Growing up my father always commented about housewives who sit
around all day watching soaps on tv are only causing their own
unhappiness. I always thought he was overreacting, I mean
seriously, it's a tv show. But in recent months I have accidentally
created my own experiment and I'm beginning to wonder if my dad was
right.
Six months ago I started my own freelance business, mostly out of
necessity from a shotty job market. I soon realized the only thing
that sucks about working from home is that you completely miss out
on the social aspect of constantly working with other people. To
counteract the overly quietness of my house durring the day, I'll
sometimes turn on the television to have other voices/movement in
the background. When I take breaks, I'll sometimes sit and actually
watch what's on, and within a few weeks I found myself totally
engrosed in daytime drama. On the days I had to be out for a
meeting or an on-site job, I relied on my DVR to hold my shows for
me until I could return home and watch them. Basically I was
addicted.
I had plenty of days during this time that I was not the best
version of myself. Much quicker to feel irritated at my husband,
and basically the world around me. I would get so caught up in the
emotion of the shows that it would find it's way into my life. And
I'd find myself thinking about things I would never normally even
let cross my mind. Would my best friend try to steal my husband?
Would I turn to an old lover if he wanted me back? Why doesn't my
husband constantly confess his undying love to me?
The accidental experiment came when, after a major wind storm, the
cable went out at my house for over a week. Then, a few weeks later
I got too busy with things to be able to watch my DVR'd shows. And
most recently, the overlap of football and baseball has caused my
husband to dominate the television that holds all the DVR shows,
and I haven't had a chance to watch them during the day because of
my crazy busy workload recently.
Today I noticed how much better I've felt at the times I didn't
watch my daytime addiction anymore. The obsession has really worn
off after a few weeks of neglect, and I don't think those crazy
thoughts anymore. I'm much more content with the lack of drama that
real life actually has. And my moral scope has been restored.
Perhaps my dad was right?
Has television drama/soap operas destroyed what we think is normal
in life? Do they screw up with our feelings of happyness and
contentment?
I'd love to know what you think.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Can Drama TV Ruin Your Perspective?
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