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Sunday, November 8, 2009

Do you use Twitter? Here's why you should

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Confession: I've jumped on the Twitter bandwagon. And I really like it. Maybe as much as I like Facebook.

I started doing it as a way to promote some of my freelance writing, but pretty soon I was using it as a way to keep up with a few of my friends on the fly. In spite of my crazy-hectic life, I feel like I don't have all that much to say when a friend emails to ask "So, what have you been up to?" But with Twitter, I can fire off a status update into the ether, and read ones from my friends. It's like staying in touch without actually, you know, touching.
 
I was on the fence about Twitter for months. If I tweet, who will follow? What would I call myself (WriteEditRepeat, of course!). Am I too busy to add yet another layer of social networking to the mix? Would I ever check it? What kind of thing could I possibly say in 140 characters or less?

A lot, apparently. I end up tweeting about my work, of course, but also firing off quick congratulations to friends when they post about their accomplishments. I get fodder for blog posts, and food for thought, from some of the great tweets posted by people who spend far more time on Twitter than I do. I can throw out a question and get a handful of answers within minutes, or get an opinion on a topic I'm researching, or even test the waters to figure out if there's any interest on a subject I'm thinking about writing about.

I'm leery about becoming Facebook friends with people I don't know well -- so much of Facebook is personal, what with the detailed profiles and the photos and the pointed wall postings -- but on Twitter, I have no qualms about networking with all and sundry. But what's really fun is feeling like I'm part of a crowd with similar interests. The feedback on Twitter is instantaneous, and that makes watching a live media event -- anything from Jon Stewart to a Presidential address to breaking news -- more interesting, and more immediate.

Of course, there's a downside. I think that the trap many people fall into is that of thinking of Twitter or Facebook as a place that belongs to them and is safe, personal, and private, when really, it's not -- anything you put up there could potentially be read by anyone else, even if you change all of your settings to "private" (you know how to copy and paste, right? Well, so does everyone else). But if you think of those social media sites as tools with specific uses, then it’s possible to be active on them without jeopardizing yourself or your career.

I think people have to figure out what they hope to get out of participating on those sites. Are you tweeting in order to collect followers/readers, or to broadcast information? Are you on Facebook to reconnect with friends and family or are you open to networking with coworkers (and, potentially, your boss?)

Do you use Twitter? What made your decide to join (or not to)?

Lylah M. Alphonse writes about juggling career and parenthood at The 36-Hour Day and Work It, Mom!, and blogs at Write. Edit. Repeat.

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  • Elle's Avatar
    Posted by Elle Wed May 6, 2009 2:50pm PDT

    What is this Twitter thing that everyone talks about all the time? I don't even know what it is.

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  • cat's Avatar
    Posted by cat Wed May 6, 2009 4:02pm PDT

    YEAH,WHAT IS TWITTER. I never heard of it.

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  • Dory Devlin, Shine staff's Avatar
    Posted by Dory Devlin, Shine staff Wed May 6, 2009 6:57pm PDT

    Twitter is another kind of social network. Kind of like Facebook status updates, you can send out messages of up to 140 characters, and follow others' Twitter messages. Check it out here: http://twitter.com/

    I agree with Lylah: I like Twitter a lot more than I thought I would, too, for very different reasons than other social networks. It's quick, and easy, and there's no pressure to respond to tweets. I've gotten lots of good ideas, been sent to good things to read, and I like keeping up with what the people I follow are working on.

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Wed May 6, 2009 8:07pm PDT

    Eh, I don't really see a need with it.. I have had facebook forever now... and all of my friends are on it and I don't really care about random people subscribing to my Tweets.. :/ I like the personality of facebook.. but then I also don't add random people either.

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  • Angela's Avatar
    Posted by Angela Wed May 6, 2009 9:06pm PDT

    Look, if you *actually* like Twitter, that's great. But seeing all these people talk about it is just like seeing everyone talking about blogs a few years ago. It's just really, really overdone and lame.

    You know, like when I was a kid and suddenly my parents started saying, "NOT" to everything. That's when I would walk away from them with my head down like I didn't know them.

    That's also how I knew that word was utterly and completely uncool to ever say again.

    That's exactly how I feel about Twitter.

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  • Some Bum's Avatar
    Posted by Some Bum Wed May 6, 2009 11:30pm PDT

    All of these "blog", places that you can go to on the web, are a definitate NO THANK YOU in my book. I spend enough time here on Shine, and yes regretably Polyvore that I need to spend no more of my time on the "blogoshere". I have a "life" outside the relm where I do indeed chat it up with my friends and close relatives. These sites, in my opinion, shouldn't even exist.

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  • cindy's Avatar
    Posted by cindy Thu May 7, 2009 5:55am PDT

    I really dont think I have anything so important to say or that I am doing that anyone would really care.

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  • B. J.'s Avatar
    Posted by B. J. Thu May 7, 2009 5:56am PDT

    I just don't get it. What's the fascination with "performing" on these sites for every Tom, Dick and Harry out there that you don't even know. I honestly don't know much about them because I've never gone to any. I've had a friend show me someone's Facebook page when she put up something really stupid and damaging to her reputation. To me, it just seems like an effort to get an abundance of attention so you can convince yourself you are loved by the masses. It's a sad way to feed one's ego. The aforementioned Facebook owner is a self-centered, "me, me, ME!" sorta gal in person, so I wasn't surprised by her depravity online.

    I realize not everyone would fit this scenario - so no offense intended to folks separated from loved ones by distance or time contraints, or odd situations that keep you from interacting in person, etc.

    I just want to ask the Twitter freaks: wouldn't real "in the same room" human contact be much more fulfilling? Or would that mean your Rock Star status would have to reside only in your own mind again?

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  • na's Avatar
    Posted by na Thu May 7, 2009 6:37am PDT

    Twitter is just like anything else in life: Either you like it or you don't. If you like it, use it; if you don't like it, then don't. Simple as that. No need to [over] analyze those who choose to use it, nor is there a need to convince non-users to jump on the bandwagon. It's all about personal preferences.

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  • Sunshine's Avatar
    Posted by Sunshine Thu May 7, 2009 7:10am PDT

    I completely agree with pinkandpurple. The proponent is never going to get the opponent to their side and vice versa. But if you don't do something or don't know what it is, no need to worry about it. Just let it go and move on. And if you do like doing something, then that's great - just know that not everyone in the world is doing it.

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