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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Wake up People-- Americans are what's wrong with America

So, I woke up on the right side of the bed today, but everything else that's happened today seems to suck!  I'm riled up right now and reading some of the blogs that are posted are just adding insult to injury. 

First of all, the interstate I travel to get to work was a parking lot.  WTF is up with a High Occupancy Vehicle lane anyway?  We have a right lane, a middle lane and a left lane, then a completely useless lane which separates the HOV lane from the rest.  I KNOW this HOV lane is supposed to encourage carpooling, but it simply doesn't do it enough to warrant a whole lane.  People either carpool or they don't.  A special lane will not make or break their decision.  What a great commute I and a million others would have if they opened up the useless separation lane AND the HOV lane to regular traffic.  Imagine 5 lanes of flowing traffic, not three 30 mile long parking lots.  Geesh.  Happy F-ing Monday.

I finally get to work and my day is all sparkles... well not really.  It sucks.  I'll spare you the drama though, because in the end I'm grateful to have a job, period.  It's temp role that'll take me to June ( I was laid off in November 08), but it's a paycheck nonetheless. 

So to break away from less than fabulous Monday here in Corporate heck, I tune into Shine on my lunch break.  Why am I drawn to the posts that seem to anger me?  I can't answer that with certainty, but for whatever reason, I look at the following posts:

The one about Obama's new dog by Mag.

The one about Celebrities and their incomes.

The one about pregnant women in the workplace and whether or not they deserve special treatment by a rep of Parenting Magazine.

And the one about the Burger King commercial and whether or not the Sir Mix aLot jam that is the basis is too sexual in nature for our children. 

Not to mention the Madonna hater articles about why she shouldn't adopt anymore kids. 

So Mag, you don't think Obama's new dog will help save homeless children...?  Not S***T!!  You insist we write a letter to our President telling him to focus on the more important things in the world and not the new addition to his family.  Uh, ok.  Dear Mr. President, how dare you get a family pet when you could have adopted a homeless child instead...is that what you want us to say?  Or how about, Dear Mr. President, I think you should tell the media to stop reporting on your dog and instead report on the numbers of homeless children in America. 

Maybe it's not up to the President what the media reports.  It's called fee media, maybe you've heard of it.  Ultimately, I think I get what you're trying to say, and that is that we as Americans need to be a little bit more responsible and encourage each other to do something about the everyday tragedies that impact not only us but our entire population.  Okay, point taken, but if that's what you're trying to say, then say it.  Don't bash the President who IS in fact doing his job. 

Relating to the "fluff" piece of the Obama's dog... We sit here and place blame on others and complain that this gets the headline, BUT it's all of us that make it happen.  Segway into the crap about celebrities and their questionably deserved salaries.... We as Americans make this possible.  Just like the Obama's dog making breaking news, the money that Beyonce and Jenn Aniston make is because of us.  If we as shallow Americans were not so interested in their lives, and for a day stopped supporting them by buying their music, the tabloids and their movies, what would happen?  They'd stop making that kinda dough.  We sit here and complain that they are undeserving of an $80 mil salary, well I AGREE, but people; it's our nation that makes it happen.  We reward beauty and fame with attention, hence money.  If you don't like it, don't support it!!

Okay, so like I said, I am riled up.  Blame it on the pregnancy hormones if you will, I dunno.  Speaking of pregnancy... Why was a rep from Parenting Magazine allowed to write an article in which he or she is blatantly encouraging discrimination?  The main question of the post is whether or not pregnant women deserve to be spared in a lay off?  Because of the additional stressors they may endure, the poster is against a preggo getting the boot.  Uh hello!!!!??? We don't like to discriminate in our country remember?  Why, if we don't like being discriminated against, would we want to be spared in a layoff?  When the tables turn and discrimination works in our favor, we aren't such haters anymore, huh?  WTF.  I was laid off  when I was 6 weeks along in my pregnancy.  Did I stress? No.  I can't depend on my job to hold my hand through life.  I can't expect my job will be safe all the time.  No one can.  Your job doesn't keep you around because they like you.  Whether you answer phones, sweep the floor or are the CEO, you help generate revenue and that is all they care about.  Whether one is pregnant, has cancer, is otherwise disabled, your job doesn't give a S**T.  Stop feeling as if you are entitled to work and know that it is actually a privilege.  If you get the boot, you should probably have some money stashed to the side.  If not, please don't complain.  It's called taking accountability for ourselves. 

