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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Time to de-stress

It's tough. People are grumpy and with budget cuts happening everywhere, well, it's just plain stressful. That got me to thinking of tips I've heard and used to create a little peace and relaxation in the middle of the day.

Always remember, if you're stressed and in a bad mood, you project it through everything you do. Personally, my jaws clench, and I become short with people. And that's no fun. I'm not as effective as a leader, a mother or a friend. And while a little stress is good for performance, a lot of stress throws you and your nervous system out of whack, leading to nasty physical consequences as well as leaving you vulnerable to anxiety and depression.

So, it's time for a break!

Here are my five favorite tips to de-stress.

1. Have a personal jam session. Get out the headphones and listen your favorite up-beat song. Tina Turner always gets me moving and inspired.

2. Get out of the office, or the house. Change the scenery! Take a coffee break and go on a 15-minute walk to get some fresh air. You will be more productive if you give your brain a rest.

3. De-clutter your desk . You will feel better instantly—I promise! The distracting call of “the piles” will be silenced, enabling you to concentrate on your next feat.

4. Connect. Talk to your team. Ask others about their day. If they're smiling, you're going to smile back. It's contagious! If you work alone, or you're home alone, call a best friend. She needs you as much as you need her right now.

5. Laugh. Yes, laughter is my cure all. Here's a great stat from my book : Preschool children laugh up to 400 times a day, but adults only laugh 17 times a day on average. C'mon! Take the edge off and have a little fun.

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  • saida's Avatar
    Posted by saida Wed May 6, 2009 7:54pm PDT

    need this little reminder verrryyy much at this time! it reminds me to breathe a little...

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  • Anastasia's Avatar
    Posted by Anastasia Wed May 6, 2009 11:20pm PDT

    your suggestions are ok;but pray to God is the best way to avoid our stress.

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  • Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger's Avatar
    Posted by Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger Thu May 7, 2009 12:06pm PDT

    Laughter is the best! When you're down or stressed, finding a good pet video or making time for a sit-com (love The Big Bang Theory) gets the good hormones flowing and will help de-stress. I like your idea to de-clutter your desk. Works if you declutter your office, closet, sock drawer...whatever. Decluttering leaves you with a sense of balance, I think.

    Times are stressful these days - more so than last summer, I think. So, anything we can do to keep our lives balanced, is worthwhile. At the very least, take a walk and stop to smell the roses.

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  • Kaira Sturdivant Rouda's Avatar
    Posted by Kaira Sturdivant Rouda Mon May 11, 2009 10:01am PDT

    Jarmakowskirt- Glad too help :) little reminds always seem to go a long way.

    apadangrini- Thanks for the advice.

    Yvonne- I always think decluttering any space helps to bring a sense of balance. And finding the right balance for you and your family is always key.

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