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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

What is a mother's work really worth?

Salary.com

Salary.com

One of my favorite quotes in Laurie PK's Mother's Day post comes from the eminently quotable Anne Morrow Lindbergh: “By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.”

Add to that the fact that mothering work is unpaid, and it's a double whammy. True words like Lindbergh's are why it's both illuminating and depressing to put a dollar figure to the work mothers do at home. Just in time for Mother's Day, Salary.com has done that in its 9th annual mom salary survey. This year, a stay-at-home mom performing the 10 most popular "mom-job functions" does the work equivalent of a $122,732 salary, up 5 percent over last year's calculations. A mom who works outside the home 40 hours a week does work that equates to an annual cash compensation of $76,184, an 11 percent increase. A lucrative second job--if that second shift were actually a paid gig.

How do the folks at Salary.com arrive at such hefty numbers? First, they take 10 jobs that closely match the multiple jobs moms do at home. Think laundry machine operator, janitor, van driver, housekeeper, computer operator, cook, daycare center teacher, facilities manager, psychologist, and chief executive officer. Then they surveyed 12,150 moms to quantify their hours worked in each role for a typical week. Salary.com's compensation professionals weighted the different responsibilities of the job to determine the average mom's overall total compensation.

The (fake) salaries for mothers increased during a year salary increases are rare because Salary.com's researchers found that moms--stay-at-home and work-outside-the-home--are outsourcing less of the around-the-house jobs and, as a result, are putting in lots of "overtime." According to the survey, the working mom had 17 hours of overtime in addition to her full-time hours both at work and as a mom, and the stay-at-home mom worked 56 hours of overtime, bringing her work week to 96 hours. That's a lot of unpaid work.

So, what's the value in calculating the value of a mother's work if there is no way she'll ever get paid for it? Well, in a culture that assigns value in dollars, it's important to see in black and white the many jobs moms do and how those jobs are valued in the job market. It's also a way for Salary.com to highlight how its tools shed light on how employers set salaries for jobs.

"This is our ninth year looking at the value of mom's work. It has become a popular annual event because it not only recognizes the critical value of what moms do, but educates the public on the key factors that determine what employers are willing to pay for a given job," said Meredith Hanrahan, senior vice president at Salary.com, Inc. "We value the job of mom based on her job description and calculate what an employer would have to pay in cash if they were to hire someone to do all that a mom does."

Want to know what you or a mom in your life should get paid? You can use the Mom Salary Wizard, then create a fake mom paycheck and pay stub to be sent on Mother's Day. But here's the dilemma: Knowing how much a mom should get paid can be a good thing if those around her are recognizing the value of all she does. Or, it could just make her very sad that she can't cash that check for real.

What do you think? Is there value in assigning a dollar value to all moms do?


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  • Peace's Avatar
    Posted by Peace Wed May 6, 2009 7:48am PDT

    Just about every comment posted here is defensive, ignorant and I must say rather hostile. Perhaps, individuals with "mommy" issues? Lets not put down Mothers for staying home and raising their children. While a monetary value is speculative, (and obviously offensive to the above people), I believe the article was more of a "job well done" for Mothers in time for Mother's Day and not seriously to be placed on your resume with your salary requirements.

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  • Jett's Avatar
    Posted by Jett Wed May 6, 2009 7:52am PDT

    Sophie's Mom: I'm sorry if that's the case, but does knowing how much you would get paid if someone were to compensate you actually make you feel better or just make you more depressed? Whenever I see these mom's lists or housewives' lists, I just feel worse knowing I'm doing most of the housework AND the finances AND working 40 hours a week outside the home, but not only do I not get paid for a lot of that stuff, I am also not included on the list. Why are housewives considered to have it harder than I do?

    I think they need a new list. Thanks to all you people who work full-time and have stuff going on at home yet still find the time and the motivation to volunteer in the community and organize book clubs and writing clubs and type up your church's bulletin each week, for free.

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  • Jett's Avatar
    Posted by Jett Wed May 6, 2009 7:59am PDT

    Peace: Well, I hope I didn't sound like I was "putting down" stay-at-home moms, because that wasn't my intention. My hope is that when I have children I will be able to stay at home with them, too, which is why I'm working so hard right now to become independent from the workforce, so I can work from home later. All I was saying was that other people deserve praise too, like dads, and working moms.

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  • Leah's Avatar
    Posted by Leah Wed May 6, 2009 8:14am PDT

    This article does address the working mother, she would supposedly bring home another 76,000 for working her "second shift" at home. I've stayed out the mommy wars as best I can, everyone does what works best for them. *shrug*

    As a SAHM I don't really like this whole list. Every mom every day is not a nutritionist, preschool teacher, housekeeper: some days you just make a box of mac and cheese, put in a movie and let the house stay messy. Should our imaginary pay be docked those days?

    How much would my husband's "second shift" paycheck be when you factor in lawn care, house repairs, spiritual leader (how much is a bedtime prayer worth?), woodcutter during winter, gardener in spring and summer.

