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Friday, November 27, 2009

Is Star Jones out of bounds when she attacks the hosts of "The View"?

Star Jones

Star Jones on The View: 'Those Girls Were Hateful' | Star Jones

a former New York D.A. and outspoken member of "The View"  panel,

 
which features the actual opinions of those talk show hosts in an informal roundtable setting, has in recent interviews, criticized her former coworkers with unabashed candor.  Extremely well known for its ability to inspire borderline controversial conversations that many from diverse backgrounds can relate to and debate about for endless hours, "The View" has been in the news lately, with reports of backstage bickering and on-set "cat-fighting" between the four remaining co-hosts.  Now these gals certainly know how "to bring it" as anyone who has previously watched the program knows, and has experienced firsthand as the "Hot Topics" segment brings on more than a hot flash or two among the panel members. These four ladies truly know how to talk at length about even the most mundane of topics and even fashion-faux-pas-related matters have sent some of them to the mattresses.  Even when head dame Barbara Walters is a part of the group for the day, the others, Whoopi, Elisabeth, Sherri and Joy


are still known to "get into it," sometimes to the point of tears when they disagree on the topic of discussion.

Frankly it seems a little bit contrived at times to many viewers, but then again, it does make for excellent ratings and this is what keeps "The View" and other television vehicles in business.  Jones, a former member of "The View" crew, has repeatedly voiced her disenchantment towards the remaining members of the program, because they "talked about her behind her back."  Now whether or not if this is true is not the question; what is the question of the day here is whether Jones should just let it go and move on with her life or is it perfectly acceptable for her to voice her grievances about former coworkers who are no longer a part of her life? 

Frankly when most individuals leave an organization for greener pastures, they also stop caring about what their former coworkers or bosses said or thought about them.  Even in the cases where they may have been terminated or forced to resign, as was allegedly the case with Jones, who left her position abruptly after Walters apparently decided that her behavior involving constant discussions about her impending nuptials, was deemed unacceptable.  Jones, unfortunately is still, during interviews granted to the media, complaining about the lack of support she received from her former coworkers, Joy, Elizabeth and of course, Barbara.

I would like to know what you, the Shine audience thinks about the way Jones has chosen to handle this situation.  Is Jones perfectly reasonable to voice her discontentment with the previous behavior of her former coworkers, or does she simply need to leave it in the past and move on?  Many employees both in America and across the globe may have confronted less than favorable interactions with former coworkers and supervisors; however, letting it go and moving on seems like a better way to handle such unpleasant circumstances. Living well is the best revenge and sometimes getting caught up in the spoils of yesterday could very well lead to the spoiling of our tomorrows.  Is it truly possible for Jones and anyone recovering from negative workplace experiences to focus on the future and leave behind the negative situations they experienced in former workplaces?  Sometimes this is easier said than done and I would welcome the chance to find out if the Shine audience feels this is even a remote possibility because as many are aware, not all of us have the ability to rebound although Jones clearly has already seen better days since her departure from "The View".  As the former host of the now-canceled

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syndicated "Court TV" show, Jones had been given the chance to do other things as a solo act; maybe it would help her to remember that fact. 

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  • shortie's Avatar
    Posted by shortie Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:41am PDT

    My own personal opinion, if Star Jones continues to attack or complain about her former co-hosts, it is because she is either petty and jealous or because it keeps her name in the media eye and might therefore lead to another co-host job later on down the road. As everyone now knows, Star has also lied and gotten caught about having gastric by-pass surgery and she is also headed for a divorce, which may have already happened. If you are going to be on TV, atleast be responsible enough to keep the truth out there. The reason that Star was let go from The View, she thought she wasn't getting paid enough money and tried to demand a raise or she was going to quit. So, Barbara Walters decided not to continue her contract or give her a raise. Star responded like a spoiled child and had a hissy fit on TV and quit! How childish!