Okay, and now the F-ing BK ad and Spongebob's/the King's desire for a square butt.... People need to not react with such defense when they see a commercial with butts on it.  OMG, the tragedy!!!  It's an old song folks and it "goes" with the square pants that our beloved sponge wears.  I personally think it's a funny ad and honestly has no impact on the rest of my life... why should it on yours or your child's?  If you don't like what is on TV, then don't watch it.  Or don't let your kids watch it.  How about we worry more about the actual product the commercial is marketing?  The poison you may "treat" your kids to once per week, or sadly twice or three times.  Fast food is a top offender in the reason why Americans are overweight and dying of heart disease every day. 

So, one more rant before I go back to work... Madonna's desire to adopt a Malawian child... The most common argument I hear is "why can't she adopt a child from America?"  my reply-- What the F difference does it make?  We are one human race and shouldn't shun children from the adoption process because they are from a foreign country.  An orphaned child is an orphaned child is an orphaned child. 

I could segway into my pro-choice schpeal now, but I won't.  All I WILL say is that so many complain that embryos are being destroyed via abortion and they are all deserving of a life... well I agree to a point, but if that embryo turned child is given up for adoption and never taken in by a loving family, we are left with what we were originally complaining about with Mag... homeless children that are otherwise forgotten about.  Why submit an innocent child to a life filled with such tragedy?  Stop fighting the abortion argument and go adopt a child instead. 

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  • Mag's Avatar
    Posted by Mag Mon Apr 13, 2009 6:07pm PDT

    I am glad you wrote this. You got my blog after all.

    I hope tomorrow is a better day for you.

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:27am PDT

    Wow, Nini. You're angry, but I like it! This is a good blog! You vented well! Thanks for drawing my attention to this. I totally agree with you about all your points - which is rare for me. =0)

    I hope you have an amazing day!

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  • Nini Poo's Avatar
    Posted by Nini Poo Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:44am PDT

    Thanks Yogi. I usually agree with most of what you have to say too. You and Rose and Rockin' Mom... Angela and I think springtime too. I'm sure I left someone off that list, lol. I'm in a better mood today than I was yesterday, but I still stand by what I wrote. haha. The "Case of the Mondays" had me good yesterday.

    While i'm drawing attention to blogs. I had to comment on the one about the mom who is saving her dead son's sperm to create the family she swears he wanted. It's a crazy post, but very thought provoking. It's either under parenting or Manage your Life by Em someone....

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    Posted by Nini Poo Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:58am PDT

    ... oh nevermind. I see you already hit that one up. Crazy, right?

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  • Mrs. Carol B's Avatar
    Posted by Mrs. Carol B Tue Apr 14, 2009 10:56am PDT

    Hello Nini Poo,

    I got so caught up in your post I've forgotten what you commented on my site about!!!!! Oh, I think it was about the turkeys. I love them, too. Did you know they sleep in trees? Yep, they do and I have a pic to prove it. Everything you said in your post is legitimate; these things some of our countrymen (and women) find to obsess about are ridiculous. Who cares where Madonna or Angelina get their adopted children from - at least they are adopting a child in need. It would be ideal if they got the child from right here in the good old USA but the red tape is so outrageous they go to the easier place. I agree too much emphasis is being made on the "first dog." Sometimes I can't even watch the news or read a newspaper anymore. You know the saying, "ignorance is bliss" well sometimes I feel the more ignorant I am the better I feel. I just go to work and come home to my family and deal with our little daily problems as they arise and stay oblivious to the worldly problems and I'm much more happier. Then, I feel guilty! Sometimes I get these feelings of sadness for all hurt and suffering in the world that I know is out there and there is nothing I can do about it. That's when I pray. I'll never know if it helps but it makes me feel better. Well, that was quite something! Hope I didn't bore you to death. Look forward to crossing paths again on this wonderful journey called LIFE!!!!! By the way, my favorite movie is "Life or Something Like It" starring Angelina Jolie when she was young(er). It always puts a smile on my face. Try it sometime, it's a good flick.