    I think that in a way trying to pin $ signs on the role of Mother is actually kind of condescending. "We know you're never gonna make a dime but here is what you could be worth if you had a real job!"

    Everything in life is not measured by dollars and cents.

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    Posted by Wed May 6, 2009 8:19am PDT

    Yeah Peace, why is everyone so hostile? I think it's because NOBODY appreciates mothers. If we did there would be better maternity leave in the country. And I don't need to justify anything that I do for anyone else, just my husband. My husband and his friends sit around and talk about stay at home moms and how lazy they are. So, some women need to feel like they have worth. Mostly from the people who are supposed to love them the most.

    Jett, you don't have any kids... I used to think like you before I had children. And then I got a cold hard smack in the face with reality. I love my child to death but it is a lot of work. And I absolutely agree with the quote; “By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.” There just isn't free time anymore. Don't call your pets children. They are not. It is not the same thing. I love animals and if I could teach my cat to speak english, I would marry him. But he is not a child.

    But, my main point is not that we want to show the world what we do and have the world appreciate it, but rather we would like to have our husbands appreciate us. Unfortunately, that does not happen for all of us.

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  • cynthia's Avatar
    Posted by cynthia Wed May 6, 2009 8:21am PDT

    I love both of my children very much. I am proud of the good kids they are and the good people they will be in the world. But in all honesty, if I had my life to live over again, I would choose not to have children. That does not mean I don't want them, or that I am not happy to have them. I am. They are great kids. They are cute and funny and smart. But I had no clue as to how completely and vastly your life changes. The profound effect on your career, and ladies believe me it is ALL on you. It is hard. It is endless. And all people have a choice as to the type of life they want. One of my kids clearly says they don't want children of their own..Ironic, isn't it.

    I think they have observed some of the things I have gone through and said "Wow, no thanks to that!"

    I do love them, I just wouldn't do it again, and I have to admit, I am beyond thrilled that they are both going to be in college starting this September. I am going to spend the rest of my life looking at a beach and writing.

    Mom is retiring...

    Don't come looking for Ma Mere.

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Wed May 6, 2009 8:29am PDT

    o get over it!! stay at home moms have exsisted FOREVER why does any one care all of a sudden what their work is worth? so they can throw it in their husbands face I guess?? its a moms responsibility to do that stuff always has been and always will be so tell me what is the point in assigning a dollar value? seriously, it just gives them another reason to keep complaining that they do so much work yada yada yada. Yes stay at home moms dont get paid- like I said before GET OVER IT!!

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  • Dubs's Avatar
    Posted by Dubs Wed May 6, 2009 8:43am PDT

    Sorry Jett if I sounded negative but read my last sentence of my original post , no way am I unappreciative to what sacrifices my mother has made for me.

    I just don't need one day out of the year to make up the difference for the other 364 to treat my mother like the invaluable person she is. She actually can't stand these kinds of holidays because she knows its pointless to focus solely on one day with chock full of silly expectations. *shrug* Spontanaeity is the best policy, when you don't expect something thats when you realize how appreciated you are when someone makes the effort to show they care by their own initiative alone.

    I am just pointing out that this company Salary.com makes money by inflating or deflating a mother's sense of self worth on this particular holiday with improbable tangential $ associations to actual occupations. They sugar coat it by all the hourly formulas but they don't include how one would be taxed with all that variety of income LOL. They are really just looking for web traffic in order to meet advertising benchmarks.

    Ladies & Gents...Love doesn't cost a thing...if you consider your role as a parent "work" so be it, I personally consider it "love". To each their own.

    Take the effort to be spontaneous about your appreciation for the people you love and you won't be swayed by silly Hallmark Holidays that rely / prey on your well earned capital. Cheers.

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Wed May 6, 2009 8:50am PDT

    posted by Dubs:

    Love doesn't cost a thing...if you consider your role as a parent "work" so be it, I personally consider it "love". To each their own.

    - couldn't have said it better myself! Thanks for putting it so eloquently

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  • Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger's Avatar
    Posted by Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger Wed May 6, 2009 8:55am PDT

    Interesting. Same old, same old. This "old" news increased a stay-at-home Mom's worth a bit (counting for inflation, I guess) but it's really just a way to say Moms count for something. Don't we already know that? Moms, most Moms, don't need to figure out how much they are worth in dollars and cents. It's the hugs, the tears they dry, the dinners they cook, and the many, many family gatherings they organize, that give them the thanks they need.

    I used to think a dollar amount was important - when I was a stay-at-home Mom with 3 young kids. But, those kids are grown, I'm a grandmom now, and the thanks of having my family is all I need.

    To the person who said raising children is the easiest job you will ever have - hmmm... what planet do you live on? Some days it's easy as pie, others it's harder than being a construction worker.

    Here's to Moms and Dads - cause without them, society wouldn't be here at all! Raising kids is rewarding, regardless of how much work you think it is. Nothing is better than helping your children become successful adults. IMHO

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