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Monday, November 9, 2009

Would you hire a pregnant woman?

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Most of us can probably remember a boss or two who would have liked to ask if we planned to have children and when during an interview but held his (or her) tongue and took a gamble. I entered the work force at a time when managers knew they couldn't ask those questions, but there were plenty before them who did, and others who didn't but made a decision to avoid hiring a soon-to-be pregnant woman at all cost -- forget hiring a pregnant woman for an open position.

So much has changed, right? It has at many companies, but a British survey of managers found some disheartening yet honest answers when only 5 percent said they have knowingly hired a pregnant woman. Another 52 percent said that when making a hire they try to figure out if and when a woman will get pregnant, taking into account her age (if they know it?) and whether she is recently married. And a pretty solid majority (68) percent said they would like to ask job candidates about their plans to start a family during interviews.

As if planning is everything. There are lots of things in life we have control over and many more we don't, and pregnancy is one of them. Life throws lots of disruptions at us, long and short, that we have to move work schedules around. When an employee works hard and does a good job before and after those life changes/disruptions, most good managers and co-workers are willing to adjust schedules and job responsibilities in the short-term for the long-term greater good.

Christina Bielaszka-DuVernay, editor of the Harvard Management Update
, notes that it's understandable managers would want to avoid the inconvenience, costs, and responsibility-shifting needed when a new hire goes on leave within a year -- whether it's for 12 weeks unpaid, as it is for most U.S. employees, or up to 52 weeks partially paid as allowed by U.K. law. "But at the same time I wonder how many managers consider that, in passing over pregnant candidates, they might be missing out on long-term value in the form of intense employee loyalty?" she writes.

Bielaszka-DuVernay was hired when she was 8 months pregnant, and her employer, Harvard Business School Publishing, treated her leave as any other employee's even though it was not required by law to do so. The result: Yes, an intensely loyal employee.

"I was in l-o-v-e: with the job, with my boss, with the organization. I worked at work, and then I went home and worked some more, wherever I could wedge it in: in the evening between feedings, on weekends, and during holidays. I even pulled a few all-nighters for big projects, compensating for the caffeine intake by giving my infant a bottle instead of nursing him at his next feeding. And rarely, if ever, did this feel burdensome. I was just paying my boss and my company back."

Most of us would do and feel the same.

So, managers, do you guess when someone may or may not get pregnant when making a hiring decision, or does it not even make your list of criteria? Would you hire a pregnant woman if she was the right person for the position?

Some questions for all of us: Have you ever been hired when pregnant? Or do you think you've been passed over for new jobs, promotions in your current jobs, and certain assignments because you were pregnant or a boss thought you would be, one day soon?





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  • MACKENZIE DOBBINS's Avatar
    Posted by MACKENZIE DOBBINS Thu May 1, 2008 6:57am PDT

    I got hired on for my first full time job when I was pregnant. My boss told me she did not notice at the interview, but on my first day I was 8 months and couldn't hide it, but she said she was happy that I was almost due and able to come back soon. The only thing I did not like was having to go on my maternity leave without pay.

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  • Beth's Avatar
    Posted by Beth Thu May 1, 2008 7:38am PDT

    I could understand an employer's frustration at hiring someone who is already pregnant. Because it takes alot of time and money to train the person, and then have them leave for a few months, so you have to hire a temp and train them for the job as well. I do not believe that they should try to "estimate" when you might get pregnant and hold that against you though. That's almost like saying "Wow Bob is 55 years old, he is a good candidate for heart disease and pancreatic cancer I don't think I'll hire him".

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  • kst8ter's Avatar
    Posted by kst8ter Thu May 1, 2008 7:55am PDT

    Definitely! I used to run a restaurant and quite frequently hired women who were pregnant. Besides the fact that it isn't good hiring practice to not, discriminatory, they turned out to be good employees for the most part.

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  • EmilyH's Avatar
    Posted by EmilyH Thu May 1, 2008 8:09am PDT

    My current employer hired me just before my wedding, and made special arrangements to keep me on at a reduced schedule (and higher hourly rate) when we had to move an hour away for my husband's work. They are fully aware that we intend to start a family within the next few years, but they know that I will do good work for them, and that I appreciate their loyalty and flexibility toward me as much as they appreciate mine toward them. I do not know what the outcome will be when I do succeed in getting pregnant; I figure I will cross that bridge when I come to it, but I would not be surprised if they decided to find a way for me to work from home a few days a week. I feel very lucky to have found such a flexible company to work for.

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  • tjthomas30297's Avatar
    Posted by tjthomas30297 Thu May 1, 2008 6:08pm PDT

    I was hired to my first real executive position while I was pregnate. I had no idea that i was 3 months along. However, i did disclose it to my boss as soon as i found out. I still used all 7 months to make myself an asset to the company. And while on maternity leave i did make myself available via email and emergency phone calls. It made the 8weeks go by smoothly for my staff and reassured my boss that I was going to return.

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  • Mastercraft Exteriors's Avatar
    Posted by Mastercraft Exteriors Fri May 2, 2008 6:29am PDT

    Why wouldn't you?

    Our company believes in equal rights.

    Mastercraft Exteriors would definitely hire a pregnant woman!

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  • lm's Avatar
    Posted by lm Fri May 2, 2008 1:00pm PDT

    The risk factor IS SO HIGH

    put yourself in the bosses place

    Depending on the job and the trainin time it takes and the health risk makes a huge difference

    Should a pregnant women get/take a job in a factory that produces poisons?

    She's 3 months pregnant and she hires on to be a fire fighter

    Stop thinking about sexiam so much as commonsense needs to rule

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  • Shadow's Avatar
    Posted by Shadow Sat May 3, 2008 1:47pm PDT

    I can see where the companies are coming from. It's a huge risk to hire a pregnant woman. You have to train them, integrate them, and pay them while they're training. Many women do not return to the workforce after having a baby, so those funds are lost and a new canidate must be hired. I have always looked at it like this - You have 2 choices, a career or a family. I chose a career. I'd rather be independent than dependent.

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  • ~::DarKSouL::~'s Avatar
    Posted by ~::DarKSouL::~ Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:53am PDT

    Well its hard too coz she's gonna be in pain and gonna be hard 4 her to wORK..

    It will take alotta time to train her!

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  • Karen's Avatar
    Posted by Karen Fri Mar 6, 2009 1:40pm PST

    Whoever thinks a woman has to choose between a having a career and raising a family is very closed-minded. I have a demanding career but would like to one day raise a family and still continue in my career. It can be done.

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