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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Getting a self-employed mindset: 5 questions for Pamela Slim

I was raised with business in the background and the foreground. When I was in middle school, my parents bought their first motel -- a small beachfront property on the Jersey Shore -- and moved our family into an apartment on the second floor. We lived like that, alongside my parents' work, for the rest of my teen years until I went off to college. Working for yourself feels natural to me, so it's not all that surprising that I followed their path. But the model of self-employment I’ve chosen is worlds apart from theirs. They ran a physical business with employees and property. I work entirely on my own, with a laptop, a phone, a virtual assistant and a rotating group of colleagues and clients.

Like it or not, more people are going to be joining the ranks of the self-employed whether they do it in my parents’ style, in mine, or in some other way altogether.

If you didn’t grow up with entrepreneurship in your DNA, one way to catch up is to study at the heels of Pamela Slim, a consultant, life coach and blogger whose new book, Escape from Cubicle Nation, is a roadmap to self-employment. It’s a quick-read peppered with solid advice and engaging stories. And it covers both the emotional stuff that keeps people from taking the leap to working for themselves, as well as practical concerns like cleaning up your credit, making sure your venture solves a problem, and how to tell if you’re “just not that into” a business idea. I chatted with Slim about how the current economy is affecting people striking out on their own, how to launch a business on the side, and whether it’s possible to warm to self-employment when it’s not your natural inclination.

Do you think the climate for starting a business today is different from what it was a year ago?  

I do. On a pure economic basis, there is just not as much access to credit or capital. So people have to think creatively about how rapidly they can grow their businesses. But there are positives as well. I don’t think there’s any question anymore that a corporate job is no longer stable. I’ve been saying this for 10 years -- that we’re all self-employed -- and people are starting to realize that it’s not a smart strategy to rely on employment as the sole source of income or even something to count on. Which means we’ll be seeing a lot more people doing entrepreneurial things, even if it’s just on the side.  

So many would-be entrepreneurs are put off by their financial responsibilities. What to you say to people who say they’d work for themselves if only they could figure out how to pay the mortgage?


You need to look at your financial situation with open eyes. And it’s all about your own your tolerance for risk and your financial planning. On the risk side, people have told me that they have hundreds of thousands of dollars in savings yet they still felt anxiety around starting a business.  I’ve also talked to people with a thousand dollars in the bank who felt very little anxiety. As for the financial planning, if you are the only income earner or have dependents, then you absolutely need to know how much money is required to maintain your household. As enthusiastic as you are about your business idea, if you haven’t planned for cash flow, you can be crushed by anxiety if you can't pay your bills.  All the experts say to have a six month cushion at minimum, but again, it’s really about knowing yourself.  Some people feel really motivated if they don't have money in the bank because they know they have to make things happen quickly.

These days, many people are coming to the realization that they might have to work for themselves even if that’s not what they would choose to do in an ideal world.  Have you seen people embrace and thrive as entrepreneurs when it’s not their decision?  

I think there’s always a choice. If you approach working for yourself the way you would act as a disgruntled employee, saying, “I have to do this,” that’s a recipe for failure.  But there are many different ways to be self-employed or work independently. You can be hired as an independent contractor, which can look very much like being an employee since you can earn a steady paycheck and remove yourself from the need to be out there chasing work. That’s one example of working independently, but working in a way that gives you the same predictability and stability as a job might. The other extreme would be someone who creates a new software company and pursues venture capital funding.  We tend to have a view of entrepreneurship where everyone thinks they have to be Richard Branson to be successful.  But if you look at self-employment as anything you do that generates revenue for yourself, then you can find the model that fits best with who you are and how you’re wired.

Starting a business on the side seems like a safe bet in this economy. What’s your advice for keeping sane for starting a side business while hanging onto a job?

First of all, make sure to cut back on all non-essential obligations in your life so you have time to work on your side business. Start with a small project so you have the time and resources to complete it without losing all quality of life. In pursuit of a long-term business, you might try a couple of different ideas. Then you can see what feels best, what has the best market reception, and what has the ingredients for success as a bigger endeavor. That’s when you’d launch into a different set of questions, planning and analysis that will help you figure out what it takes to set up a long-term, viable business. At that stage, you’ll then look at, “what’s my niche, my business model, and what do I have to have in place to go into it full-time.”

If you could cure one misconception about entrepreneurship, what would it be?

