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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

It started with a "Flat Tire"

On or about 6 weeks ago, a young couple moved to Dubuque Iowa

 with their 3  little children. A fresh new place with hopes and dreams

of opening a "Teens  Club" for the youth. After enrolling 2 of the

 little one's in school (kindergarten and 3rd grade) they moved into

their home with expectations of renting to own.

The mom took pictures and sent them to me excited about the

beautiful new home they had chosen and the beautiful landscaped

flowers all around the foundation. I too was excited for them.


They, without anyone's help, started to go to the "club" daily to paint

 and get it  ready for it's "Grand Opening".  It was to be their gift to

 the community of this college town. A place for teens to be safe,

away from the college drinking scene and a place to enjoy being

teens!!

On September 25th of this year they were driving back to their home

after painting for hours and got a flat tire. Their youngest was in the

back seat. They did what any one would do, got on the phone for a

tow truck. (No spare, you know the feeling.)
 
Yes, they had rushed out without the car seat and that was their only

mistake of the day. BUT...the day turned into a nightmare when the

Dubuque Iowa Police stopped. Yes, in any other state the police

would ask if you were alright. In some cases they would even offer to

 help change the tire or direct traffic around the broken down vehicle.

 BUT...not in Dubuque. They took it upon themselves to start 

"grilling" these two young adults as if they were criminals of some

sort! The only difference between the young man in this story and

the average "Joe" is that he "chose" to change his name legally years

ago. This - the police could not comprehend!


Now, what caused this "stupid" situation. When the tow truck pulled

up the mother went to get the money for the tow truck out of the

trunk. No, it wasn't weird to the couple! They put their money in the

trunk for their rent so that they didn't spend it!! It was like their "safe

place". Remember, they were new to this place and didn't have a 

bank account there!!


Before they knew it the couple had tickets - 4 of them - they wanted

 to do a search on the car with a dog - they were being treated like

"drug dealers" or felons. After hours of being on the side of the road

they threatened to take them in to the police station for questioning.

Yes, for questioning!!! These police officers treated them as if they

were "guilty" until proven innocent about "something"!! No, the

police didn't have any reason to detain them. However, they did

claim to get a "hit" on the car by the dog. The car came from a used

car dealership in Illinois just 3 months prior. The police then started

questioning a mistake the car dealership made on the registration

verses the insurance from the same dealership. One person spelled

the name with the wrong first letter.


Now the key to all of this, is they DID NOT READ THEM THEIR

RIGHTS OR HANDCUFF them. They simply told them to get into

two separate squad cars and the police were taking them in for

"questioning"!

I KNOW!! All because they had a Flat tire... Now, don't forget the

little one with them. They made her wait with "mom" for 4 hours in a

 room. She's 3...so she kept asking for a drink and repeated that she

 was hungry. But they took all of "Mommy's money"!! After hours of

 that, an officer walking passed the door and heard the little girl and

got her a little package of cookies.


They finally "released" the mother and the little girl (so that she could

 pick up the other 2 little girls from school) only to tell her that they

were keeping the man for more investigation and "not to avoid them

or they would arrest her too". They told her to come back tomorrow

 for more questioning.



Is anyone following this!!! How illegal is all of this!! The next day

 when she went to the police department to answer more

questions...They  threatened to throw the mother in jail - IN FRONT

OF THE KIDS IF SHE "LIED"!! The little girls started to 

panic. The mother reconfirmed to them that "mommy doesn't lie",

and calmed them down.


All I can say is where I come from, the police are here to serve and

protect not to harass and put fear in the hearts of children!!



It's been 3 weeks now! They still have him in custody! They are

"digging" into his past to see if they can find "ANYTHING" to put

him in jail! Oh My Gosh!! Seriously, just admit your mistake and let

the poor guy go home!!


There is so much more that has happened (the mother has been

harassed by the police, they have followed her and sat outside the

 school where she walks the children every day now - a mile away

 from home, they have served them with a search warrant for a

laptop that was in the car, they took the money out of the car 

that was for their rent and kept it, the female police officer has

walked by the young mans room and yelled things like, "FBI and

IRS" as if to taunt him - not to mention due to all of this the family

who was once going to make an improvement to Dubuque Iowa is

now having to relocate these little girls again!!


I am so angry over all of this! Mainly, because I often put myself in

 other people's shoes so that I can view things with an unbiased

opinion!!

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As of today, the temperature is a cold 33 degrees and I spoke to this

mother this morning. She walked these children to school then she is

getting a cab to go get groceries. Then, she is going to go to the house

 and get on the internet to see if she can find a new place to live. She

 simply stated, "I don't feel safe here. It's the police that are the bad

guys. How can anyone feel safe here."


Did I mention that when the incident first happened the Public

Defender told this mother on the phone, "Don't talk to them (the

Dubuque Iowa Police). They are corrupt!" That would be the same

 defender to which took the case then ducked out on Friday the 9th

of October to go on vacation. Leaving the man in the city lock up 

with a new person to take him into "court" on Monday before a

 judge. --By the By, they don't take him in before anyone!! They put

 this young man in front of a camera and conduct their conversations

that way!! He is NOT a criminal!! But I do believe these police

officers are doing injustice to him!!


I have done my own investigation on people's rights and have found

 so many faults in the police officers actions!! Not to mention that the

 female police officer did admit to the man in their custody that she

would "stop harassing" his girlfriend.


Now, we have found out that this same police station likes to pull

their locked up "prisoners" out at night and submit more charges on

them - sometimes even just hours before they are supposed to be

 released on bail. Causing the "inmates" to have to stay longer.

Whether the charges are real or not...who's really knows.


The police have made several mistakes and "Thank Goodness" that

 this young man is smart enough to pay attention, rather than shut

down and give up.  But he is so scared!! Scared that they (the

Dubuque police)  will hide evidence to cover their mistake.



He is not being given his United States of America's rights!! He is not

 being given a swift and fair hearing. When they say on the law blogs

and in the law videos, You have the right to remain silent...don't think

 about the shows on TV that you have watched and feel fear about

asking for an attorney. It is your right to have an attorney present and

 representing you. I have even seen where lawyers have stated that

"police can lie". It is an accepted interrogation technique!!!!


Here is a
Link to tell you all about this!!



Now don't get me wrong. Our oldest son is a police officer in another

 state and we are so proud of him. I do not disrespect the police

force. But I do, however, have questions about police like the one's I

 have been describing to you!! Is it their egos that cause them to do

 such bad things to good people???


However this may turn out, honestly you never want to go to

Dubuque Iowa. Heaven forbid You may get a flat tire and end up in

jail!! Scary huh!!

Thank you for taking the time to read this!! I think my main purpose

is to see if someone who is capable of helping can step up and do just

 that!
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  • Duck of Death's Avatar
    Posted by Duck of Death Tue Oct 13, 2009 5:12pm PDT

    I went to college in Iowa, and Dubuque is backwards. I am an attorney in Illinois now. I know some people in Iowa who may be able to help.

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