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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Will you work when you're eighty?

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I spend every Sunday visiting my 94-year old grandmother. She is unusually healthy and independent for her age. But what strikes me most about her is that she is lacking in purpose. Little things take on big importance because not very much happens from day to day. And she is always looking back at the period in her life when she felt useful and productive. When she could do things and go places. This experience, coupled with the fact that I really enjoy my work, makes me think I will likely work until I can no longer work.

The interesting thing is that my grandmother doesn’t even understand what I do -- a common issue for people who age and lose connection to the workforce. In fact, we had a running debate on whether “blog” was a real word since it wasn’t in her dictionary. Finally, she saw a reference on CNN to Larry King’s blog and then an article in her Readers Digest about blogs, and she conceded that I was not making up this work I claimed to do. Since my grandmother has never been on the Internet, I can understand why blogs don’t seem real. And thought it’s easy for me to say I’ll commit to staying current on the ways people work, I do wonder how hard that will be once yet to be envisioned tools are created by those generations younger than I.

All this made me pleased to discover the blog, “Staying Vertical: Dispatches from the Old Old on Work and Happiness,” relating to a book in progress by Ashton Applewhite (hat tip to Deborah Siegel for turning me on to Applewhite’s work.) Applewhite says she is looking at both paid and volunteer work done by the very old, and she says it hasn’t been at all difficult to find octogenarians at work.

The inspiration for Applewhite's project came from her in-laws, Ruth and Bill Stein, a couple in their mid-eighties who work as entrepreneurs in book sales, a career they both started in their mid-fifties. (Listen to the recorded interview of the Steins for a quick dose of inspiration).

Applewhite is exploring fascinating questions like “Will your job do you in or keep you going?” (Sounds like work can keep us going, but only if it’s the right kind of work. Enagaging but not relentlessly boring or too physically taxing.)

What are your thoughts about working into old age?
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  • Doktor Eevol's Avatar
    Posted by Doktor Eevol Fri Jul 10, 2009 3:39pm PDT

    I think I'd settle to be happy living that long in the first place, working or not.

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  • trustme69's Avatar
    Posted by trustme69 Fri Jul 10, 2009 4:30pm PDT

    I did quit my corporate , stressful job. I make less money (a lot less). I tapped into a hobby that turned lucrative and am living happily ever after. I make less money but I'm so much happier. Turned my whole life around. I'll probably stay active in my well into my golden years. As long as I'm healthy - I believe age is just a number.

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  • lindy m's Avatar
    Posted by lindy m Fri Jul 10, 2009 5:13pm PDT

    Dubs is so right the Baby Boomers have sucked the life out of this country

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  • Melissa N's Avatar
    Posted by Melissa N Fri Jul 10, 2009 5:21pm PDT

    Why not? I found having to be home due to unemployment was awful enough. I can't imagine not having a job for years on end.

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  • Sesame seed's Avatar
    Posted by Sesame seed Fri Jul 10, 2009 7:23pm PDT

    I work like a dog now and honestly I cannot imagine doing this at 80 yrs old. Im a nurse, and people treat us like dogs. The reason you dont see old nurses is because after you get to be about 40 yrs old, its too much to handle. The pay is low and the pace is outrageous.

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  • Mona Liza Mendoza's Avatar
    Posted by Mona Liza Mendoza Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:24am PDT

    YES.

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:25am PDT

    From the time we are small, we are on a schedule. First, there's the elementary school bell schedule. Then there's the high school schedule including after hours jobs or sports. Then there is, for some of us, the university schedule followed by years of a work force schedule.

    At some point, we all need to say " NO MORE" and take time to smell the flowers or just lie in bed all morning.

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  • Rocky Raccoon's Avatar
    Posted by Rocky Raccoon Sat Jul 11, 2009 1:58pm PDT

    Idle time...Idle thoughts....work is therapy....and it keeps you young and your mind sharp.....besides idleness is the devil's workshop....Work till ya drop...

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  • nagendra's Avatar
    Posted by nagendra Sat Jul 11, 2009 4:32pm PDT

    I like to workas long as i can.I t should not be taxing .It may not be money yielding but should be learning and useful to someone if not me

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  • Stephan's Avatar
    Posted by Stephan Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:18pm PDT

    This is a great topic point. I had a neighbor who was 93 and mowed my yard. He would do anything that he was asked, but you had to be specific. In other words, if you want an elderly person to do something you must give them the rules and guidlines. They can do anything that you want to get done and I encourage you to use them because they need the interaction and value of being useful.

    Stephan

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