Bummed. . .

My dad is in the military and my family is getting moved around this time next year. So about a year or two before we move, we always talk about where we would like to live for the next couple years. Well this time my family has the opportunity to move to California where we have friends, a good chance of moving to, and where I was born. But as usual, there's a catch. My mom told me that if we move there, my dad would most likely be deployed and would work longer hours. Now in his field, it would be fairly safe, but he'd be gone for a while. On the other hand, I've wanted to go back there since I was a little girl and the guy I like {whose one of our family friends} also lives nearby. I really don't know what to say becuase if I told my dad I wanted to move somewhere else, it could have an impact on his decision; but yet I feel like my family including me has had to sacrifice enough for the military the way it is. I've had to leave my best friends, favorite schools, and my home for the military and I don't think I could handle much more. Any suggestions?

                                                                                                                     ~ Eclipse.rocky