them your whole life, they don't know how to provide for themselves and providing for you would be way beyond their means and comprehension. With that in mind, it's in your best interest to pay for your retirement first. I'm actually an optimistic person, but I like to be prepared for the worst.

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  • Joy in Seattle's Avatar
    Posted by Joy in Seattle Fri Nov 6, 2009 12:17pm PST

    Saving 10% .... this clearly wasn't written for a single mother for whom rent, child care, car/ins, and food is barely making it. In fact, for most Americans, what they make is barely enough.

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  • NoneYa's Avatar
    Posted by NoneYa Fri Nov 6, 2009 12:28pm PST

    Omerlm - I did the same thing too. I was making pretty minimal payments on the credit card I was paying down (with a 8% rate) and trying so desperately to save as much as I possibly could each pay in a savings account that yielded less than 1% interest! Guess sometimes people (guilty as charged) get so concerned with seeing that savings pot "grow" that you don't realize all that that interest adding up takes so much away from what you've worked to save!

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  • Giz's Avatar
    Posted by Giz Fri Nov 6, 2009 12:41pm PST

    For the record "none" and "cindy", I worked 60+ hours a week in college, spread between 2-3 jobs at a time. My siblings all had/have 30 + hour a week jobs while in college and we all paid for our own books, housing and some of our college tuition as well. I, at 26 years old, have a good job and have been paying any non-school related bills 100% by myself ever since the age of 18. I bought my own cars and house and the only debt I have is my mortgage (which I put extra money towards every month). I drove across the country, up the coast and back on my own for 6 weeks when I was 22, camping the whole way, and I paid for everything. Any vacation I took after the age of 16 was financed soley by me. My parents taught me responsibility better than anyone I know. They also taught me that it was important to provide your children with the best opportunities in life and the only way to do that is to make sure they have access to education. Many kids I know didn't have that access because their parents didn't care enough to think about it and they couldn't balance working enough to afford school along with handling the classes needed to graduate. For the record, I haven't finished school yet. I have a solid career in Real Estate and Marketing that I have been working hard for since the age of 17. I'll finish when I'm ready. At this point, I will of course be paying for everything on my own. That is the path that is best for me. I have 3 siblings who were better off getting through all of the education they wanted right after high school. That doesn't mean they were being stupid, irresponsible or wasting money. What an ignorant statement. None of us party/partied. My older sister also has a home and car as well as a grad degree she paid for entirely on her own. My little sister and brother both contribute a decent amount to their schooling and finance their own living expenses, study abroad programs, books, food, transportation etc. None of us use credit cards or any other sort of financing that doesn't involve a mortgage. I learned very well how to provide for myself and had my parents not taken care of me or been there to support me while I was growing and learning to do so, that may not have been the case. They taught me how to use credit wisely, save money, budget, separate want from need, have a good work ethic and balance both work and other life responsibilities. The issue is that many parents don't teach their kids before the age of 18 how to be an adult and are then shocked when they toss them out the door to fend for themselves and they get completely lost and fail. Parents assisting with college tuition has nothing to do with kids not being capable of handling their own lives and finances. The two items are completely separate.

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  • maryl's Avatar
    Posted by maryl Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:36pm PST

    Take care of yourself first, . . you cannot carry someone else if you are cut at the knees! SAVE,SAVE,SAVE!!!

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