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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

What I like (and hate) about Sarah Palin

There’s so much not to like about Sarah Palin … why do I find myself admiring her?
- April Daniels Hussar, BettyConfidential.com

Like many people outside of Alaska, the first I heard of Sarah Palin was back in August 2008, when John McCain announced her as his running mate. My first reaction: Smooth move, John. We wanted a woman in the Oval Office, now you might be giving us one. My second reaction: How sexist and condescending can you get. We can’t have Hillary, so any old female will do? And my third: Dear Lord, please don’t let this woman end up in the White House.

So here’s my confession: I was – and still am – an ardent Obama supporter. Politically speaking I’d say Sarah Palin and I are just about polar opposites. (You say, “Drill baby;” I say, “No blood for oil.”) I shudder to imagine her holding a national political office. But, the thing is, well … see, it’s like this … I kind of like her too.

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Yep. As much as I hate to admit it, I can’t help but find certain things about Sarah Palin admirable … and, dare I say? … almost role model-ish.

I roll my eyes at half the stuff she says; I wanted to strangle her when she kept winking during her debate with Joe Biden. Just the other day, I laughed out loud when she told Oprah it was not lucky but, rather, “providential” she kept all those journals as a kid (Yes, Sarah, God wanted you to write a bestseller)… but at the same time I admire her spirit, and her guts.

I don’t agree with her pro-life stance (you say “Pro-life,” I say “Anti-choice”), but I honestly commend Sarah Palin for living by her beliefs. She, as they say, doesn’t just talk the talk, she walks the walk – in an area of life that is one of the hardest and most personal. And as a woman, and a mother, I take my hat off to her for that. It was brave and estimable of her to admit to wavering over her decision to carry her Down syndrome baby to term. And, while I’m thankful she actually got to MAKE a choice (oh the irony), I think the decision she made was full of courage. It couldn’t have been an easy one.

I hate how she takes every opportunity to lambaste the “mainstream liberal media” (Sarah, I think it’s called fact checking, not “opposition research.”), but damned if I didn’t applaud her mama bear approach to ripping into David Letterman for his nasty jokes about her daughter. Yeah, yeah I know David was talking about Bristol, not Bristol’s younger sister, but either way I’d have wanted to scratch his eyes out, too. There’s no such thing as below the belt when it comes to our babies.

And yes, I truly respect how she is able to accomplish so much and be a mother of five. Frankly, I’m a bit in awe.

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It makes me tear my hair out when I hear Sarah spouting her “death panel” nonsense. But, at the same time, I can’t help but admire how she is able to weather the continuous, venomous criticism that is directed her way. I have trepidations about putting my own name on this very article, knowing how rabid both lovers and haters of Sarah Palin get. Meanwhile, she takes hits all day and every day, and still she stays true to herself.

Which brings me, finally, to the thing I (begrudgingly) admire most about her. Sarah Palin believes in herself. To be sure – I think a lot of the stuff she believes, and espouses, is, what's the word, whack – but as a model of the power of ambition, self-confidence, and plain old dreams … well, Sarah Palin sets an example.

Oh Sarah – if only you weren’t a creationist conservative zealot. You’d be my hero.

Would I vote for her?

No way in hell.

Would I like to take my daughter to meet her? You betcha.

April Daniels Hussar is BettyConfidential’s Deputy Editor.



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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:11pm PST

    What exactly makes a person a "creationist conservative zealot"? I am curious... because depending on the definition then I would be one too...

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  • Angel's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:20pm PST

    WOW!! This is a great blog... and true!! I was expecting to read & disagree with something but you put it very well at the end & I agree totally - "Oh Sarah – if only you weren’t a creationist conservative zealot. You’d be my hero. Would I vote for her? No way in hell. Would I like to take my daughter to meet her? You betcha."

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  • Michelle's Avatar
    Posted by Michelle Fri Nov 20, 2009 1:54pm PST

    I too agree with this article...I've found myself a little fascinated with her and I'm an Obama supporter. It takes gusto to go in front of a nation and asked to be voted into the White House with so much opposition.

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  • KATHRYN J's Avatar
    Posted by KATHRYN J Fri Nov 20, 2009 1:55pm PST

    Well, if it weren't for her unChristian habit of viciously lying about her detractors, and her hypocritical stance on socialism, when she basically sent everybody in her state a welfare check courtesy of the oil companies--if it weren't for her complete lack of knowledge about foreign affairs and dismissal of critiques about her, I'd say you were right in thinking there was something admirable about her. I think she's horrid.

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  • anh's Avatar
    Posted by anh Fri Nov 20, 2009 4:46pm PST

    "style" instead of content...why does this win votes? are people really that clueless about the responsibilities of a presidential/vice-presidential candidate? No wonder we still have the probs we have!

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  • The Tedster's Avatar
    Posted by The Tedster Fri Nov 20, 2009 4:47pm PST

    Funny how yesterday Bill O'Reilly (put this under the clip and save dept for 2012 btw) said the Dems should be afraid of Death Panel Palin because she will form a new party and has the power to unite us all and thereby win the election for president. All righty then.

    Then today, William the Great (O'Reilly), says that Caribou Barbie (I mean Palin) has only a 27% approval rating. So I say, "Unite this, pal!" Looks like her charysma took a dive over night. The only good news for her was that 57% were apparently undecided. For that, I'm scared. Who's keeping track of the time here and when are those 15 achingly long minutes UP?

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Fri Nov 20, 2009 6:04pm PST

    Eh Ted... Palin is a divisive 'politician' but in my opinion no more so than Obama... just from different sides of the fence.... both people you either really like them or really despise them... :/ their really isn't a win win with the two. At least in my opinion.

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  • The Tedster's Avatar
    Posted by The Tedster Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:39pm PST

    Katie, I know. I'm an irony and hypocrisy freak. I've never seen such (and it's overused) polarization since I started watching elections in 1960. I do think that alot of Obama's problems are basic white distrust of a black man and not simply his policies despite all claims to contrary. I've never seen a pres have his birth certificate and religion questioned before. Don't know if you saw this or my post about it but the University of California at Irvine just released a study about the effects of race on attitudes. It discussed Obama and the election and it was very interesting at least to me. It's right up your alley. I'm guessing you could find it on google if you're interested.

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Sat Nov 21, 2009 8:21am PST

    Ted, I don't think him being a black man has that much to do with it.... however, his name does have a more Arabic or Muslim connotation to it (I can't remember if his whole name is Arabic or not). I bet that if he had different name that didn't sound Muslim then there would be more trust and people wouldn't be calling for his birth certificate.... I think it has more to do with the distrust of Muslims than it does Black people... does it make it right? No, not really... but I don't think that the majority of people that distrust him as a person (as opposed to just being a Democrat) are doing so because he is Black... But this is just my opinion.

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  • The Tedster's Avatar
    Posted by The Tedster Sat Nov 21, 2009 3:15pm PST

    Katie, I actually hope you're right and that I and the UCI study are wrong. However, I'd guess that w/ Obama it's both unfortunately. I also don't think for a second that Obama's election is any kind of referendum on racism but rather on W and Iraq and the economy. Love to be wrong.

    Ck out the study maybe on Google and see what you think?

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