Would you believe that guys are loyal to you.

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  Posted by Nancy Grace Sun Oct 25, 2009 7:20pm PDT

  I have lived in New York all my life,after ending a 14 year relationship by turning down a proposal from the father of my girls, I moved to South Carolina. I never really wanted to get married and spent the last 4 years doing whatever I wanted.Now at 32, I am uber lonely down here. It is hard to go out and socialize either cuz the women are married and cannot go out or the men you meet are married and lie about it.

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  Posted by Anisha Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:01pm PDT

  HOW COULD I EVEN THINK ABOUT MARRIAGE IF YOU HAVENT FOUND MY SOUL MATE. I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS OR ANYBODY JUST BECAUSE I WANT TO THE LABEL AS A WIFE.I AM SO FAR FROM LOVE I AM STILL LEARNIN TO LOVE MYSELF SO HOW COULD I LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. NOW TELL ME I AM NOT LOST.

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  Posted by Anisha Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:01pm PDT

  HOW COULD I EVEN THINK ABOUT MARRIAGE IF YOU HAVENT FOUND MY SOUL MATE. I WILL NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS OR ANYBODY JUST BECAUSE I WANT TO THE LABEL AS A WIFE.I AM SO FAR FROM LOVE I AM STILL LEARNIN TO LOVE MYSELF SO HOW COULD I LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. NOW TELL ME I AM NOT LOST.

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  Posted by Wilber Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:18pm PDT

  Hay

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  Posted by Wilber Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:19pm PDT

  Hay

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  Posted by Desiree Mon Oct 26, 2009 10:23am PDT

  I live in a small town in Ga..I am not sure I am ready for marrige. I am 33 years old...I do not go out to bars so my question is how do you meet people? I try dating sites and thats doing ok..But I like what the other lady wrote "I am learning to love myself..so how could I love someone else" true. To all those never been married thirty something ladies...I want to tell you...the BEST is to come for us all! peace. D

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  Posted by sbluereal Mon Oct 26, 2009 10:57am PDT

  Hi, am 23, but have no girl and i don't know how to approach one, even the one i love sincerely, can you help me out?

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  Posted by Carly Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:02pm PDT

  Just be yourself, and tell her how you feel. Thats the best feeling in the world. If she doesn't feel the same way thats okay too, just telling her how you feel is a big step.

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  Posted by Johnny Knoxville Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:38am PDT

  I never really dated in Elementary School or High School. Too shy for one reason and for two I was ashamed of my parents. My dad being he didn't like other children and for two didn't like people from the south. My mom was a bit on the weird side too. I met my ex on a blind date back in 1992. My college buddy thought that I was going to be a hermit if I didn't find a girl. She was already 7 months pregnant when I met her and I didn't mind at all! I loved her and I still miss her so much but the main problem was her thinking that she was better than other people, money problems and never wanting a normal date with me. We were together for 13 years. Divorced 3 years now. She met the doctor of her dreams and I am living life with a broken heart and can't find a girl that will get me head over heels dead drunk in love.

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  Posted by Appletini Tue Oct 27, 2009 2:21pm PDT

  I am at the phase in life where MOST of my friends are getting married,having kids and settling down. I am not. I haven't figured out my life yet, but when I do then the rest will fall into place. That being said. sure, it makes me sort of sick that people I once partied with have "sold out" and moved away to other cities, or started families and don't really think I have a life of my own because I am not settled down.

  I personally don't want to ruin my body with pregnancy (still fit in a size four jeans), be up at 2AM breastfeeding or have baby puke on my clothes. I love my stilettos and designer wardrobe. I look WAYY younger than I am and still get carded, while my high school friends have aged considerably and are all fat.

  But...do I really want to settle for just anybody? Fck no. I learned very hard lessons during the past six or seven years about finding the right guy and made horrible mistakes in the process. There are days I wish I could take some things back. But I always have the chance to start over in my case it is later rather than sooner. And know what? My marriage will last because of it. I don't want to be a "smug married." I need someone who allows me freedom, spoils me rotten (with love) and has his finances and career in order. And still lets me party when I need to blow off steam. :)

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