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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

What is a mother's work really worth?

Salary.com

Salary.com

One of my favorite quotes in Laurie PK's Mother's Day post comes from the eminently quotable Anne Morrow Lindbergh: “By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.”

Add to that the fact that mothering work is unpaid, and it's a double whammy. True words like Lindbergh's are why it's both illuminating and depressing to put a dollar figure to the work mothers do at home. Just in time for Mother's Day, Salary.com has done that in its 9th annual mom salary survey. This year, a stay-at-home mom performing the 10 most popular "mom-job functions" does the work equivalent of a $122,732 salary, up 5 percent over last year's calculations. A mom who works outside the home 40 hours a week does work that equates to an annual cash compensation of $76,184, an 11 percent increase. A lucrative second job--if that second shift were actually a paid gig.

How do the folks at Salary.com arrive at such hefty numbers? First, they take 10 jobs that closely match the multiple jobs moms do at home. Think laundry machine operator, janitor, van driver, housekeeper, computer operator, cook, daycare center teacher, facilities manager, psychologist, and chief executive officer. Then they surveyed 12,150 moms to quantify their hours worked in each role for a typical week. Salary.com's compensation professionals weighted the different responsibilities of the job to determine the average mom's overall total compensation.

The (fake) salaries for mothers increased during a year salary increases are rare because Salary.com's researchers found that moms--stay-at-home and work-outside-the-home--are outsourcing less of the around-the-house jobs and, as a result, are putting in lots of "overtime." According to the survey, the working mom had 17 hours of overtime in addition to her full-time hours both at work and as a mom, and the stay-at-home mom worked 56 hours of overtime, bringing her work week to 96 hours. That's a lot of unpaid work.

So, what's the value in calculating the value of a mother's work if there is no way she'll ever get paid for it? Well, in a culture that assigns value in dollars, it's important to see in black and white the many jobs moms do and how those jobs are valued in the job market. It's also a way for Salary.com to highlight how its tools shed light on how employers set salaries for jobs.

"This is our ninth year looking at the value of mom's work. It has become a popular annual event because it not only recognizes the critical value of what moms do, but educates the public on the key factors that determine what employers are willing to pay for a given job," said Meredith Hanrahan, senior vice president at Salary.com, Inc. "We value the job of mom based on her job description and calculate what an employer would have to pay in cash if they were to hire someone to do all that a mom does."

Want to know what you or a mom in your life should get paid? You can use the Mom Salary Wizard, then create a fake mom paycheck and pay stub to be sent on Mother's Day. But here's the dilemma: Knowing how much a mom should get paid can be a good thing if those around her are recognizing the value of all she does. Or, it could just make her very sad that she can't cash that check for real.

What do you think? Is there value in assigning a dollar value to all moms do?


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  • Dinoman's Avatar
    Posted by Dinoman Thu May 14, 2009 1:43pm PDT

    Oh yeah and for the guy saying that there is very little work in the modern home: You are an idiot. This ain't the world of the Jetsons son. Dual income households don't have as much house cleaning to do, because the children aren't in the house to make it a mess. Not every house, mine included, has a dishwasher. Some of us actually spend time each day doing educational activities with our children, and don't consider food that comes from a can or a window to be a viable dinner option. In short what I am saying is this: when you talk about something you know nothing about it is easy for you to end up looking like an ass, as you have done several times.

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  • KellyS's Avatar
    Posted by KellyS Fri May 15, 2009 10:01am PDT

    Well said Dinoman. :)

    First off, I think everyone is reading way too much into this article. It is simply a hypothetical, just-for-fun read.

    Second, just like in the "working world", there are different types of SAHM (and Dads). You have the lazy ones who sit on their butts all day watching soap operas while their houses get messier, their children are rude and ill-mannered and are tv addicts, and who serve fast food on a daily basis. Then you have the "princess" types who have maids and nannies to do all the work while they get pampered at spas and talk about how exhausting their children are when in reality they have no clue. And last, you have the rest of us. We are the ones that you can't put a price tag on because we are priceless and actually work our butts off because we love our children and are doing our best to raise them RIGHT. We keep our houses clean (and that doesn't mean just having clean dishes and floors-I'm talking about a true, deep-down clean like you would've found back in the 1950's). We have well-groomed, well-behaved children who we have taught to have good manners and be respectful of others, who do well academically because we understand the value of schoolwork and we support our teachers by helping our kids with their daily homework and projects. Our kids are involved in sports or extra-curricular activities, but aren't over-scheduled because we understand that children need downtime to just play and be kids. Our kids can tie their own shoes, and are as independent as developmentally appropriate for their specific ages. They learn how to walk, talk, sing, write, read because WE taught them how. We give them the love and guidance that they need so that they have enough confidence to go out into the world one day and become hard-working, independent, giving, caring members of society who don't put others down. We ourselves are the first ones awake in the morning and the last ones to bed at night, and we rarely stop in between. Yes, we might catch a bit of tv at night, but it's usually done while folding the endless laundry or while mopping during commercial breaks.