I think it is that you have to have your big idea totally figured out before you launch it.  The reality is much quicker and scrappier. You need to get used to testing often and failing fast.
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And now a question for you: Have you recently made the leap to self-employment? If so, how's it going?
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  • John's Avatar
    Posted by John Mon May 18, 2009 10:14am PDT

    I started working as a contract software developer because it allowed me to get the jobs I wanted, and the biggest change of thinking was having to forecast beyond the next paycheck. People in direct positions tend to see them as "permanent". Stepping into working for yourself forces you to continue to look for new opportunities while working at what you're getting paid to do. Many people find looking for a new opportunity very stressful when that is their "job". Doing it while they have increased responsibilities is down right torture. A person needs to be brutally honest with themselves about what they're capable of. But once they make to commitment to pursuing something, they need be very positive about their chances for success. Customers are very perceptive and will take your nervousness as a lack of confidence in your product.

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    Posted by maisa Mon May 18, 2009 11:52am PDT

    hey, I started to work as a freelance translator for several translation offices, then i was asked to do consecutive interpretation in a meeting, then to do similtanous interpretation in a huge international conference, i was scared at the beginning, but know after 4 years i worked in hundreds conferences and meetings as a freelancer, i wonder if i start a small company for translation and interpretation services, but im doing well now that i wonder is it worth the trouble?

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  • RAWLI's Avatar
    Posted by RAWLI Mon May 18, 2009 2:20pm PDT

    Personal training is an easy avenue with little start up. But it takes years of training, education, nutrition & experience to compete with the millions of other trainers in LA. I continue to do competitive boxing to keep my confidence & stamina up for these hot days. But I am excited that every spring brings its physical training peaks.

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  • cyndire's Avatar
    Posted by cyndire Tue May 19, 2009 1:18pm PDT

    Maisa, I've wanted to become a translator but don't know what credentials are needed, my guess is it's not enough to be bilingual right? Glad it's going great for you.

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  • Inas w's Avatar
    Posted by Inas w Tue May 19, 2009 6:57pm PDT

    so i guess its not going good, what happened to the last answer???

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  • Mitchell York's Avatar
    Posted by Mitchell York Wed May 20, 2009 5:09am PDT

    No one *has* to work for themselves. The "forced entrepreneur" idea is a proxy for people who are not doing a great job on a methodical job search. There is not so much a shortage of jobs as a shortage of skill in how to look for and find a job. I coach entrepreneurs as well as people who are seeking jobs and it's amazing how clueless most people are (through no fault of their own--no one is born knowing how to do a great job search). Almost all people would be better off finding a great job than starting their own business--or at the very least, not starting a business just because they can't find a job.

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  • Adejoh's Avatar
    Posted by Adejoh Wed May 20, 2009 7:19am PDT

    who to leavn a good in the community

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  • Lizbeth's Avatar
    Posted by Lizbeth Wed May 20, 2009 7:58am PDT

    There was nothing more stressful than owning three businesses (two pizza shops and a wellness center). Being my own boss meant worrying about money constantly and always being at work; physically or in my head. My husband and I just couldn't shut it off and weren't reaping any of the benefits we thought we would (like financial freedom, or at the very least, affording health insurance)I ran into too many ethical conflicts in my private practice, and foolishly, we both had business partners.

    I have considered personal training in addition to my current job (and I never left my 'day job' even when I had the wellness center). I recognize a desire in me to be my own boss, but I think I lack consistency. There is a big part of me that doesn't care about rooting fanatically for just one team. I also don't care enough about making money to do some of things I think you have to do as a business.

    I enjoy the luxury of leaving work at work, knowing it'll run just fine without me while I'm off playing. (I can be deeply, personally invested in my job, but I like the luxury of knowing I don't HAVE to be the job all the time if I don't want to-it's a commitment thing. Don't nail me to it, don't tie me down, don't suffocate me.)

    My desk, while often boring and lacking of challenge, has been a safe little harbor to hang out in. If there's a way for me to trade up to a bigger vessel, I'll hit the open water again. But even rowboats have their charm.

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  • Ted's Avatar
    Posted by Ted Thu May 21, 2009 10:32am PDT

    Pam is quickly becoming one of my favorite "go-to" for new ideas blogger and author. I like her fresh approach. Last year I thought I had the dream job, only to be laid off and wondering what to do next. Now, I'm self-employed and working out of my house. Started very slow and was concerned, but over the last couple of months, the "tides have changed" and feeling like there are countless opportunities.

    Where I hardly saw my family when I worked my "dream job," now I get to spend much more time with them and enjoying their presence. Dad went from just being a border at our home - leave early, come back home late - to, hey, he's a pretty ok guy!

    Thanks for the interview!

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  • Emily's Avatar
    Posted by Emily Tue May 26, 2009 1:40pm PDT

    Thanks Marci!

    I will pick this up for my summer read! Any other good must-reads? Trying to build a list for some down-time in Maine!

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