    Nice to meet ya'

    CarolB

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  • Nini Poo's Avatar
    Posted by Nini Poo Tue Apr 14, 2009 11:58am PDT

    haha, no Carol, I did not know turkeys lived in trees. I never ever even thought about it. Not sure where I assumed they live...

    Thanks for stopping by. And I agree that ignorance is bliss. Maybe that's another theory about why the First Dog is making such news...? Shield us from the harsh realities for once and divert us to the dog. I dunno.

    Often times, I watch the news just before bed and I get all stressed and have to change the channel. I wonder why I don't have bad dreams EVERY night!?

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:53pm PDT

    Nini, I usually fall asleep to my local news channel..... it plays continuously all day long, every day. That's kind of creepy, huh?

    After 9/11 I turned off the real news and politics. I got so emotionally wrought. I had nightmares all the time. I couldn't stop crying. Everything embedded itself on my soul with such an aching attack it really began to permeate and affect my life. Now, I just watch CNN and other news channels here and there. I don't become engrossed in it like I used to. I know that makes me ignorant, but I just can't handle it. I hate suffering. I see no reason for it.

    I know that right now many people on here find me to be a major b*tch. I just try to live by a strong moral scale. That falls off kilter sometimes. I guess I look at the long term consequences of things. Maybe not all the time. I'm not perfect, but I am honest. Sometimes my choices might be misguided.

    Anyhow, it's nice to meet you.

    You were telling people to come to Emma Mae's blog......

    http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/judge-oks-bedford-womans-request-to-save-dead-sons-sperm-what-do-you-think-445416/#comments

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  • Emma Mae's Avatar
    Posted by Emma Mae Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:23pm PDT

    Nini-poo, great post, agree with most of your rants. I loved how they recently opened up a major highway to 6 lanes but DID NOT complete the bottle neck removal at a major intersection, they need two lanes exiting yet still have only one with a stop light at the bottom of the intersection...so now you have 6 lanes that come to a screeching halt where 4 used to..I should make you a video but it would make me cranky.

    I have new post up and hope that you will feel free to leave comments and suggestions

    I can use all the help in getting it right that I can get

    Thanks Emma Mae

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  • Emma Mae's Avatar
    Posted by Emma Mae Wed Apr 15, 2009 5:38am PDT

    Nini poo, I am going to make an edit of the post, I just waiting for the people I have requested to volunteer their skills to make it PERFECT. I know that people think it wont happen, but I believe it will. We have enough talent to turn out a daily magazine. We have advice, we have current event commentaries like yours, Angela's and a couple others that can be our version of Andy Rooney. We have writers of fiction, writers of sci-fi, gamers, crafters, messages of hope, inspiration, and faith that we can make a change. Put them all in one place and You have something GREAT and easily accessible to the world. I guess I believe in all of you.

    Thanks and keep ideas coming, I can use every one. And if you see a flaw point it out. I aint proud. (And yes, you can call me crazy or say I am tilting windmills but I will just say, "If you build it, they will come." Love that movie.

    Thanks again

    Emma Mae

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  • Dawnie's Avatar
    Posted by Dawnie Wed Apr 15, 2009 1:49pm PDT

    I normally never post, I just read...but everything you had to say was dead on and I just had to tell you that!! I loved it! I'll definitely be forwarding it to all my whiny, celeb-hungry and foggy friends. I loved it!!

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