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Friday, November 27, 2009

The laws of working motherhood

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We've all heard about Murphy's Law (whatever can go wrong, will). And the Law of Averages (everything evens out in the end). And Newton's Third Law of Motion (every action has an equal and opposite reaction).

Well, The Laws of Working Moms incorporate a little bit of each -- and then some. To wit:

1.) If you have an early meeting, or if the children need to be at school early for a field trip or other event, someone will be up at least twice during the night -- which means you will be, too.

2.) The toddler will sneeze mightily in your face the day before he comes down with a ferocious cold.

3.) Your kids' school or daycare will shut down due to Swine Flu the week after your kids have been out sick with a cold. (Corollary: Your kids will not have the H1N1/Swine Flu virus.)

4.) You will spill coffee (hot or cold, doesn't matter) on yourself if, and only if, you wear a freshly pressed white blouse to the office.

5.) If you are the working mom of an infant, you will discover a cascade of dried spit-up on the back of your jacket, but only after you've worn it for at least two hours (or to at least one meeting).

6.) Any electronic device that's absolutely necessary to your sanity will be a.) missing or b.) out of batteries when you most need it.

7.) If you carry a purse, you will always have some sort of kid-type food in it, which you will discover when you are looking for something, like your ID. What you will not have in it is whatever you were actually looking for, like your ID.

8.) You will slave over an amazing meal that the kids won't touch, and you will throw together a last-minute "gotta get them fed" meal that they devour.

9.) Your kid will have severe Mama Drama on the mornings when you most need to be at work by a certain time. (Corrollary: You will be late on those days.)
 
10.) You will go to work more than once with a sticky, kid-applied kiss on your cheek -- and you deliberately won't wash it off.

Lylah M. Alphonse writes about juggling career and parenthood at The 36-Hour Day and Work It, Mom!, is the Child Caring columnist for Boston.com/Moms, and blogs at Write. Edit. Repeat.

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  • Dreamer's Avatar
    Posted by Dreamer Fri Sep 11, 2009 6:48am PDT

    Aww. That was a cute article. Very true, too! I've had several of these mishaps happen to me. I can SO relate!

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  • Mel B's Avatar
    Posted by Mel B Fri Sep 11, 2009 7:01am PDT

    Just this morning, numbers 1, 6, 9 and 10 applied to my life. No joke!

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  • Toju's Avatar
    Posted by Toju Fri Sep 11, 2009 7:02am PDT

    and the eleventh law: ur mind will always be where ur kids are whenever u re at work.

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  • Angel's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Fri Sep 11, 2009 8:03am PDT

    Love it!! true true true!!

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  • C's Avatar
    Posted by C Fri Sep 11, 2009 9:53am PDT

    The small child who has not had a bodily fluid explosion (pee, poo, or spitup) in months will produce the trifecta on a morning when you do NOT have time to change.

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  • joshsmom's Avatar
    Posted by joshsmom Fri Sep 11, 2009 9:55am PDT

    SO true.

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  • Ebrahim's Avatar
    Posted by Ebrahim Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:04am PDT

    HI

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  • Aud's Avatar
    Posted by Aud Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:00am PDT

    One day as I was sitting in my office I turned to look out the window and I got a big wiff of my baby's spit up from the sleeve of my blouse. Of course I had no idea that it was there, but as soon as I smelled it,....I got butterflies and I was filled with happiness as I thought of my little one being in my arms......how strange that spit up can make you feel so good (at times!). : )

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  • Momnipotent's Avatar
    Posted by Momnipotent Mon Sep 14, 2009 6:22pm PDT

    For weeks, I kept discovering the same "O" shaped stain on my shirt when I got to work, only to discover that it was the chapstick smear from my 5 year old's mouth when she would hug me goodbye... she'd bury her face in my shirt

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  • Autumnstar's Avatar
    Posted by Autumnstar Tue Sep 15, 2009 10:17am PDT

    I would fight in the morning to get to work on time. After the flurry of morning activity, battling the traffic, the weather, a stubborn child, a messy dog. I would find it no coincidence that on the particularly difficult mornings when getting to work on time was a battle fought and won, I would get a phone call from either my daycare provider or in later years, the school nurse, advising my that my daughter was sick and needed to get picked up.

    I seemed to be a bad employee on the days I was a good mom. I probably was, and I never apologized to my manager, nor did I ask for permission to leave early on those days where I had to. I never will.

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