CANCER!!!!!

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  Posted by Jules (jellybean) Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:33pm PST

  I'm so sorry to hear this, I have no advice to give you but I will pray for you and your mother and family.

  Prayers in Full Circle.

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  Posted by Christine Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:38pm PST

  Dear Denise, I am so sorry to hear about your mom and the tragedy that has fallen upon your family. First of all, I want you to know that you are in my prayers and although I write to you and try to console you, I know that unless a person is in the situation, they can never truly know the pain of another person. I would like to ask you if you are relgious? Also, do you have any brothers or sisters? or does your husband?

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  Posted by fgewruir78- Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:46pm PST

  hy!

  i am really sorry..life is often so cruel...

  http://wildrosespirit.wordpress.com/2008/07/11/what-to-say-to-a-person-who-has-cancer/

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  Posted by fgewruir78- Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:50pm PST

  hy!

  ...i am sorry...life is often so cruel...

  http://wildrosespirit.wordpress.com/2008/07/11/what-to-say-to-a-person-who-has-cancer/

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  Posted by Some Bum Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:53pm PST

  Not to sound rigid but it's not going to be okay. This is tragic time for you and your family and friends. Look in your phone book or call upon your community for support groups and the like, to help aid your family in the matter.

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  Posted by Betty Sat Nov 7, 2009 3:55pm PST

  I lost my mother to cancer and it took the County Hosp nearly a year to diagnosis it after I told her why she looked yellow. # 1/2 weeks after the doctors told her cancer, she passed quietly in her sleep. 6 years later, my beloved step-father passed from cancer. DOG GONE IT - find a cure!

  Now, advise for you. Local drug stores carry Dramamine for travel sickness - you don't need a RX. It will help when you reach the stage of hysterical crying like I did. As far as your son seeing you cry - what's the imbarassment? you care deeply. Teach him to care by letting him see you hurt. Talk to him as a adult in a smaller body. This is life changing for him too. Today,at 35, my son is embarassed at how much he cares about me but I think it is healthy to care for your folks. It's those who don't that I worry about - and those who can't. She has been blessed, you have been blessed, now enjoy what time is left and KNOW the soul never dies, it only passes to another realm. You'll see her again, this is not goodbye ... my prayers are with you. Please, BELIEVE, and it will be easier for all of you.

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  Posted by Denise Sat Nov 7, 2009 4:00pm PST

  yes we are Lutheran. I find peace with Jesus. Thius is tearing me up

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