    Yes, becoming a parent is a choice. And deciding to be a great mom or dad is an even bigger and better choice. And while reading all of the rude, belittling comments on here, it is very apparent that some of you were raised by parents who chose not to be great...and that's just sad.

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  • john's Avatar
    Posted by john Fri May 15, 2009 11:36am PDT

    It's funny how all the stay-at-home-parents on this board happen to be super parents. They won't let their kids eat canned food. Are you serious? Mopping during commercial breaks. Are you kidding? You people must think we're all stupid.

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  • john's Avatar
    Posted by john Fri May 15, 2009 11:44am PDT

    Just so you men are aware of something...

    Many have thrown around the word "choice" here. This is NOT your choice men. It is your wife's choice. If she wants to stay home you can pitch a fit if you want but there's nothing you can do about it. Well, I geuss there's one thing you can do - get a divorce, right? Your two choices are 1. stay married - live in your house with your kids while you take care of her, or 2. divorce - live in a small apartment or trailor WITHOUT your kids while you take care of her (her and both your attorneys will have the vast majority of your wealth). This is the truth. The "ball and chain" is real.

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  • KellyS's Avatar
    Posted by KellyS Fri May 15, 2009 3:21pm PDT

    John: I really do mop during commercials. I also do exercises during commercials...it's how I can continue to stay in great shape after having 4 kids. I never claimed to be a "super parent" but I think I'm about as close as you can get. And so are many other moms and dads out there. We're not all lazy slobs who sit around and do nothing all day. It's obvious that you have some issues with women and need to get over it. Not all women are "ball and chains" like the ones you've experienced.

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  • Lady R.B.'s Avatar
    Posted by Lady R.B. Sun May 17, 2009 4:55pm PDT

    I hear you so true, it is a choices I had to do that for a long time I worked 2 job's. It was not easy. But I did it. I worked tell I had my son.then I stayed home for about a month then, I went back to work. full time 40 hr's a week. then after a couple of year's. Now I am a stay at home. this is my day wake up make breakfast, home school,answer phone accept packges, do lundry, vaccumm,filing,bookkepping,let's say, Run a bussiness in our home.

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  • john's Avatar
    Posted by john Sun May 17, 2009 7:04pm PDT

    There's that word "choice" again. Remember guys this is her choice. You have no power in making this decision at all. Once your wife chooses to stay home with your kid(s) you will have to take care of her for the rest of your life. Once the kid(s) are grown she will have little to no earnings power even if she shows any inclination to return to work. So while she's retired at say 40 you'll be busting your ass to support the lifestyle she's used to (which is required by law in a divorce case).

    Here's a little known fact you guys need to be aware of: during divorce/custody proceedings almost all women use their kid's time as leverage against Dad. If Dad wants to see his kids more he has to pay more in the settlement or alimony. This happens in "family" courts every day. Yes, this is in America.

    Guys, this is the most important advice you'll ever receive - DO NOT, under any circumstance, get married. Odds are this will be the worst mistake, by far, you'll ever make in your lifetime. Marriage is a welfare system for women, nothing more. The "ball and chain" is very real.

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  • b's Avatar
    Posted by b Wed May 20, 2009 7:33pm PDT

    KM you obviously have never had a child. I would LOVE to watch you maintain a house, deal with a screaming baby by your self all day, get up all through the night, wake up whenever your child decides to wake up and go to bed whenever they decide to go to sleep. We do not get a break, no weekends off, no sick days, and we can't take a "vacation" from being a parent. SAHM is a 24/7 job.

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  • L.'s Avatar
    Posted by L. Tue Nov 3, 2009 9:07pm PST

    I get that stay at home mom is a full time job. I do not for one secon want to intimate that it isnt. just being home alone with my kids on the weekends or shcool holidays stresses me beyond belief. However, it drives me crazy that many suggest a stay at home mom does MORE than a working mom. I have to do all of the things the stay at home mom does only I have less time to do it AND i have a 40+ hour per week job that I must complete as well. I shouldnt have read this blog it just annoyed me :(

    This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Who is watching your kids all day while you work? Someone? Who's getting paid? Ok well that's what we are doing all day. I'm feeding them, taking them places, wiping their butts and cleaning up after them nonstop, dealing with tantrums, fussy kids, and crying. While you work. You are not doing that AND working.

    This was a simple article to point out all the unpaid labor that mothers do, and of course everyone has got to bash them, utterly MISSING THE POINT.

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