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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Life lessons learned from John Hughes

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One of our personal heroes, writer/producer/director John Hughes, passed away yesterday, and we're really devastated. Not only did his awesome '80s films teach us about style, but they also taught us about love, friendship, disregarding stereotypes and what to expect out of life. We grew up on now-classic films like "Sixteen Candles," "The Breakfast Club," "Ferris Bueller's Day Off," "Vacation," "Weird Science," and many more. Hell, we even enjoyed his '90s classic holiday movie "Home Alone."

Hughes may be gone now, but he left us with eternal crushes, role models, an affinity for New Wave and a handful of life lessons. We tried to remember these when growing up and hope to pass them on to our own kids.

  • Even dorks can land babes. In "Weird Science" the guys may have to create the woman of their dreams, but in the end, real-life ladies come around and appreciate them for who they are once they get to know the dudes inside. Samantha Baker may be a sophomore nobody in "Sixteen Candles," but she wins the heart of uber-popular jock, Jake Ryan. Even dorky Ted winds up with Jake's hot prom date. See, dreams do come true!
  • People are not always what they seem. In "The Breakfast Club," the kids write a letter to the principal saying, "We think you're crazy to make us write an essay telling you who we think we are...What do you care? You see us as you want to see us." By the film's end we discover that the popular girl is still a virgin, that the bully and the jock both have sensitive sides, that the weirdo was really just a pathological liar and that the nerd was potentially the the toughest of all. Consider all stereotypes shattered.
  • Make the most of sibling rivalry. In just about every John Hughes film one sibling gets the short end of the stick. Take heed and don't be jealous or hate on your brother or sister just because they're more popular. You'd be better off teaming up.
  • Parents aren’t perfect. Hughes portrays extreme circumstances where parents forget their daughter's birthday (in "Sixteen Candles") and even leave their young son behind when leaving on a family trip to Paris (in "Home Alone"). Since your folks were never that bad, maybe it's time to cut them some slack.
  • Disastrous vacations are what memories are made of. Hey, remember that time your dad decided you were all going on on a road trip to Wally World, but the car got virtually destroyed, your grandma died, the dog peed on your sandwiches and when you finally got to the theme park it was not only a dump, it was closed? These are the memories you'll look back on and laugh at some day.
  • Live life to the fullest. In the brilliant words of Ferris Bueller, "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."
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  • Americas Perfect Tradgedy's Avatar
    Posted by Americas Perfect Tradgedy Fri Aug 7, 2009 7:38pm PDT

    i love you

    john hughes

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  • Kendra's Avatar
    Posted by Kendra Fri Aug 7, 2009 7:57pm PDT

    I loved all his movies, he will be remembered.

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  • Shannon's Avatar
    Posted by Shannon Sat Aug 8, 2009 6:23pm PDT

    thank you for making my teen years bearable, there's a special place in heaven for guys like you

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  • Pu's Avatar
    Posted by Pu Sun Aug 9, 2009 7:12am PDT

    thougt l don't know the mean Completely

    yeah

    l still like this essay

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  • hel's vu's Avatar
    Posted by hel's vu Sun Aug 9, 2009 3:17pm PDT

    unfortunately another wonderfully talented person has passed.

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  • Jenn's Avatar
    Posted by Jenn Mon Aug 10, 2009 7:59am PDT

    I think Breakfast Club and Ferris were two of THE most defining movies of the 80s. What they taught the generation and still teach today is far more important than the movie messages presented today.

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  • Fizza's Avatar
    Posted by Fizza Mon Aug 10, 2009 9:56pm PDT

    I impressed by John's words.

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  • Joshua's Avatar
    Posted by Joshua Sat Sep 12, 2009 8:10am PDT

    What is this for?

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