Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Carolina Girl is Confused???

 Hey!!! To all those blogers out there, i am kinda knew to this so if i am doing something a little wrong...Please let me know. I just really wanted to write something today..Im kinda mad!!! Ladies??? Do you get mad when a guy lies to you??? Not just any guy though. You really like this guy. and you tyink... Well thought he was kinda in to you. He didnt even confess. I found out from someone who doesnt live here... You know... the lie this guy said... Its a kind of a small lie. I would tell you what it was... But again. Im new to blog. Begginers Jitters. Anyways I need advice from you guys. Do i pretend that i dont know and live with pain??? Or do i Confront him and get on his case about hurting me??? Help me out here...

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sun Mar 15, 2009 5:28pm PDT

    I strongly dislike liers and cheaters and thieves. I've had more men lie to me than a rug, and it seems that most of them do. I've run into good ones too, and they are my best male buds. I know I can trust them no matter what. But the ones I've been involved in, trying to find the right one, always seemed to turn wrong. But don't worry. Sooner or later a good one will come! I have to keep telling myself that. I hope you have a great evening!!! (((Hugs)))!!! By the way, I'm TasselLady!! It's nice to meet you!!

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  • Handsome man ha's Avatar
    Posted by Handsome man ha Sun Mar 15, 2009 5:29pm PDT

    well: according to Singles & Dating they has responsibility together

    As Family & Relationships are very important also you should

    be glad today

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sun Mar 15, 2009 5:47pm PDT

    May every Jack has his Jill. Still Don't have a date?

    Check out__Mixed Friends. c o m__

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  • LADY-JANE's Avatar
    Posted by LADY-JANE Sun Mar 15, 2009 5:52pm PDT

    WELCOME SWEETIE,

    ARE YOU POSITIVE ABOUT THE LIE...........ASK HIM IN A MANNER THAT IS A QUESTION AND NOT ACCUSING AND YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO READ HIS FACE IF YOU KNOW HIM AS WELL AS YOU SAY............MEN A MUCH MORE PERCEPTIVE TO A QUESTION THAN BEING ACCUSED OF SOMETHING THEY MAY OR MAYNOT HAVE SAID OR DONE, SAME FOR WOMEN...........GOOD LUCK

    HUGZZZZZZZZ AND MORE SWEETIE............

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  • ms.understod's Avatar
    Posted by ms.understod Sun Mar 15, 2009 5:57pm PDT

    Girl,Ihave been married for 9 years so i know a little.It is acording to what the lie was.Is it worth fighting over?If it is that important to you just approch the problem carefuly.Simply ask him about it and let him know how u feel about it.If u just go off on him he will also feel like u disrespected him also and u are just to much drama.So think about it and handle it like a confident person.

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  • Elizabeth's Avatar
    Posted by Elizabeth Sun Mar 15, 2009 6:10pm PDT

    Most people tell lies in one form or another. To cover a lie with another lie....Well that is putting the icing on the cake for you. You will decide to keep him or not when that time comes for you. Weigh it out. Just how important is he to you. Does he meet you half way. Who is booting the bills? Think it over with a clear mind. The Best To You. Elizabeth.

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  • Sarah's Avatar
    Posted by Sarah Mon Mar 16, 2009 12:49pm PDT

    hey ,

    they call me tink im trying to figure out things about my man to hes been lieing to me and it sux i dont know what to do hes been acting strange also. but ummm about your comfussion if its not something to fight over then dont worry if you care for him enough to forgive him do it if you want to talk to him about go for it when i first got with my man we had the same problems and would always fight over little stuff and it wasnt even worth the trouble even when we have a son together but right now 3 1/2 yrss later he started this job and been acting very strangelife is very comfussing !!!!!!

    p.s

    good luck hope it works out

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  • Clara's Avatar
    Posted by Clara Wed Mar 25, 2009 12:57am PDT

    this guy that i thought his the one for me ,if talk to if he love his wife he would always said no.he called her monster.And doesn't like to talk when it becomes to relationship .I paid the bills,support him financially,pretty much everything.But everytime we have problem he live me for while,and the way he communicate me,when his not around.Then he would tell all his friend of how bad he was treated,and he would not admit or aknowledge that he is part of it..

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