Does it bother you when your significant other tells you of his/her past sexual experiences?

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For some odd reason I was never bothered by past boyfriends tales of sexual experiences with their ex girlie friends.  I would sit content and listen as they told me what "so and so" would do to them. And, every so often, I would tell a little story of my own past sexual experiences.  I'm dating this guy now, and I REALLY like him, we are hitting it off PERFECTLY.  Anyway, it erks the heck out of me when he mentions past lovers/relationships.  Why?  Of course, I don't let him know that I'm jealous by no means!  But, I know some of you have to know how I feel.  I mean, is it maybe cause I really like-like (love!) him, or am I overreacting?  Do you find it disrespectful when your lover tells you some things that went on in the past with other lovers, especially when you HAVEN'T asked?
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  • bipsy rose's Avatar
    Posted by bipsy rose Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:04am PST

    I understand i think it's kind of disrespectful. If a guy is still talking about his ex's and their sexual experiences that probably means that he's not over them. Start getting into real detail about your old flings and see if he squirms.

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  • princess's Avatar
    Posted by princess Fri Nov 14, 2008 11:57am PST

    bipsy rose...It is disrespectful. Might try your idea about telling him of my old flings (in detail!)

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  • The Definition of REAL!!!'s Avatar
    Posted by The Definition of REAL!!! Thu Jan 29, 2009 6:44am PST

    It does bother me to say the least. I don't give a crap about what your muskrat ex did to you and for you. If he can't move on from what was, he needs to get with it or get lost. Let the dude know that you really don't care! He trying to get a rise out of you. Men play games like that.

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  • Kozmos Klein-Kex-Q'Emet's Avatar
    Posted by Kozmos Klein-Kex-Q'Emet Sun Sep 6, 2009 12:16pm PDT

    I think it is painful. on the other hand it is a sign of trust. I prefer being told even if there are present escapados...to being lied to.

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