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Monday, November 30, 2009

Have you ever lost it like Serena at work?

AFP via Yahoo! News/Timothy A. Clary

AFP via Yahoo! News/Timothy A. Clary

That was one costly tirade on the tennis court in Flushing Meadows.

Serena Williams may lose more than the U.S. Open women's semi-final match to Kim Clijsters because she lost it following a line judge's double-fault call. Convinced she didn't step on the line, Serena had some choice, bleep-able words for the line judge, and, it seems, some more words that could be taken as a threat. The immediate result: a penalty, which cost her the point, which happened to be match point, delivering the win to the returning, unseeded Clijsters.

Since that match-changing moment, Williams was fined $10,000 by the U.S. Open for unsportsmanlike conduct, and a $500 fine for racket abuse. Now, Yahoo! Sports reports that the Grand Slam Committee is investigating whether to ban Williams from future Grand Slam tournaments--she is the defending champion of the Australian Open and Wimbledon--and take away the $350,000 prize for this U.S. Open.

Wow, that's an untimely, foul-mouthed outburst that makes Rep. Joe Wilson's two-word outburst look tame, despite the setting. Either way, it seems some pretty high-profile types are losing it on the job lately when the world is watching, and we're wondering if it's a Twitter trend or people are just hepped up on stress.

We've been having a bit of a debate here on Shine about whether Serena is being held to a different standard because she is a woman (and her words were caught on audio and video), but looking back at past on-court tantrums it seems she may have been the first to threaten a line judge.

It's been a week for outbursts, to be sure. But can you identify at least a little bit with Serena? Have you ever lost it at work with a colleague or, to hell with the consequences, your boss?


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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Mon Sep 14, 2009 1:13pm PDT

    I have lost it but not nearly like that...

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  • Angela's Avatar
    Posted by Angela Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:53pm PDT

    No, I've never lost it like this.

    However, I have seen others lose it like this, and I have also seen others make excuses for them.

    Serena Williams' behavior was completely inexcusable. She needs pay consequences that 1. make a statement to others that this kind of behavior will not be tolerated and 2. actually drive the point home to Serena as well.

    Ten thousand dollars and five hundred dollars are a drop in the bucket to someone like Serena Williams. However, if she loses all the money she made for this tournament, and is banned from upcoming tournaments, then maybe she and others will think twice about threatening and disrespecting a judge, her sport, her opponent, and all of the fans.

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  • C's Avatar
    Posted by C Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:11pm PDT

    I have never lost it to this extent. However, I understand where Serena was coming from. The 'foot fault' was not the first wrong call that was made against Serena, by the same lines judge and no one seems to think this is a problem!

    Furthermore, there is no proof that Serena actually threatened the judge. Its the lines judges word against Serena's..

    I am happy all she got penalized was $10 500 and doesn't deserve to be banned from any events in the future!

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  • darlene's Avatar
    Posted by darlene Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:26pm PDT

    Yes, and I did it in front of quite a few people. AND I'd do it again. I was a CNA (nurses aide - certified) and the LPN that was supposed to be taking meds around always needed help. One day the call bells were on - ten of them at once - and she walked past all of them - about seventy feet to tell me, while I was in the midst of caring for a terminally ill patient. I left her and went to all of the other CNA/s in our department and they answered the bells while I went to the administrater and told her exactly what I thought. I was angry in the first place because the hospice co. that came in left my patient in dire straits. Yeah and I used four lettered words I never thought would come out of me in public. I'd do it again.

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Mon Sep 14, 2009 4:55pm PDT

    No. But we all have a breaking point. She was wrong. But look how many times we've seen a baseball player in an umpire's face. Ditto for pro football and basketball. They get ejected from the game and are fined. Then life goes on. The same should apply to tennis. There's no reason for her to be banned from future tournaments. That would just take the edge off competition for all players.

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  • GirlyGirl©'s Avatar
    Posted by GirlyGirl© Tue Sep 15, 2009 5:34am PDT

    No, I'm not like that. I have seen it happen, and have seen the consequences, and I must say that I don't like either one.

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  • deleta's Avatar
    Posted by deleta Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:24am PDT

    There seems to be no end to bad manners and sportsmanship. I saw the footage and she not only cussed out the lineswoman but threatened to "shove the ball down her throat and kill her!". Then she lied about what she said. I don't give a rat's ass who you are (Kayne, Sen. Wilson), if you act out you need to be repremanded for your behavour just as you would a 3 yr. old. Grow up, Serena and stop the bullying.

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  • tmtopazgirl's Avatar
    Posted by tmtopazgirl Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:24am PDT

    YES I have lost it at work with a co-worker. People like to push and it is extremely provoking. Respect is a two way street.

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  • oohay's Avatar
    Posted by oohay Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:36am PDT

    She has a temper but she handeled it right afterward and we all lose it from time to time.....but no I've never went off like that(that I can recall anyway)

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  • katie's Avatar
    Posted by katie Tue Sep 15, 2009 7:39am PDT

    My old boss used to flip at work all the time. He'd throw things around the front office (my office) and take out his agression on the people who worked there. So I quit. I was the second person to quit within a month, actually, because of him.

    I've never done anything like that though. It's extremely unprofessional.

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