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  • Evyette's Avatar
    Posted by Evyette Wed Oct 15, 2008 10:44am PDT

    "Living well is the best revenge and sometimes getting caught up in the spoils of yesterday could very well lead to the spoiling of our tomorrows" Is all that can be said for the Star Jones situation.

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  • cdw's Avatar
    Posted by cdw Wed Oct 15, 2008 10:57am PDT

    This is America. Star Jones can say what she wants for as long as she wants. Whether we listen or not is the question.

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  • Giving Pause for a Cause's Avatar
    Posted by Giving Pause for a Cause Wed Oct 15, 2008 12:12pm PDT

    Hello everyone and thank you very much for taking time out of your lives, to drop in with a line. I would have to agree with 100% of the comments here. It is true, that Jones can say whatever she wants to, this is America after all and it is as phrased here, a free country. Could not have said it better!:) Still, would it not simply be easier for Jones to walk away, smile and wish well those individuals who allegedly "did her dirty"? After all, what goes around comes around and it is a lot easier to avoid the dirt directly, when you do not get caught up in the muck and mire by slinging mud as well. I truly think that Jones maybe looking for another opportunity by consistently finding ways to garner media attention with these endless deragatory comments about her former co-workers' "hatefulness" but is this really the right way to go about getting one? Walters is a pretty powerful woman in the broadcasting industry and truly not someone Jones should deliberately alienate because this lady knows a lot of people who may be able to either green light or deny Jones another opportunity of working in television. Does anyone think that Jones could be the next Oprah Winfrey who is still at the very top of her game, by many people's assessments? I think that if Jones is to even have the chance to rebound from that Court TV episode where the show failed before it could even clear the runway completely, she should just keep her personal feelings about "The View" crew quiet particularly while there is a camera or reporter within listening distance. I simply think this negative press is going to boomerang and Jones is going to be the only one to get hit.

    Have a Fab Day All and Thank You for Sharing Your Thoughts,

    Coeur

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  • Joe Dabb Babbalucci's Avatar
    Posted by Joe Dabb Babbalucci Wed Oct 15, 2008 1:53pm PDT

    Star Jones is bitching about the cast of "the View" because she's trying to get media attention. She is a known liar. She had gastric by-pass surgery so as to lose weight and lied about it. She had to fess up when caught. I'll bet her breasts are implants, too.

    She has no real skill for any form of media. I relish the thought of her crashing and burning. She's a nasty witch. Who needs to watch that or listen to such behavior?

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  • tellitlikeitis's Avatar
    Posted by tellitlikeitis Wed Oct 15, 2008 2:50pm PDT

    Star never really interested me. Seems to be a fat lady, who lost a lot of weight and now wants to be some kinda diva.

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Wed Oct 15, 2008 4:02pm PDT

    OH STAR! STAR STAR STAR...JUST GET THE HELL OVER YOURSELF MOVE ON ...

    YOUR A ON TOP ,WHAT IS THE POINT? MOST DONT REALLY LIKE THE SHOW ANYWAY.

    WHY KEEP IT GOING?REMEMBER WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN..FREEDOM OF SPEECH OK YEAH...MOVE OVER BUTTER!!!

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  • Erica's Avatar
    Posted by Erica Wed Oct 15, 2008 4:36pm PDT

    I don't know her to much nor do I watch that show to often, but some people don't look right slim and she is one of them. She looks like a lollipop that has been chewed on.

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  • AARON's Avatar
    Posted by AARON Wed Oct 15, 2008 4:58pm PDT

    star jones is NOBODY...............she should thank The View for her15 mins

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  • cheryl m's Avatar
    Posted by cheryl m Wed Oct 15, 2008 5:43pm PDT

    Star.Roise.Elizabeth If we have anything to say as women its always going to be more scrutinized. Not that lil Liz from survivor fame is an example lets cut the chase,Barbara Needs to be let in on the more interesting women in America.And quit looking for ratings.

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