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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Planning a perfect wedding on the cheap



By: Angela Burkhart, Quizzle.com

Every girl dreams of having that perfect wedding. But when that time comes, the perfect wedding might be limited to the amount of money the bride and groom are able to contribute.

I'm currently planning for an October 2010 wedding and have already spent $6,000 on my reception alone. A friend of mine is getting married this weekend and planned her entire wedding for under $5,000. So I wondered: In what areas can I and others save money in the wedding planning process, but still achieve that perfect wedding?

Be Frugal With Your Wedding Reception


Some banquet halls can charge as much as $80 a person on the weekend. If you plan to invite 150 guests, you’re bound to spend $12,000. Look for banquet halls that charge under $20 a person. Most banquet halls will give you a discount if you book your reception during the lunch hour or if you book on a holiday such as Halloween.

Take time to look and re-look over your guest list. Don’t feel like you have to invite every person you know. Narrow your list down by who must attend and who you might want to attend if there is enough space. Even though some banquet halls require that you have a minimum number of people attend, most halls will waive that requirement if you book with them immediately.

Bargain Shop for Your Wedding Dress

For me, the second most important purchase in my wedding planning was my dress. Though you may be tempted to spend hundreds even thousands of dollars on a wedding dress, that money could be better spent in other areas. Take the time to check out sites like Milanoo, which sells wedding dresses at wholesale prices. I looked over the selection of dresses and found several under $150 that were very comparable to my $1,000 wedding dress. For me, this is the one area where I could have saved the most money.

Print Your Own Invitations


While most invitations don’t cost a lot of money, it is still an area where hundreds of dollars can be saved. Most name brand invitations can cost as much as $3 per invitation. By shopping smart you can find invitations that cost under $1 per invitation.

Don’t forget that your wedding invitations are not the only ones you will need. Consider all the events prior to the wedding that you will be having, such as you engagement party, bridal shower and rehearsal dinner. Since you won't need a lot of invitations for those events, consider doing them at home. Stores like Target and Michael’s sell custom do-it-yourself kits. I recently had an engagement party and did all the invitations and thank you cards at home.

Less is More When It Comes to Flowers

While booking my wedding reception, the venue allowed me to view some receptions that were already set up for later that day. In my opinion, some of the rooms were so over decorated that it took away from the mood. I found that the rooms with less decorations and flowers looked the best. So I decided against using extravagant center pieces and to stick to something simple. For under $5 a center piece, you can create a romantic setting with floating candles and rose petals.

Don’t be Afraid of FREE


When planning your wedding, don’t be afraid to ask for free stuff. When ordering invitations, ask if you get a set amount free if you order over a certain amount of inivitations. Some sites will give 50 free invitations or free shipping. When researching banquet halls I came across one that included a free engagement party. While I didn't end up booking with that banquet hall, I suggested the idea to the hall I did choose. They agreed to throw me a two hour party with free hors d'oeuvres, cake, champagne toast and bar. You never know what you can get for free until you ask.

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  • .constance.marie.kiwi.'s Avatar
    Posted by .constance.marie.kiwi. Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:50am PST

    this is a great article!!! :D

    i loved the dresses on milanoo!

    i think i found "THE ONE" lol

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  • Writers_block's Avatar
    Posted by Writers_block Fri Nov 20, 2009 6:43am PST

    Those are some great tips! Here are a few more that I came across while planning mine. We had the wedding and reception for just over a $1000 dollars.

    Choose a time earlier in the day. If you host a reception later in the afternoon or at night you're more obligated to serve a full meal. Planning for an early afternoon or late morning wedding means you can get away with only providing snacks.

    Use fake flowers. Several of my bridesmaids as well as myself have very bad allergies, so real flowers were out of the question. I was pleasantly surprised with some of the beautiful faux flowers we could get. My bouquets were stunning and everyone got to keep theirs!

    Ask for help. My husband's grandmother was thrilled when we asked if she could make our table runners. We simply provided the fabric and she really enjoyed helping. Lots of us have aunts and grandmothers who like to sew or do other artsy things. Well let them!

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  • Ashley's Avatar
    Posted by Ashley Fri Nov 20, 2009 7:14am PST

    Thanks for the tips!! I'm planning my September 2010 wedding now & can use all the tips I can get. I do know that you can also save hundreds on weddings by having a weekday wedding. I'm getting married on a Tuesday evening, paid $200.00 for the reception hall, & am encountering lots of deals with deejays, photographers, etc. all because it's during the week.

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  • Quizzle.com's Avatar
    Posted by Quizzle.com Fri Nov 20, 2009 7:20am PST

    Thanks for the tips Writers_block. Many people have told me that they used fake flowers for their boquets. I love going to the craft store and picking out faux flowers that would match my wedding. Here at Quizzle we are all about saving money and will pass this tip on to our users.

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  • Quizzle.com's Avatar
    Posted by Quizzle.com Fri Nov 20, 2009 7:22am PST

    Congratulations on your wedding Ashley. Getting married on a weekday is a wonderful option for saving money. Most reception halls have an open calendar on the weekdays and will give lots of discounts to book your wedding. This is an excellent tip for all of our Quizzlers.

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Sat Nov 21, 2009 7:40am PST

    There are wedding consignment shops. A friend bought a beautiful gown, never worn, for $300. It was very similar to the one she had been admiring for $2800. If fresh fowers are used, have friends and family members pick them up later and deliver to nursing home parients or women's shelters. But faux flowers look so real now and look lovely.

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  • another hockey fan's Avatar
    Posted by another hockey fan Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:03am PST

    My hubby and I (third and second marriages) got married on the beach and then went out for a nice dinner. Granted it was just my folks, his two sons and their girlfriends in attendance, it still can save money for those thinking about a smaller wedding.

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  • Momit's Avatar
    Posted by Momit Sun Nov 22, 2009 2:51am PST

    Wonderful!!

    Thank you so much for such beautiful recommendation. Keep doing...

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  • annelle95's Avatar
    Posted by annelle95 Sun Nov 22, 2009 7:01pm PST

    Wow, that's excellent! Your article was very helpful:) I'm planning a wedding the next couple of months so every penny counts. Thanks for the tips!

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  • M.J - Fierce Beauty and Fashion's Avatar
    Posted by M.J - Fierce Beauty and Fashion Mon Nov 23, 2009 7:42am PST

    These are great tips! What also helps you save money is to plan with plenty of time! I booked my reception place and photographer almost a year out and got great discounts because I booked so far in advance. Since I booked, the prices have gone up throughout the year so I saved money then. I also kept my eye out for sales for things such as the guest book, DIY invites, etc. I snatched up a cute flower girl basket when baskets went on sale the day after Easter. I plan on getting my candy the day after Valentines Day when everything is half price!

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