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Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Jobless: Should I be Dateless?
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I have been out of work for almost 4 months. I would like to
continue dating but have a hard time believing that a single woman
would be interested in a man who is not making a living. Should I
put my love life on hold until I land a job?
SingleEdition.com Career Expert Alyson
D'Anna's Answer:
Assuming you have not become a couch potato during your time off,
don’t put your love life on hold! Many singles forced into
temporary sabbaticals are taking advantage of their time off by
traveling, going back to school, volunteering and/or learning new
hobbies. As a result, their lives become multi-dimensional
and dynamic, full of fascinating experiences that make for
interesting dating discussions.
If you have not taken advantage of your time off, I urge you to
do so immediately. Get involved with a local volunteer
program, treat yourself to a low-budget singles adventure or join a
club. Remember, the extra-curricular activities you engage in
while unemployed are fantastic opportunities to meet other singles,
network for potential job leads and feel good about
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Posted by Climbing Mon Nov 9, 2009 3:10pm PST
Are you talking about love or date? cause they're totaly different things.(to me anyways)
Without date you can survive without job hmmm don't think so.
J.O.B is as important as water, sleep and food and gives you convinient life also freedom and confidence.
What do I know anyways I've been more times dateless than jobless, so you're the boss of yourself. Listen to your gut not to your ego though.
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Posted by daeya Mon Nov 9, 2009 3:27pm PST
i believe that you could date and afll in love being jobless, because not all women look at the pockets/ wallets first. being a young woman myself, i believe that as long as you have a nice attitude and are very cordial and sincere in what you are looking for, the possibility is endless. and you never know, you might meet a woman and then get your job after that!
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Posted by Mauna Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:01am PST
I've been out of work for over a year...I am not dating anyone...besides of other factors as well. As a secret, still knowing all the dirty sides when it comes to playing the games in Love....I was working when I dated back in 2005, however, here is something to think about....the guy I date, he ended up getting fired, shortly after, I got fired...seem to surreal? A lot of the superstition that is actually truthful which all fail to explain in full truth under the Oath of God...And everytime I do decide to date...I as little as I have for myself, end up losing everything I have...thus another reason on my list why I do not date besides being jobless. Those who are not capable of being alone, will have 'issues' in the dating world and ego status problems (since money is a number one factor of what all would say...he/she is successful and a competent person LOL!) There are a lot of souls who do not know how to be by themselves and never really and truly discover all the great parts of themselves, because of the fact of not being able to be alone.
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Posted by Abolagba Thu Nov 12, 2009 8:31am PST
if u really find a girl that cares for u. u dont need money to date. u can just do something simple such as out doors activities like the old good days without spending a nothing.
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